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  • #31
    Re: Virginity & bleeding

    man u make things way to complex.

    its simple. a person is a virgin if they dident have sex. a caste person is a person who saved themself for their spouse, weather they are a virgin or not.

    this dosent even need to be disputed. go ask 100 people what virginity means all of them will say a person who hasent had sex. things like oral sex and whatever arent even considered. its part of our firtah.
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    JazakAllah khair for the duas but i would prefer duas for shahadah instead.

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    • #32
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      Originally posted by uncle umar View Post
      man u make things way to complex.

      its simple. a person is a virgin if they dident have sex. a caste person is a person who saved themself for their spouse, weather they are a virgin or not.

      this dosent even need to be disputed. go ask 100 people what virginity means all of them will say a person who hasent had sex. things like oral sex and whatever arent even considered. its part of our firtah.

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      • #33
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        its part of out fitrah man.

        a woman who is married is obviously not a virgin but she is chaste because she has protected herself from fahsha.

        simple as that.
        And the (faithful) slaves of the Most Gracious (All‚h) are those who walk on the earth in humility and sedateness, and when the foolish address them (with bad words) they reply back with mild words of gentleness. (25:63)

        O You who believe! Shall I guide you to a trade that will save you from a painful torment? (10) That you believe in All‚h and His Messenger (Muhammad SAW),and that you strive hard and fight in the Cause of All‚h with your wealth and your lives, that will be better for you, if you but know! (11) (If you do so) He will forgive you your sins, and admit you into Gardens under which rivers flow, and pleasant dwellings in Adn (Edn) Paradise; that is indeed the great success. (12)

        JazakAllah khair for the duas but i would prefer duas for shahadah instead.

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        • #34
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          edit: Wait a minute, a woman who is married? is obviously not a virgin? well ya but there also isn't a problem isn't there. It's in getting married.
          Last edited by calculatrice; 26-11-11, 02:07 PM.

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          • #35
            Re: Virginity & bleeding

            Originally posted by calculatrice View Post
            edit: Wait a minute, a woman who is married? is obviously not a virgin? well ya but there also isn't a problem isn't there. It's in getting married.

            Your posts are strange. If virginity was the rule then widows and divorcees wouldnt be able to marry.

            You can be a virgin and not chaste
            You can be chaste and not be a virgin.
            The rule is being chaste end of it.
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            • #36
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              Originally posted by Massilia View Post
              Your posts are strange. If virginity was the rule then widows and divorcees wouldnt be able to marry.

              You can be a virgin and not chaste
              You can be chaste and not be a virgin.
              The rule is being chaste end of it.
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              • #37
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                Calculatrice my neg rep was regarding your comment and NOT in reference to the Quranic verses- obviously.

                I'd like to think if I got married it would be to someone who wouldn't accept such rubbish from his family. Failing that he could just do what my family would do... go on the honeymoon abroad straight after the wedding:P (though my family wouldn't dare to do that bedsheet rubbish).

                On the other hand... knowing my sense of humour I'd find ways of sabotaging the bedsheet with the help of my husband. Maybe paint the whole sheet red, or tie dye it or do some kinda art work on it with red paint lol.
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                • #38
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                  Originally posted by neelu View Post
                  Calculatrice my neg rep was regarding your comment and NOT in reference to the Quranic verses- obviously.

                  I'd like to think if I got married it would be to someone who wouldn't accept such rubbish from his family. Failing that he could just do what my family would do... go on the honeymoon abroad straight after the wedding:P (though my family wouldn't dare to do that bedsheet rubbish).

                  On the other hand... knowing my sense of humour I'd find ways of sabotaging the bedsheet with the help of my husband. Maybe paint the whole sheet red, or tie dye it or do some kinda art work on it with red paint lol.
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                  • #39
                    Re: Virginity & bleeding

                    Originally posted by calculatrice View Post
                    One doesn't become popular from telling the truth...
                    no, but people who cannot grasp simple concepts are usually not popular either.

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                    • #40
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                      simple why? because I don't agree with what you think or what the other bros and sis think on this thread? I backed up my statement with facts. It seems more like you just dont like it. Where are your facts?

                      Edit: virgin

                      and people who wish to dispute me should stop ignoring the part where I already conceded that of course a divorcee can still be chaste! My first post says virginity is chastity. When did I say chastity is virginity?
                      Last edited by calculatrice; 28-11-11, 03:00 AM.

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                      • #41
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                        Originally posted by calculatrice View Post
                        simple why? because I don't agree with what you think or what the other bros and sis think on this thread? I backed up my statement with facts. It seems more like you just dont like it. Where are your facts?

                        Edit: virgin

                        and people who wish to dispute me should stop ignoring the part where I already conceded that of course a divorcee can still be chaste! My first post says virginity is chastity. When did I say chastity is virginity?
                        You are arguing over islamic concepts using english dictionaries which is somewhat foolish.

                        let me put it in simple terms...

                        you are interested in a sister in terms of marriage, during the finding out process you get to know she has had boyfriends, and that they regularly took part in pretty much everything right up to and including oral sex, yet she is still a virgin.

                        She has not repented from these acts, indeed seems to see little wrong with them as she and indeed you would see her as chaste as she is still a virgin.

                        To you she is chaste, to us she is clearly not.

                        You sound like bill clinton and his drivel about saying 'I did not have sexual relations with that women' then saying he didn't lie as it was only oral sex, its utter foolishness on his part and your's.

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                        • #42
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                          you are clearly slandering me and I do not understand how you are doing so while avoiding things I have clearly written. It's as if you completely ignore my previous posts and just say whatever you think about my view.

                          I already said in a previous post that I consider oral sex, sex therefore someone who has partaken in it, isn't a virgin.

                          Are you not reading the definitions or do you think oral sex is not sex? Don't say I think this and that when I clearly have stated my view differently than how you frame it in this post above. Let me put my entire view into the best and most understandable sentence that I can for you. Virginity is the best form of chastity.

                          Or maybe it is that you are trolling me. May Allah have mercy on me you and this ummah. Ameen.

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                          • #43
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                            Originally posted by hamza89 View Post
                            actually very common in Morocco it happened during my friends wedding over there and he came out and showed the family the sheets , in order to honour the girl and her family.

                            i found it disgusting but then again i am not Moroccan
                            Common in Morocco?!

                            I am Moroccan and NO IT IS NOT!
                            It is concidered rude and noone would ask for the sheets either.
                            i dunno wot wedding you went to!

                            Infact the culture is that the bed should be made so noone sees the sheets at all!

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                            • #44
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                              This thread makes me feel sick to the stomach:vomit:
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                              • #45
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                                what if wife is on period on wedding night ? how will they have sex and show sheets then when every one is out side waiting to cheer when husband comes out?

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