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  • Ibn-e-Muslim
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    its only for those who cant focus further then the boundries they have created or created by their forfathers coz of the socity, neighbourhood they live in, u wont find such cases among sensible or practicing
    i duno abt other but my 2 uncles, one has 9 daughters other has 5 n their marriage is still going on nicely mashaAllah

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  • puella
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    Originally posted by Lord Summerisle View Post
    No, money is poured into contraception and how to do it safely. Big difference.
    then why are the stats screaming out at us that teenage pregnancies are on the rise?...yes the govt is investing promoting contraception and safe sex, but that is besides teh point, the fact that sex is something that is liberaly being spoken about is an outrage!

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  • sunrise
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    Originally posted by umm shuyookh View Post
    girls do cause problems in some marriages but should not cause divorce at least for any right thinking man, muslim or otherwise because it aint the womans fault, if it is a fault to have a girl that is.

    so it must be in men in the other ones


    so its equal

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  • 1 LOVE 1 DEEN
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    Lord Summerisle what you need to comprehend is that what the followers of a religion do and what a religion says may not neccesarily be in accordance.

    It would be silly to judge the actions of a few backward thinking people still steeped in culture on a religion. Islam gives a high regard to women and its holy book the Quran clearly forbade the evil practices of the pagan arabs who practiced such wicked acts.

    In addition it would be important to point out that in India a lot of the couples who want to find out the sex of the child are non muslim and shouldnt be associated with muslims but on the culture of a particular region.

    The beauty of Islam is that it's universal it came for all of mankind and if you ever spent time reading the book, getting a copy is very easy, you will find it addresses all of mankind, muslims and non muslims and provides you with many signs and proofs etc

    Comming back to the topic of women, they are regarded soo highly in Islam that Allah almighty regards the women who give birth to be the hand maidens of Allah, they are to be treated like a Queen in the home, they never have to work, if they do the money is theres unless they wish to share it, she is not obliged to pay for any bills, i could go on and on.

    So please in future dont try and diss something you dont understand, what is the purpose of you being a muslim forum? if you want to learn about islam then you need to 1st remove all the prejudices you have as these are all rooted in ignorance and the only way to learn is to educate yourself.

    I suggest you pray for guidance may Allah guide you to the truth inshallah.

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    Summerisle, this place surely is not suited for the likes of you. Why don't you put us all out of your misery by removing your filthy presence from here. I thank you in advance.

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  • MG
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    Originally posted by Lord Summerisle View Post
    No, money is poured into contraception and how to do it safely. Big difference.
    i call that promotion of pre-marital sex, promotion of abortions, as never will u be able to condone pre-marital sex, yet think u can "control" abortions, unwanted preganancies.

    its now to the point where authorities feel they dont need to tell parents when they are helping THEIR children to have abortions, its disgusting and countries like UK/US that we live, that think they are better than other countries, need to have a good look in their back yard b4 calling themsleves leaders of the world and the ones who are fighting the "villains"


    hence these are the signs of the hour may Allah SWT protect us from them ameen

    seem to have gone off-topic sorry thread starter!

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    Originally posted by MG View Post

    instead millions and millions is poured into to show these children HOW to have sex, not stop it but how to have it.
    No, money is poured into contraception and how to do it safely. Big difference.

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  • LiveIslam
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    Originally posted by sis_niqabi View Post
    salam

    astagfirallah, i cant believe people in the this day and age are still frowning when a girl baby is born. especcially when i see muslim men being upset because their wives have baby girls. i remeber reading an article about how in some places in india they banned parents from finding out the sex of the child because if it was a girl a lot of the parents were aborting it.astagfirallah.

    in islam there are blessings in having girls.
    that's what happen in my family. when my baby sister was born everyone thought it would be a boy including the doctor, but when she was born she was a girl. when my father found out, he never held her and wouldn't even look at her. now my dad wouldn't never let her go as she's daddy little girl.

    and also my dad know all his girls mean more to him as we do all his work for him whereas one of my bro his useless

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  • MG
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    Originally posted by Lord Summerisle View Post
    It never ceases to amaze me when I read threads about how evil etc western culture is, particularly when I read about the evils of other cultures, like the one outlined above. Upset for having a daughter. Abortion because the woman is carrying a baby girl?

    Thank goodness this perversity is not the norm in the west.

    the pervisty exists in evil form in western society we live in, and it is very very rife, pre-marital sex is always being promoted, never does anyone stand up and say dont do it.

    Girls from 10/ 11 and onwards, aborting baby after baby becos they cant stop having pre-marital sex is disgusting and yet society calls this "moving forward" " a part of life" "they are to young for children" yet they arnt to young to sleep with others.

    instead millions and millions is poured into to show these children HOW to have sex, not stop it but how to have it.

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    Originally posted by sis_niqabi View Post

    astagfirallah, i cant believe people in the this day and age are still frowning when a girl baby is born. especcially when i see muslim men being upset because their wives have baby girls. i remeber reading an article about how in some places in india they banned parents from finding out the sex of the child because if it was a girl a lot of the parents were aborting it.
    It never ceases to amaze me when I read threads about how evil etc western culture is, particularly when I read about the evils of other cultures, like the one outlined above. Upset for having a daughter. Abortion because the woman is carrying a baby girl?

    Thank goodness this perversity is not the norm in the west.

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  • mara
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    The girls are the most useful children for the parents. They do almost the whole house work for them , excluding certain task which are too high for their age. On the other hand baby boys are doing nothing, not useful at all. Here everyone is content when a girl is borned.:up:

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  • sis_niqabi
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    salam

    astagfirallah, i cant believe people in the this day and age are still frowning when a girl baby is born. especcially when i see muslim men being upset because their wives have baby girls. i remeber reading an article about how in some places in india they banned parents from finding out the sex of the child because if it was a girl a lot of the parents were aborting it.astagfirallah.

    in islam there are blessings in having girls.

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  • puella
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    Originally posted by umm shuyookh View Post
    I mean the birth of only girls makes some men feel sad and even ashamed in some cultures. my mom for instance had six girls and that was my father's only reason for marrying a second wife who as Allah decreed, bore him a son. mom told us the pressure was so much she was willing to do anything to have a son, even shirk, it was that bad.:lailah:
    subhanAllah its so sad to hear that....yes its true some do say that it takes a man to make a man...but that is the jahil way of thinking about it. Allah is in control of what sex your child is,so how can we be haughty when we have six boys or depressed when we have six girls...

    having many boys in my cultural family implies that you have alot of strength behind you,so people think twice before they would dare to even mess with you...it all heralds back to the times when the pagans of arabia would bury thier daughters alive,for the baseless reason that they are female...yet they need those same females in order to produce the sons that they so desperately want..like a terrible vicious cycle!!

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    Originally posted by puella View Post
    i would like you to explain your comment further please!
    I mean the birth of only girls makes some men feel sad and even ashamed in some cultures. my mom for instance had six girls and that was my father's only reason for marrying a second wife who as Allah decreed, bore him a son. mom told us the pressure was so much she was willing to do anything to have a son, even shirk, it was that bad.:lailah:

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  • Kal-El
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    They may officially request divorce, but it doesn't mean they are the cause of the reason why they may want to leave that man.

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