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  • muslim_sis
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    Originally posted by `asiya View Post
    as long as he has enough to pay the rent the bills, and put food on the table :up: as the hadith says what means ( paraphrasing here) the food of one is enough for two and the food for two is enough for three. Allah ta ala provides for us if we rely and trust in Him ta ala, and children dont cost much to feed and raise if we dont get sucked into the comercialisim of it all alhamdulillah.
    thats all he needs to be a father ... something that many of us dont remember that being a father mean that he's a great firgure in their lil girl/boys life...With all u said, i'd definately say that his character should be one to look up too...many women are married to men who arent very good examples ... and we want our children to be pious, sensible, god fearing muslims not to follow dads steps (if they are bad) ... fathers are part of parenting, thats something they forget and can result in somany children just getting hurt!
    Originally posted by ummbilal View Post
    none at all, we have the benefit system!
    yeh , thats as if gordon brown has a right over u , lol , he gives u the money, almost like ur breadwinner - as someone who was fed up of that said to me!

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  • afsalim
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    Maturity is the key. A person has to be matured or old enough to make decisions, i.e. getting married and start a family. He also has to have the means. Wedding expenses and supporting your spouse.

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  • Medievalist
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    :rotfl: :rotfl:

    I wrote it then realised I was assuming yr a bro. Wudda backfired badly if u were a sis so added the white to cover maself.

    :rotfl:

    jokezz

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  • ADZ w3
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    Originally posted by Medievalist View Post
    behave yrself honey. ;) You know I've only got eyes for you (you are a bro, right? )
    *shocked face*

    It was narrated that Jaabir (may Allaah be pleased with him): “The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: ‘There is nothing I fear for my ummah more than the deed of the people of Loot.’”

    (Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 1457; Ibn Maajah, 2563. This hadeeth was classed as saheeh by Shaykh al-Albaani (may Allaah have mercy on him) in Saheeh al-Jaami’, no. 1552).

    *leaves forum*

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  • Medievalist
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    Originally posted by ADZ w3 View Post
    i thought u wer already married aki *waks head*
    behave yrself honey. ;) You know I've only got eyes for you (you are a bro, right? )

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  • ADZ w3
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    Originally posted by Medievalist View Post
    as in a circus tent?
    i thought u wer already married aki *waks head*

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  • Medievalist
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    Originally posted by imported_MMS View Post
    I bet you're one of those dreamy types that would be happy marrying a guy even if you had to live in his tent :inlove::inlove:
    as in a circus tent?

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  • RaNdOm
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    Originally posted by imported_MMS View Post
    I bet you're one of those dreamy types that would be happy marrying a guy even if you had to live in his tent :inlove::inlove:
    :salams

    :lahawla::asta::asta::asta::asta::asta:

    inshaAllah wherever Allah wills enit

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  • insomniac
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    Originally posted by imported_MMS View Post
    I bet you're one of those dreamy types that would be happy marrying a guy even if you had to live in his tent :inlove::inlove:

    don't be dissing the tent

    :p

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  • imported_MMS
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    Originally posted by RaNdOm View Post
    :salams

    i think im too dreamy for this thread
    I bet you're one of those dreamy types that would be happy marrying a guy even if you had to live in his tent :inlove::inlove:

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  • ummbilal
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    none at all, we have the benefit system!

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  • Stylish-Girly
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    Originally posted by Omar Mukhtar View Post
    G's = Grand


    10g's 10 grand.
    Tanks Akh, i thought Gangsta first but it didnt make sense

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  • PiElle2
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    does anyone do a monthly expense sheet... in that way you'll be able to see or allocate exactly where your monies go to... but you got to be realistic... you can't put 300 on shoes and 50 on food... LOL :D

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  • belal1
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    first, for anyone thinking seriously about this, I would like to remind you of this ayah:

    002.235
    YUSUFALI: There is no blame on you if ye make an offer of betrothal or hold it in your hearts. Allah knows that ye cherish them in your hearts: But do not make a secret contract with them except in terms Honourable, nor resolve on the tie of marriage till the term prescribed is fulfilled. And know that Allah Knoweth what is in your hearts, and take heed of Him; and know that Allah is Oft-forgiving, Most Forbearing.
    and then this:
    004.025
    YUSUFALI: If any of you have not the means wherewith to wed free believing women, they may wed believing girls from among those whom your right hands possess: And Allah hath full knowledge about your faith. Ye are one from another: Wed them with the leave of their owners, and give them their dowers, according to what is reasonable: They should be chaste, not lustful, nor taking paramours: when they are taken in wedlock, if they fall into shame, their punishment is half that for free women. This (permission) is for those among you who fear sin; but it is better for you that ye practise self-restraint. And Allah is Oft-forgiving, Most Merciful.
    and then Allah swt says:

    024.033
    YUSUFALI: Let those who find not the wherewithal for marriage keep themselves chaste, until Allah gives them means out of His grace. And if any of your slaves ask for a deed in writing (to enable them to earn their freedom for a certain sum), give them such a deed if ye know any good in them: yea, give them something yourselves out of the means which Allah has given to you. But force not your maids to prostitution when they desire chastity, in order that ye may make a gain in the goods of this life. But if anyone compels them, yet, after such compulsion, is Allah, Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful (to them),

    please be mindful of these ayahs.

    as salamu alaikum

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  • Nirvana
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    I don't care what you think unless it is about me.

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