Just some advice really.
I have met a truly good man. He is very respectful, religious, genuine. As a revert I have met some awful men with haram intentions but he is nothing like this. We have talked about marriage and he is happy to proceed and said that before going further with practicalities he would need his parents approval and to avoid hurting either of us he will talk to them about me within the next few days.
He said that His parents are not judgemental people but he feels they may not accept him marrying a British convert because they would prefer he married an Arab woman.
However he is 34 and he feels that as he is older and they are very keen for him to get married they may accept me.
i am feeling very down about this as he will not marry me against his parents wishes even though they have not met me and so can’t really reject me based on some simple facts about me.
i am finding it difficult to accept what could be a good marriage can end just because his parents don’t want him to marry a white woman. This reasoning does not seem reasonable. I could completely understand if it was something such as the woman was atheist or living a haram lifestyle.
as a revert will I ever be married if it’s so u likely parents will accept their son marrying a British woman?
it makes me fear for the future.
I have met a truly good man. He is very respectful, religious, genuine. As a revert I have met some awful men with haram intentions but he is nothing like this. We have talked about marriage and he is happy to proceed and said that before going further with practicalities he would need his parents approval and to avoid hurting either of us he will talk to them about me within the next few days.
He said that His parents are not judgemental people but he feels they may not accept him marrying a British convert because they would prefer he married an Arab woman.
However he is 34 and he feels that as he is older and they are very keen for him to get married they may accept me.
i am feeling very down about this as he will not marry me against his parents wishes even though they have not met me and so can’t really reject me based on some simple facts about me.
i am finding it difficult to accept what could be a good marriage can end just because his parents don’t want him to marry a white woman. This reasoning does not seem reasonable. I could completely understand if it was something such as the woman was atheist or living a haram lifestyle.
as a revert will I ever be married if it’s so u likely parents will accept their son marrying a British woman?
it makes me fear for the future.
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