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  • Getting Over a Broken Heart ~ The Islamic Way

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    :salams

    I've made this thread in order to assist the many heart broken individuals we get posting threads in this section. Getting over a lost love is quite a hardship and one can be very confused, emotional and in such pain that they are unable to rationalise the situation without some form of outside help.

    I've seen many threads where a person is told to "just get over it" etc and is treated quite harshly when this is not at all the way to deal with such people. I myself can attest to how it feels to experience the highest highs of love as well as the lowest of the lows and then to lose it all. This harsh treatment almost always comes from those who have not experienced the same situation and my advice to those who seek to advise another but cannot help but to be harsh, is that they should simply stay silent and leave it to those who will show some compassion and patience. (I remind myself before others, inshaa'Allah.)

    I found an article which, I believe has some excellent tips for those who are lovesick and thought sharing it would be a good idea. I hope this thread can help those who are suffering from heart break to understand better their situation and the whirlwind of emotions and then give them the push they need in order to move on and continue with life stronger then they were before, inshaa'Allah.

    Step 2: Awareness of the love-drug syndromeStep 3: Be proactiveStep 4: Move on
    Source: http://islamic-quotes.blogspot.com/2011/02/if-you-are-suffering-from-broken-heart.html
    Allah will ask on the Day of Judgment: “Where are those who loved each other for the sake of My glory? Today, on a day when there is no shade but Mine, I shall shade them with My shade.”(Muslim)

    "Zendagi Migzara..."

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    Re: Getting Over a Broken Heart ~ The Islamic Way

    Or you could write poetry:p
    *Alhamdulillah*

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      Re: Getting Over a Broken Heart ~ The Islamic Way

      MashAllah NGE excellent coverage of the points.

      Masumah: are we gonna have another one of your super hit poems? :D I cannot wait.
      الصلوۃ والسلام علیک یا سیدی یارسول اللہ

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        Re: Getting Over a Broken Heart ~ The Islamic Way

        mashallah, excellent article

        :jkk: for sharing

        mods can this be made a sticky please?

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          Re: Getting Over a Broken Heart ~ The Islamic Way

          I've stickied it, inshaAllah it will benefit lots of people here.
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            Re: Getting Over a Broken Heart ~ The Islamic Way

            Jazakallah fantastic post; should definately be made a sticky.
            O son of Adam! -Your mother gave birth to you while you were weeping,
            while those around you were laughing in joy.
            Work for the day, the day you die,
            that you may be laughing in joy then,
            while they will be weeping for you.

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              Re: Getting Over a Broken Heart ~ The Islamic Way

              Originally posted by Kas1m View Post
              MashAllah NGE excellent coverage of the points.

              Masumah: are we gonna have another one of your super hit poems? :D I cannot wait.
              lol nah...im not heart broken nomore alhamdulillah....truly the best advice is "In the rememberance of Allah do hearts find tranqulity"
              *Alhamdulillah*

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                Re: Getting Over a Broken Heart ~ The Islamic Way

                Alhumdulillah :)

                The Prophet (saw) said, Verily, the knots of Islam will be undone one by one. Whenever one knot is lost, then the people grabbed onto the one which came after it. The first of these knots will be ruling and the last will be the salah.[1]

                The author of Sitoon as-Sultaniyah says about this Hadith: “It was the Prophet who tied together the knots of Islam, including the uppermost knot of ruling after he established the Islamic state…As mentioned by Imam Mawardi the leadership has been proscribed as the succession of the Prophet in protecting the deen and governing the societal affairs. In this respect – Imam Baidawi mentioned that the Imama/Khalifah is the succession from the Prophet in the establishment of the laws of the Shari’ah. So without the Imam the laws lie unapplied and the territory is not protected effectively. The hadith indicates that it is the uppermost knot that keeps the subsequent knots safe from being untied. This is since it is the ruler that is responsible to apply Islam in its entirety, to implement the limits proscribed by Allah and to protect the society. Imam Ahmed mentioned without an Imam (for the Muslims as their leader) there would be fitna, and the destruction of the symbols of Islam ending with the Prayer is a great fitna.[2]




                [1] Tabarani, Musnad Ahmad and Al Hakim in his Al Mustadrak
                [2] Ibid. pg. 46

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                  Re: Getting Over a Broken Heart ~ The Islamic Way

                  :masha:, made my day
                  “Allah `azza wa jall said: ‘Verily, from amongst My slaves is he whose faith cannot be rectified except by being inflicted with poverty, and were I to enrich him, it would surely corrupt him. Verily, from amongst My slaves is he whose faith cannot be rectified except by wealth and affluence, and were I to deprive him, it would surely corrupt him. Verily, from amongst My slaves is he whose faith cannot be rectified except by good health, and were I to make him sick, it would surely corrupt him. Verily, from amongst My slaves is he whose faith cannot be rectified except by disease and illness, and were I to make him healthy, it would surely corrupt him. Verily, from amongst My slaves is he who seeks worship by a certain act but I prevent that from him so that self-amazement does not enter his heart. Certainly, I run the affairs of My slaves by My Knowledge of what is in their hearts. Certainly, I am the All-Knower, All-Aware’.”[Tabarani]
                  “And this worldly life is not but diversion and amusement. And indeed, the home of the Hereafter - that is the [eternal] life, if only they knew.” [29:64]

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                    Re: Getting Over a Broken Heart ~ The Islamic Way

                    thanks a lot, it's been really helpful..

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                      Re: Getting Over a Broken Heart ~ The Islamic Way

                      WaAlikum-0-Aslam,
                      mashallah, very nice post,
                      Jazakallah for shearing such a nice post
                      The game is over

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                        Last edited by muslimaghareeba; 19-05-11, 10:34 AM.
                        La Ilaha Illa Anta, subhanaka, Inni Kunto Minal dhalimeen.(Al Anbiya 21:87) Nabi(SAW)said'None who is experiencing difficulty employs it except that Allah would relieve him of his difficulty'

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                          Re: Getting Over a Broken Heart ~ The Islamic Way

                          SALAAM alaykum, if ever there was a perfect way to get over a broken heart, the inventor would become a millionaire
                          I don't know much but the more someone pushes me away, the closer I have to let Allah SWT be in my life

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                            Re: Getting Over a Broken Heart ~ The Islamic Way

                            mashaALLAH gud thread.

                            To add a small point.

                            Moving on for different people might mean different things. Some may move on and never think of what was the past, others may remember things now and then, others may frequently be reminded of x and y. The person who never thinks isn't necessarily any more moved on than the person who has frequent reminders. Everyone is different and everyone's emotions are different so the broken-hearted should understand his/her own state and deal with it accordingly. He should not be obsessed with reaching a stage that is not part of his way; rather he should focus on managing what his emotions are and establish a unique response for his own unique emotions.
                            Last edited by Medievalist; 24-06-11, 12:16 AM.
                            Rajab is a month of cultivation, Shaban is month of irrigating the fields, and the month of Ramadhan is a month of reaping and harvesting.”

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                              Re: Getting Over a Broken Heart ~ The Islamic Way

                              whats that saying... you can hear a glass breaking, but no one hears a heart breaking?
                              The enforcement of Muslim Brotherhood is the greatest social ideal of Islam. On it was based the Prophet's (SAW) sermon on his last pilgrimage, and Islam cannot be completely realized until this ideal is achieved. '
                              (Shaikh Maulana Muhammad Yusuf)
                              In Lam Takun Ghaadiban Annee Falaa Ubaalee...

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