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  • FaSmaL
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    JazakAllah! just the thing i needed to read. Allah assist us all:)
    “Allah `azza wa jall said: ‘Verily, from amongst My slaves is he whose faith cannot be rectified except by being inflicted with poverty, and were I to enrich him, it would surely corrupt him. Verily, from amongst My slaves is he whose faith cannot be rectified except by wealth and affluence, and were I to deprive him, it would surely corrupt him. Verily, from amongst My slaves is he whose faith cannot be rectified except by good health, and were I to make him sick, it would surely corrupt him. Verily, from amongst My slaves is he whose faith cannot be rectified except by disease and illness, and were I to make him healthy, it would surely corrupt him. Verily, from amongst My slaves is he who seeks worship by a certain act but I prevent that from him so that self-amazement does not enter his heart. Certainly, I run the affairs of My slaves by My Knowledge of what is in their hearts. Certainly, I am the All-Knower, All-Aware’.”[Tabarani]

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  • .mirror.
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    ↑As long as you don't act upon the thought, it's OK. Though, try your best to occupy yourself with other matters or better yet, dhirkullah.

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  • adri
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    To those who remember now and then, is that a sin? If one does their best to rid those thoughts then is that good enough?

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  • diandri
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    salam everyone.
    Well, it really what I need right now. Honestly, those words are inspiring me to get over my heart breaking ,n start mending pieces of my scattered heart. Thank you very much.

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  • KeeKee
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    whats that saying... you can hear a glass breaking, but no one hears a heart breaking?

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  • Medievalist
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    mashaALLAH gud thread.

    To add a small point.

    Moving on for different people might mean different things. Some may move on and never think of what was the past, others may remember things now and then, others may frequently be reminded of x and y. The person who never thinks isn't necessarily any more moved on than the person who has frequent reminders. Everyone is different and everyone's emotions are different so the broken-hearted should understand his/her own state and deal with it accordingly. He should not be obsessed with reaching a stage that is not part of his way; rather he should focus on managing what his emotions are and establish a unique response for his own unique emotions.
    Last edited by Medievalist; 23-06-11, 11:16 PM.

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  • Salafi_Sista
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    SALAAM alaykum, if ever there was a perfect way to get over a broken heart, the inventor would become a millionaire
    I don't know much but the more someone pushes me away, the closer I have to let Allah SWT be in my life

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  • muslimaghareeba
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    :salams

    “Allah `azza wa jall said: ‘Verily, from amongst My slaves is he whose faith cannot be rectified except by being inflicted with poverty, and were I to enrich him, it would surely corrupt him. Verily, from amongst My slaves is he whose faith cannot be rectified except by wealth and affluence, and were I to deprive him, it would surely corrupt him. Verily, from amongst My slaves is he whose faith cannot be rectified except by good health, and were I to make him sick, it would surely corrupt him. Verily, from amongst My slaves is he whose faith cannot be rectified except by disease and illness, and were I to make him healthy, it would surely corrupt him. Verily, from amongst My slaves is he who seeks worship by a certain act but I prevent that from him so that self-amazement does not enter his heart. Certainly, I run the affairs of My slaves by My Knowledge of what is in their hearts. Certainly, I am the All-Knower, All-Aware’.” [Tabarani]



    ive been looking for this for some time couldnt remember the wording though..


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    :salams
    Last edited by muslimaghareeba; 19-05-11, 09:34 AM.

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  • nullifygirls
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    WaAlikum-0-Aslam,
    mashallah, very nice post,
    Jazakallah for shearing such a nice post

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  • FurkanAdil
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    Originally posted by NeverGoodEnough View Post

    Allow yourself time but also get proactive! Marriage is just one of the many aspects of your life; it is not the be all and end all of things. What are your aspirations? What do you want to achieve in your life? Write down a list of goals you want to achieve by the end of the month and get started on them right away. As Muslims, our continuous goal is striving to get closer to Allah, so working on your eman and your relationship with Allah must be included in some way. Focus your attention on moving forward rather than wasting time with something that “could have been”.
    thanks a lot, it's been really helpful..

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  • ibnuadam
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    :masha:, made my day
    “Allah `azza wa jall said: ‘Verily, from amongst My slaves is he whose faith cannot be rectified except by being inflicted with poverty, and were I to enrich him, it would surely corrupt him. Verily, from amongst My slaves is he whose faith cannot be rectified except by wealth and affluence, and were I to deprive him, it would surely corrupt him. Verily, from amongst My slaves is he whose faith cannot be rectified except by good health, and were I to make him sick, it would surely corrupt him. Verily, from amongst My slaves is he whose faith cannot be rectified except by disease and illness, and were I to make him healthy, it would surely corrupt him. Verily, from amongst My slaves is he who seeks worship by a certain act but I prevent that from him so that self-amazement does not enter his heart. Certainly, I run the affairs of My slaves by My Knowledge of what is in their hearts. Certainly, I am the All-Knower, All-Aware’.”[Tabarani]

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  • adri
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    Alhumdulillah :)

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  • Masumah
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    Originally posted by Kas1m View Post
    MashAllah NGE excellent coverage of the points.

    Masumah: are we gonna have another one of your super hit poems? :D I cannot wait.
    lol nah...im not heart broken nomore alhamdulillah....truly the best advice is "In the rememberance of Allah do hearts find tranqulity"

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  • In The Skies
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    Jazakallah fantastic post; should definately be made a sticky.

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  • dhak1yya
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    I've stickied it, inshaAllah it will benefit lots of people here.

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