why hatin on the white guys?

[Lightindarkness]

Re: why hatin on the white guys?

The fact that you'd have to persuade, and make an effort, just to marry someone of another race, is most of the issue though...

Yes, but you have to understand that our parents are usually the first generation in the UK/US and are very much set in their ways. We can't blame them for having Victorian type views as that is how they were brought up and many are uneducated and fear that marrying into a different race will devide them from their children/grandchildren due to cultural and language differences. Therefore, one needs to educate and persuade their parents kindly.

[,, -alwaysbeme!]

Re: why hatin on the white guys?

The fact that you'd have to persuade, and make an effort, just to marry someone of another race, is most of the issue though...

[Lightindarkness]

Re: why hatin on the white guys?

I would happily consider a man from another race for marriage. It would be a bit of an issue for my parents however. But, the power of persuation is always a good tool :D

[Safiyyah89]

Re: why hatin on the white guys?

What Safiyyah wrote is my answer to your question.


Or maybe i misread your post :scratch: The whole preference stuff i detest and i find really unfair and i see it as a form of discrimination. I mean these are humans and a whole nations of people that people are generalising saying they prefer people from this place and not that place when we havent even met every single individual from the particular group whom we prefer to not 'marry' but we hang around with them again WTH?!?! thats a bit contradictory and fake no? People are humans, we shouldnt seek their skin colour or their hair type but THEm as individuals be they white black red or blue its the individual whom you choose

naw sis u didnt misread, i totally agree with u:up:

[ARiSagirl]

Re: why hatin on the white guys?

this is disappointing though it makes me wonder just how many other reverts are getting the cold-shoulder in the marriage department...must be lonely in there

some muslims just need to catch up to the world now things have changed islam is global now where have you all been? go and see the world more and youll be surprised to see reverts in the most unexpected places it's not just race i think some fathers will just assume a revert is knowledgeable or lacking in Islam and thats just poor stereotyped judgement but if a brother fits the race or typical stereotype then he's automatically presumed knowledgeable and right for his daughter and i know alot of fathers are very anxious to just see there grandkids it's just not right it's unfair how is he supposed to know if the brother that was declined was the better man? and isint it the sisters consent that matters the most? id imagine theyd have better insight on who they want to possibly spend the rest of their lives with most muslims make it look like the sister is a pack mule or something (it's very offensive) just blindly taking everything her father offers her frankly though most fathers need to lighten up and stop being so uptight and need to be more open with the "options" they consider for there daughters

[ARiSagirl]

Re: why hatin on the white guys?

im sick and tired of some muslims being so racist i mean DAMN drop the old cultural views we have to take note that islam is the fastest growing religion so we shouldnt be suprised when we see new brothers and sisters from all over the world who find it theres gonna be a whole muslim marriage site for reverts if this continues its unfair no one should be judged on race and stereotypes what happened to "everyone is equal" huh?

[SisterFirdous1]

Re: why hatin on the white guys?

?

:S

Do we?

yeah, sometimes......

[,, -alwaysbeme!]

Re: why hatin on the white guys?

I know. Men think they know it all/ don't care what other people say.

Not to be sexist,
Not to cause offence.

?

:S

Do we?

[ambz_angel]

Re: why hatin on the white guys?

Well You Deffo Need To Take That Advice. Use That Tiny Brain Of Yours And Stop Trying To Be Insentsitve

I know. Men think they know it all/ don't care what other people say.

Not to be sexist,
Not to cause offence.

[nokidding]

Re: why hatin on the white guys?

Re: why hatin on the white guys?

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[SisterFirdous1]

Re: why hatin on the white guys?

Everyone knows people who think this are possibly retarded.

not possibly..... they are

[,, -alwaysbeme!]

Re: why hatin on the white guys?

Some people think the white mans the devil.


I'm just saying

Everyone knows people who think this are possibly retarded.

[samin62]

Re: why hatin on the white guys?

Still sounds crazy

They were a product of oppression and suppression. Crazy things come out if those 2 concepts are practiced.

[Proud-2b-MUSLIM]

Re: why hatin on the white guys?

See

Still sounds crazy

[-Jibril-]

Re: why hatin on the white guys?

Wrong religion. The NOI think that but then again they worship a man who they call 'Allah' (astaghfirullah) so that already casts doubt on their credibility. Alhamdullilah our Muslim revert brothers and sisters wouldn't want to marry them anyway.

Tis true what you say