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  • #31
    Re: 51yr old man married to a 16 yr old girl, NOT MUSLIM

    It's called makeup and dressing older

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    • #32
      Re: 51yr old man married to a 16 yr old girl, NOT MUSLIM

      have to agree with this.

      so he is 50 and she's much younger, so what? many men out there in their 40's etc who don't look their age at all, they look much younger.
      its not like she married a grandad with a walking stick.

      plus, sometimes women are attracted to older men, maybe because they are mature and sophisticated. some women are attracted to men younger than them, so i don't see why every older man who marries a young woman (and they are both happy and it was their own choice) has to be a pervert or a weirdo.
      my grandad (may Allah be pleased with him) was 10 years younger than my grandmother, no problems there at all, they was so much love between them. one of my sisters is 10 years younger than her husband. they are totally happy together mashaAllah.

      mountains out of molehills...

      Originally posted by AbuMubarak View Post
      what a silly statement

      so if i marry a woman who is ten years younger than me, i was eyeing her when i was ten?

      you dont even know these people but you have some insight on how long he has been eyeing her?
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      • #33
        Re: 51yr old man married to a 16 yr old girl, NOT MUSLIM

        have you guys seen teenage girls these days? they plaster themselves in so much make up etc they look a lot older than they are. and i don't know, people seem to be growing up fatter these days:S no kidding some of my 15 year old students look older than i do and im 22.
        i know a 12 year old girl who i initially thought was 15/16 (like literally), i was pretty shocked to find out she's only 12. plus every teenager out there wants to look 'older' for some reason and does everything to LOOK older.

        Originally posted by msmoorad View Post
        salaams to all

        LOL.
        wonder what a "bad" christian girl would look like?
        seriously though, shes 16?
        she must have been raised on hormones from day one-ive never seen 16 yr old girls looking like that.

        and i also agree, if they were both muslims- the media would not be so mature & understanding about it.


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        • #34
          Re: 51yr old man married to a 16 yr old girl, NOT MUSLIM

          Originally posted by $HugoBoss$ View Post
          First of all this isn't an Islamic wedding so I'm still confused why you are linking it to as one. Secondly the prophet(pbuh) has mentioned to marry for deen not for the sole purpose of sex and money that would be in this case.
          i think the brother is raising a valid point, because even though alhamdulillah and inshaAllah we as Muslims have no problem at all with the age difference between the best of creation salallahu alaihi wa sallam and aisha (r.a)......
          yet reading some of the posts in this thread its obvious some of us have a problem with a random couple who have a large age gap between them. what does that imply?
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          • #35
            Re: 51yr old man married to a 16 yr old girl, NOT MUSLIM

            ( btw wouldnt reccomend anyone brother or sister to click the link in the original post. theres a half naked woman on there)

            she really should have got married a lot younger ! she was clearly more than ready to marry shes 16 going on 30 something.
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            • #36
              Re: 51yr old man married to a 16 yr old girl, NOT MUSLIM

              what i find particularly amazing about this story

              if that 16yr old had said she was gay, and WE condemned her for it, We would be attacked for "judging her" or "placing our moral values on someone else"

              however, looking at some of the condemnations against them, the issue is not that she is 16 (under age to even be gay) but that he is 51

              so for muslims to condemn it based upon age is really sad, and as far as their intentions, only Allah knows, and we cannot expect them to marry for piety, they are kafir and kafir marriages for the kuffar are accepted

              she claims she is christian, and stayed a virgin till marriage, they asked what is a "good christian"? i dont know, christianity has abandoned all of the laws of the old testament, so its kinda hard to critique her according to traditional christian rules (were there any?)
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              • #37
                Re: 51yr old man married to a 16 yr old girl, NOT MUSLIM

                well she looks a lot older :|

                and shes probs with him for his money... all im saying
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                • #38
                  Re: 51yr old man married to a 16 yr old girl, NOT MUSLIM

                  woaaaaaaaah to much make up :| thats probs why... she dresses way to much older...



                  and use the christian card
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                  • #39
                    Re: 51yr old man married to a 16 yr old girl, NOT MUSLIM

                    Sorry But Its Legal So He Got Himself A Young Bride

                    They marriage so fair play
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                    • #40
                      Re: 51yr old man married to a 16 yr old girl, NOT MUSLIM

                      Originally posted by Umm_Adam_ View Post
                      Sorry But Its Legal So He Got Himself A Young Bride

                      They marriage so fair play
                      Fair enough.

                      Though, I'd expect them to speak up if a Muslim man marries a young bride.
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                      • #41
                        Re: 51yr old man married to a 16 yr old girl, NOT MUSLIM

                        Originally posted by .mirror. View Post
                        Fair enough.

                        Though, I'd expect them to speak up if a Muslim man marries a young bride.
                        agreed there tbh :up:
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                        • #42
                          Re: 51yr old man married to a 16 yr old girl, NOT MUSLIM

                          Coincidence, my colleague is writing an article about this lol, there's a video of her showing her pout and i don't find it very "chaste". Anyway i don't see why the fuss with comparing to young brides in poor countries, this is a totally different issue
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                          • #43
                            Re: 51yr old man married to a 16 yr old girl, NOT MUSLIM

                            Originally posted by .mirror. View Post
                            Fair enough.

                            Though, I'd expect them to speak up if a Muslim man marries a young bride.

                            Tbh We Here To Pleased Allaah Forget The Non Muslim We Dont Need Anyones Approval But Allaahs
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                            • #44
                              Re: 51yr old man married to a 16 yr old girl, NOT MUSLIM

                              Originally posted by Umm_Adam_ View Post
                              Tbh We Here To Pleased Allaah Forget The Non Muslim We Dont Need Anyones Approval But Allaahs
                              True say. :masha:
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                              • #45
                                Re: 51yr old man married to a 16 yr old girl, NOT MUSLIM

                                Originally posted by Umm_Adam_ View Post
                                Tbh We Here To Pleased Allaah Forget The Non Muslim We Dont Need Anyones Approval But Allaahs
                                real talk :masha:
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