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  • #16
    Kingfisher are you on any matrimonial sites? I think that would be the best option as I don't think anyone would feel comfortable with direct contact.

    Lol at sister Ya'sins comment, I think single people are coming here to rant about thier frustrations with marriage thus far as we all need a way of getting things off our mind, better this forum than other things 🤷‍♀️

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    • #17
      Originally posted by A Wandering Soul View Post
      Kingfisher are you on any matrimonial sites? I think that would be the best option as I don't think anyone would feel comfortable with direct contact.

      Lol at sister Ya'sins comment, I think single people are coming here to rant about thier frustrations with marriage thus far as we all need a way of getting things off our mind, better this forum than other things 🤷‍♀️
      The bit about a&e was said in jest, I always come on here to vent and rant
      That was one of my reasons for joining again, to talk about marriage

      i understand the frustrations, I really do
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      'Whatever it be wherein ye differ, the decision thereof is with Allah: such is Allah my Lord: In Him I trust, and to Him I turn.' The Holy Qu'ran Al Shura (Consultation)

      So, which of the favours of your lord will you deny? ~ Surah Ar Rahman

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      • #18
        Phew I'm glad you get it sis, was beginning to feel like a numpty for coming on here lol. I feel a bit bad we've kind of hijacked the OP's post. Is this normal on here 🤭

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        • #19
          Originally posted by A Wandering Soul View Post
          Phew I'm glad you get it sis, was beginning to feel like a numpty for coming on here lol. I feel a bit bad we've kind of hijacked the OP's post. Is this normal on here 🤭
          Don't you worry, happens all the time, all the flippin time I tell ya
          if it didn't happen, it wouldn't be UF
          Welcome to the forum

          'Whatever it be wherein ye differ, the decision thereof is with Allah: such is Allah my Lord: In Him I trust, and to Him I turn.' The Holy Qu'ran Al Shura (Consultation)

          So, which of the favours of your lord will you deny? ~ Surah Ar Rahman

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          • #20
            Originally posted by kingfisher View Post
            Wandering soul since you personally know of good women, you can put me in touch with the single one's seeking marriage, that will be a good deed on your part and may result in 2 people finding happiness in sha Allah
            no beating around the bush son lool

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            • #21
              Originally posted by Ya'sin View Post

              Don't you worry, happens all the time, all the flippin time I tell ya
              if it didn't happen, it wouldn't be UF
              Welcome to the forum
              Thank you sister Ya'sin, I already feel part of the UF community, I will try my best to continue the traditions of ranting my problems on other peoples posts ​​​​​​​

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              • #22
                Originally posted by A Wandering Soul View Post

                Thank you sister Ya'sin, I already feel part of the UF community, I will try my best to continue the traditions of ranting my problems on other peoples posts
                hehe
                Have you explored the other parts of the forum, there are very useful threads and reminders

                ​​​​​​​we even talk about chai, it can't get more normal than that

                Enjoy me dear
                'Whatever it be wherein ye differ, the decision thereof is with Allah: such is Allah my Lord: In Him I trust, and to Him I turn.' The Holy Qu'ran Al Shura (Consultation)

                So, which of the favours of your lord will you deny? ~ Surah Ar Rahman

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                • #23
                  Wandering soul if they are serious about getting married , they will have to talk directly with a potential spouse.
                  If they are not comfortable, I'll talk to their fathers instead, no problem.
                  Matrimonial sites don't work because most people are not serious, they are only window shopping.

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                  • #24
                    Yeah so what parts of the forum are most active? I did have a look but there's just too many to look through not sure where to go. The marriage section was clearly the juiciest haha

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                    • #25
                      Originally posted by Ya'sin View Post

                      hehe
                      Have you explored the other parts of the forum, there are very useful threads and reminders

                      we even talk about chai, it can't get more normal than that

                      Enjoy me dear
                      Yeah so what parts of the forum are most active? I did have a look but there's just too many to look through not sure where to go. The marriage section was clearly the juiciest haha

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                      • #26
                        Originally posted by A Wandering Soul View Post

                        Yeah so what parts of the forum are most active? I did have a look but there's just too many to look through not sure where to go. The marriage section was clearly the juiciest haha
                        Depends what you are interested in
                        if you are looking for reminders or some Islamic knowledge with references, there is the Islamic section

                        The lounge is where you will find me chilling out and miscellaneous random threads

                        if you are looking for some debates, they are taking place as we speak lol

                        Lifestyle is a nice section

                        Whatever you fancy

                        most active is the lounge


                        'Whatever it be wherein ye differ, the decision thereof is with Allah: such is Allah my Lord: In Him I trust, and to Him I turn.' The Holy Qu'ran Al Shura (Consultation)

                        So, which of the favours of your lord will you deny? ~ Surah Ar Rahman

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                        • #27
                          Originally posted by kingfisher View Post
                          Wandering soul if they are serious about getting married , they will have to talk directly with a potential spouse.
                          If they are not comfortable, I'll talk to their fathers instead, no problem.
                          Matrimonial sites don't work because most people are not serious, they are only window shopping.
                          Yes at some stage they will have to talk to the potential spouse but I don't think practicing sisters would be comfortable in being contacted directly, and they don't know anything about you to even introduce you to thier fathers which is why I think the matrimonial site is a good route as you can get to know someone a bit before asking a Wali to step in...

                          Yes you are right in saying that there are a lot of people messing about on these sites but there are plenty of genuine people too. You just have to put the effort in to filter through them. Pure matrimony is a good site if you're in the UK, most of the candidates on there seem pretty genuine and are generally quite practicing compare to some of these other sites. Give it a go...

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                          • #28
                            If these sites worked, there would be no marriage crisis. If pure matrimony works, then why are you still single?
                            What percentage of people who use pure matrimony have ended up marrying?

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                            • #29
                              Originally posted by Ya'sin View Post

                              Depends what you are interested in
                              if you are looking for reminders or some Islamic knowledge with references, there is the Islamic section

                              The lounge is where you will find me chilling out and miscellaneous random threads

                              if you are looking for some debates, they are taking place as we speak lol

                              Lifestyle is a nice section

                              Whatever you fancy

                              most active is the lounge

                              Depates sound juicy too lol. I think I will check out the lounge section in the coming days InshaAllah and maybe the lifestyle section too.

                              Jazakallahu khair and I guess I'll see you around 🙂

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                              • #30
                                Originally posted by kingfisher View Post
                                If these sites worked, there would be no marriage crisis. If pure matrimony works, then why are you still single?
                                What percentage of people who use pure matrimony have ended up marrying?
                                I know people who have found matches on pure matrimony and are now married...

                                As for percentages you need to ask someone who works for the website not me, I was only putting forth a suggestion. Just because I'm still single doesn't mean we question the validity of these sites. Even if only one couple married from such a site it is still better than nothing. The intention and initiative is there and I think the rest lies in the hands of Allah swt .

                                I don't think it's fair to blame these sites for marriage crisis, the blame lies with the ummah collectively, we are failing.

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