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  • Abu Mus'ab
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    Originally posted by ze leetle elper View Post
    I personally think it is very hypocritical and ignorant to judge based on an outward appearance. The exterior only reflects when is on the inside, so address the soul and inshaallah the change inside will reflect on the outside! Also there are many people who come here online and rant about women and their dress however would be too chicken to ever go up to a woman dressed like so on the street and engage in conversation, so if you are one of them its better to keep your thoughts to yourself thank you!
    I also think that it's pretty hypocritical and very ignorant to speak as you do, especially when you know and admit that the exterior is a mirror of the interior.

    Oh so are you now advising us to approach random women on the street to chat them up? Women, you can never satisfy them

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  • islam4u2
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    Originally posted by ze leetle elper View Post
    I personally think it is very hypocritical and ignorant to judge based on an outward appearance. The exterior only reflects when is on the inside, so address the soul and inshaallah the change inside will reflect on the outside! Also there are many people who come here online and rant about women and their dress however would be too chicken to ever go up to a woman dressed like so on the street and engage in conversation, so if you are one of them its better to keep your thoughts to yourself thank you!
    a very spiritual answer you gave there.

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  • ze leetle elper
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    I personally think it is very hypocritical and ignorant to judge based on an outward appearance. The exterior only reflects when is on the inside, so address the soul and inshaallah the change inside will reflect on the outside! Also there are many people who come here online and rant about women and their dress however would be too chicken to ever go up to a woman dressed like so on the street and engage in conversation, so if you are one of them its better to keep your thoughts to yourself thank you!

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  • Abu Mus'ab
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    Why is everyone attacking the thread starter? :scratch:

    Some of you jumped so quickly on the defensive without reading the thread that you think the OP is a female and you're telling her to lower her gaze since you think she's a brother *Roll Eyes*

    Okay fine this is an issue which has been covered time and again on the forum, and it's something which is a sore spot for some of you, but it doesn't change the fact that what the OP said is true, if you are a person who dresses that way then this thread will serve as a reminder to you, and if you know people who dress like that or if your friends dress like that then it will serve as a reminder to you that you should try and correct them since you are their friend, and yes the OP too should make an effort to tell those women too.

    But it shouldn't be like this where everyone starts attacking her and implying that she thinks she's holier than thou etc.

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  • MoMo_-
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    Whats worse is seeing a hijabi sis with a bunch of guys that u know arent her mahrams at school and university but they are just her "friends".

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  • x--x
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    Originally posted by -MA- View Post
    In my 'culture'... Woman put their headscarves on when Qur'an is recited, adhan is called, or someone with a beard and tupee is around. The headcovering does not even fully cover the hair or ears.
    Lol my mum likes to put her hand on her head to cover her hair when adhan comes on and she can't find a scarf, or even better a tissue :rotfl:

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  • islam4u2
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    Originally posted by LailaTheMuslim View Post
    huh? I don't blame them fully, I actually used to believe that the headscarf was the proper hijab, and until all the muslim girls in my town wore abaya out of nowhere, I didn't realise that.
    A lot of people feel proud of themselves for wearing the headscarf cos they think its islamic.
    In a society where talk in now cheap, our actions definitely speak louder than words. :)

    Tony Blair atleast was right when he said "Education, Education, Education".

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  • -MA-
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    Originally posted by LailaTheMuslim View Post
    huh? I don't blame them fully, I actually used to believe that the headscarf was the proper hijab, and until all the muslim girls in my town wore abaya out of nowhere, I didn't realise that.
    A lot of people feel proud of themselves for wearing the headscarf cos they think its islamic.
    In my 'culture'... Woman put their headscarves on when Qur'an is recited, adhan is called, or someone with a beard and tupee is around. The headcovering does not even fully cover the hair or ears.

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  • LailaTheMuslim
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    Originally posted by islam4u2 View Post
    cultural muslims will never get along with practising muslims it will always be like that. Arrogance is the biggest obstacle, and it was Arrogance/Pride which caused Shaytaan and his followers to go to Hell.
    huh? I don't blame them fully, I actually used to believe that the headscarf was the proper hijab, and until all the muslim girls in my town wore abaya out of nowhere, I didn't realise that.
    A lot of people feel proud of themselves for wearing the headscarf cos they think its islamic.

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  • sum5
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    Originally posted by tayyiboon View Post
    i know it is difficult but try befriending them, then talking to them in the nicest way possible, give them dawah....may Allah make them proper Hijabis at your hand....
    Masha'Allah. It's not difficult they are our sisters in Islam there will always be something to talk about Insha'Allah. Most people haven't wore hijab from a young age so I think most of us have been in there situation of no hijab I have as a revert.

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  • tayyiboon
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    i know it is difficult but try befriending them, then talking to them in the nicest way possible, give them dawah....may Allah make them proper Hijabis at your hand....

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  • Rouz
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    Or maybe invite a female speaker in to talk about hijab? Thats if you dont want them to feel like your jumping down their throats, then its kinda like an outsider giving advice?

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  • Safiyyah89
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    Originally posted by sum5 View Post
    This is one problem they we are facing now as an Ummah not one culture/race is free from this. It's best we do not pinpoint races out.

    Make dua for them Hijab is not an easy thing and many actually do not know the rules of hijab. Parents just hand it to them at 15 and excpect them to be happy wearing it. Alhumdulilah a lot of dawah and sabr Insha'Allah things will change. We really shouldn't be so judgemental.
    Exactly wat sum5 said:up: its actually common within the somali community for the mothers to just hand the hijab over to their daughters without explaining to them wat its actually about, it wasnt until i was in gr.7 and was in islamic school that i learnt about why we should wear it, thats not right, parents should explain to their daughters the importance of hijab inshallah:up:

    Originally posted by Nafisa09 View Post
    Jazallah Khair for some of the Feed backs and Inshallah i will take them into Consideration. The First thing I will Do is have a woman dawah group and Go around Talk to these women Inshallah.
    a sisters dawah group would be perfect, a way for the sisters to get together and learn the deen while having fun at the same time:up:
    Inshallah just be kind with them and dont be so harsh, im sure they dont really know the correct way, so inshallah just teach them it

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  • Nafisa09
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    Jazallah Khair for some of the Feed backs and Inshallah i will take them into Consideration. The First thing I will Do is have a woman dawah group and Go around Talk to these women Inshallah.

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  • ..wadi..
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    Originally posted by brotherpearl44uk View Post
    in the UK, quite a few somali girls wanna dress like black carrabean women, its very common. that the new western fashion
    yeh! its those 'black carrabean(lol) women'! they set the trends in 'western fashion'...

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