Those men who have more than 1 wife..I SALUTE YOU

[muslimuk]

to all those men who have married more than one women and ARE ABLE TO SATISFY ALL THEI NEED AND TREAT THEM EQUALLY i respect you...

Allah knows his creation better than anyone else..
allah knows men have instincts which will make them like more than one women.
and allah through his wisdom has given a way in which a man can do this without commiting haramm but has put conditions on it..

As long as you treat them right then its good



for thw sisters/wives understand its allowed in islam.. Its been allowed by alalh and you should accept this . cos sometimes if yo dont they may commit haram better to let your husbands not do haram than do haram..
do not be sad feel he hates you rahter be like the wives of the ansaar..

may allah guide us all to the truth(al-islam)

[elji]

Re: Those men who have more than 1 wife..I SALUTE YOU

to all those men who have married more than one women and ARE ABLE TO SATISFY ALL THEI NEED AND TREAT THEM EQUALLY i respect you...

Allah knows his creation better than anyone else..
allah knows men have instincts which will make them like more than one women.
and allah through his wisdom has given a way in which a man can do this without commiting haramm but has put conditions on it..

As long as you treat them right then its good



for thw sisters/wives understand its allowed in islam.. Its been allowed by alalh and you should accept this . cos sometimes if yo dont they may commit haram better to let your husbands not do haram than do haram..
do not be sad feel he hates you rahter be like the wives of the ansaar..

may allah guide us all to the truth(al-islam)

I Salute them too

[Ibn Khattab]

Re: Those men who have more than 1 wife..I SALUTE YOU

why thank you :D

[Medievalist]

Re: Those men who have more than 1 wife..I SALUTE YOU

why thank you :D

bro he's talking abt REAL wives, not the imaginery ones you got running around in yer head **roll eyes**

[Raziel]

Re: Those men who have more than 1 wife..I SALUTE YOU

to all those men who have married more than one women and ARE ABLE TO SATISFY ALL THE NEED AND TREAT THEM EQUALLY i respect you...

Allah knows his creation better than anyone else..
allah knows men have instincts which will make them like more than one women.
and allah through his wisdom has given a way in which a man can do this without commiting haramm but has put conditions on it..

As long as you treat them right then its good


for thw sisters/wives understand its allowed in islam.. Its been allowed by alalh and you should accept this . cos sometimes if yo dont they may commit haram better to let your husbands not do haram than do haram..
do not be sad feel he hates you rahter be like the wives of the ansaar..

may allah guide us all to the truth(al-islam)

I have great respect for those who treat their Wives with Equity too...

:jkk:

[Lord Summerisle]

Re: Those men who have more than 1 wife..I SALUTE YOU

to all those men who have married more than one women and ARE ABLE TO SATISFY ALL THEI NEED AND TREAT THEM EQUALLY i respect you...

Allah knows his creation better than anyone else..
allah knows men have instincts which will make them like more than one women.
and allah through his wisdom has given a way in which a man can do this without commiting haramm but has put conditions on it..

As long as you treat them right then its good



for thw sisters/wives understand its allowed in islam.. Its been allowed by alalh and you should accept this . cos sometimes if yo dont they may commit haram better to let your husbands not do haram than do haram..
do not be sad feel he hates you rahter be like the wives of the ansaar..

may allah guide us all to the truth(al-islam)

Really.

Out of interest, how would you feel if your wife wanted to go out and get herself a few more husbands? Don't worry, she'd treat you all equally.

[sis_niqabi]

Re: Those men who have more than 1 wife..I SALUTE YOU

Really.

Out of interest, how would you feel if your wife wanted to go out and get herself a few more husbands? Don't worry, she'd treat you all equally.

no woman in her right mind wants to get another husband. one husband is enough work. and plus if a woman has more than one husband there will be confusion on who the father of the child is. that's one of the reasons why women are not allowed to have more than one husband. plus the jealously between the husbands would be violent. fighting and punching all the time. not a pretty sight

[Lord Summerisle]

Re: Those men who have more than 1 wife..I SALUTE YOU

no woman in her right mind wants to get another husband. one husband is enough work. and plus if a woman has more than one husband there will be confusion on who the father of the child is. that's one of the reasons why women are not allowed to have more than one husband. plus the jealously between the husbands would be violent. fighting and punching all the time. not a pretty sight

I can see your point about one husband being enough work, lol. Yet the same could be said for wives, could it not?;)

Why the double standard re this issue? Do women not feel jealousy toward other women? Of course they do! Didn't Aisha feel jealousy toward another of Mohammeds wives (I'm recalling a post that described this)? So why is it OK for a man but not for a woman? Why does a woman not deserve to be the only beloved and love of a mans life?

[Saeed Al-Muslim]

Re: Those men who have more than 1 wife..I SALUTE YOU

Summerisle, you really do have an inquisitive mind. May Allah (swT) guide you to Islam, Ameen.

[Ibn Khattab]

Re: Those men who have more than 1 wife..I SALUTE YOU

I can see your point about one husband being enough work, lol. Yet the same could be said for wives, could it not?;)

Why the double standard re this issue? Do women not feel jealousy toward other women? Of course they do! Didn't Aisha feel jealousy toward another of Mohammeds wives (I'm recalling a post that described this)? So why is it OK for a man but not for a woman? Why does a woman not deserve to be the only beloved and love of a mans life?

I understand where you coming from but there is an explanation for this. ill try and find the video response by dr zakir naik or if anyone else has it then please upload for him inshallah.

[Ibn Khattab]

Re: Those men who have more than 1 wife..I SALUTE YOU

but to summarise a couple of the points he mentioned:

1. ratio of women to men is high therefore if every man was to marry a woman, there would be loads of women unmarried. statistics show that the ratio is getting bigger as well.
2. more chances of sexually transmitted diseases when women have relationships with more than 1 man.
3. if women was to become pregnant, confusion over who the father is which may lead to physical fights.

he mentioned a few more as well but i dnt have much knowledge on this subject so ill leave to someone more knowledgable inshallah :)

[MMS]

Re: Those men who have more than 1 wife..I SALUTE YOU

paternity tests

[Lord Summerisle]

Re: Those men who have more than 1 wife..I SALUTE YOU

Summerisle, you really do have an inquisitive mind. May Allah (swT) guide you to Islam, Ameen.

I do. I just wish more people had.

[Lord Summerisle]

Re: Those men who have more than 1 wife..I SALUTE YOU

but to summarise a couple of the points he mentioned:

1. ratio of women to men is high therefore if every man was to marry a woman, there would be loads of women unmarried. statistics show that the ratio is getting bigger as well.

Ratio of women to men high? Where? This is a very general statement, and offers no answer to the double standard I mentioned.

2. more chances of sexually transmitted diseases when women have relationships with more than 1 man.

Can you please explain this? In relation to the double standard, I mean. This works both ways. Greater risk of STD's if the man sleeps around, too. So, again, what has this to do with justifying polygamy for a man but not for a woman?

3. if women was to become pregnant, confusion over who the father is which may lead to physical fights.

DNA test. Once again, no answers to my questions.

Why is a woman not entitled to be the one and only apple of a mans eye, his only love?


Why is polygamy acceptable for a man but not for a woman?

[MG]

Re: Those men who have more than 1 wife..I SALUTE YOU

Really.

Out of interest, how would you feel if your wife wanted to go out and get herself a few more husbands? Don't worry, she'd treat you all equally.

then she would have to make sure she always has a Doctor on the side, cos everytime she pops a sprog she will need to know which of the "few husbands" is the papa.

Allah SWT has made polygamy permissable for brothers for a reason and their is wisdom behind this if u delve deeper.
Im not saying i would be happy to be a part of a polygamy marriage but i do respect why Allah SWT has made this act permissable.