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  • #31
    Re: Would you.....

    Originally posted by Jenicca View Post
    No. I would not marry a guy purely because I loved him. This is not the essence of life, nor is it the factor that will ensure the success of the marriage.
    Nope, a healthy bank balance will ensure that.

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    • #32
      Re: Would you.....

      Originally posted by zdc View Post
      Nope, a healthy bank balance will ensure that.


      1. You know tha sister Jenicca didn't mean it like that, so if you are joking please state that or you'll get people angry.
      2. I thought you left. :scratch:
      وَإِذَا سَأَلَكَ عِبَادِي عَنِّي فَإِنِّي قَرِيبٌ أُجِيبُ دَعْوَةَ الدَّاعِ إِذَا دَعَانِ فَلْيَسْتَجِيبُواْ لِي وَلْيُؤْمِنُواْ بِي لَعَلَّهُمْ يَرْشُدُونَ
      "And when My servants ask you (O Muhammad concerning Me, then answer them), I am indeed near (to them by My knowledge). I respond to the invocations of the supplicant when he calls on Me (without any mediator or intercessor). So let them obey Me and believe in Me, so that they may be led aright."
      Surah al-Baqarah ayah 186
      [2:186]

      .:.
      .:. Perfer et Obdura : Dolor Hic Tibi Proderit Olim .:.
      Be patient and strong : someday this pain will be useful to you

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      • #33
        Re: Would you.....

        Originally posted by zdc View Post
        Nope, a healthy bank balance will ensure that.
        so, money makes a successful marriage, according to you?

        Originally posted by Pippin1376 View Post


        1. You know tha sister Jenicca didn't mean it like that, so if you are joking please state that or you'll get people angry.
        2. I thought you left. :scratch:
        No way sis....remarks like that dont make me angry at all.

        The brother did nothing wrong. He was merely voicing his opinion, preseumably based upon the narrow minded view he has, which probably stems from the narrow encounter of lifes hes had.
        وَالْعَصْرِ

        إِنَّ الْإِنسَانَ لَفِي خُسْرٍ

        إِلَّا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا وَعَمِلُوا الصَّالِحَاتِ وَتَوَاصَوْا بِالْحَقِّ وَتَوَاصَوْا بِالصَّبْرِ


        "Yeh dunya daar e faani hain, Tum apna dil mat lagaon, Ganimat samaj zinadagee ki bahar, aana na hoga, yahaa baar baar......"

        Khanqah Habibiyah

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        • #34
          Re: Would you.....

          Originally posted by Pippin1376 View Post


          1. You know tha sister Jenicca didn't mean it like that, so if you are joking please state that or you'll get people angry.
          2. I thought you left. :scratch:
          One foot in the door, just wrapping up.

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          • #35
            Re: Would you.....

            Originally posted by Jenicca View Post
            so, money makes a successful marriage, according to you?
            Not to me, to women.

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              • #37
                Re: Would you.....

                :wswrwb:
                Funny thread, bahahaha. The answer is no.

                For once, I don't want to be a killjoy ruin the mood of 'loved-up' newly married couples, so I'll just keep quiet. :D
                "Meet people in such a manner that if you die, they should weep for you, and if you live, they should long for you." Hadhrat Ali-Ibn-Talib (RadiAllaah Anhu)
                Shan-e-Aisha

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                • #38
                  Re: Would you.....

                  love isnt enough
                  Screaming, But Will Never Be Heard

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                  • #39
                    Re: Would you.....

                    I don't think you can love somebody during the getting to know process. You might have a crush but not love.
                    "They are Shuhadaa (witnesses) to the fact that this Deen is greater than life, that values are more important than blood and that principles are more precious than souls" - Sheikh 'Abdullah Azzam

                    Lost in Islamic History :inlove:

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                    • #40
                      Re: Would you.....

                      But what if you for example see a brother good looking MashAllah
                      Got good character, you find out more about him then you start to admire his personality
                      your bros find out more information
                      then with parents involved they sort it out
                      .................................................. ............ ;)................................................ ...................................

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                      • #41
                        Re: Would you.....

                        Natural love usually takes place when the person has traits beyond looks that you admire so it's just not because of love.

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                        • #42
                          Re: Would you.....

                          a few years ago i would have said yes,
                          but it is not impossible for everything to be halal and you still love the person, i mean you attracted to them, their deen and character, pbviously an attachment which could be called love can arise, and obviously as you go thru life together this will grow in any marriage

                          Recipes for all the family :inlove:
                          (and you thought I was a lazy feminazi which can't cook?)

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                          • #43
                            Re: Would you.....

                            Originally posted by 1MuslimByChoice View Post
                            :salams

                            .....marry someone because you love them?

                            I just want to know your opinions/views on this. Some say yes (i've asked around) others think differently.

                            If need be then i'll get a mod to close this thread
                            yes
                            أشهد أن لا إله إلاَّ الله و أشهد أن محمد رسول الله

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                            • #44
                              Re: Would you.....

                              Originally posted by 1MuslimByChoice View Post
                              :salams

                              .....marry someone because you love them?

                              I just want to know your opinions/views on this. Some say yes (i've asked around) others think differently.

                              If need be then i'll get a mod to close this thread
                              Love the one you marry, not marry the one you love...

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                              • #45
                                Re: Would you.....

                                no.....
                                painful torment? (10) (If you do so) He will forgive you your sins, and admit you into Gardens under which rivers flow, and pleasant dwellings in Adn (Edn) Paradise; that is indeed the great success. (12)

                                JazakAllah khair for the duas but i would prefer duas for shahadah instead.

                                sponsor an orphan

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