Nothing wrong with having personal preferences as mentioned many times but don’t you find it worrying when someone is so obsessed with marrying out of their Race that they will accept someone who is like a 1/10
Nothing wrong with having personal preferences as mentioned many times but don’t you find it worrying when someone is so obsessed with marrying out of their Race that they will accept someone who is like a 1/10
Some of the reasons can’t be said on a mixed forum but believe me, some men are twisted. Then you get the men who think they will be the knight in shining armour rescuing some poor divorcee looooooool like they think oh she must have been abused bla bla so I can just be a ‘normal’ husband to her and she’ll appreciate me
you get men who love to walk in to a ready made marriage as a divorcee would usually have her own place be on point with her finances etc so he won’t have to do much for her
then you get the predators who single out divorcees as they have a sickness in their heart and they see the divorcee as vulnerable and so they would put up with their rubbish
I figured it would be some weird reasons like that. Some men see them as easy prey. Are these usually revert men marrying them? All the divorcees I know usually either had to marry another divorcee or enter a polygamous marriage. It can take several years sometimes for them to get remarried. I don’t see young never married men marrying them. Some men marry them to leech off their government benefits. You are right that some men think they are doing them a favor by “ saving” them.
This brother was saying how in 15-16 years of his work at a mosque, he hasn’t seen a divorcee get remarried.
Therefore remember Me, I will remember you, And be thankful to Me, and do not be ungrateful to Me." [Qur'an 2:152] Behold in the Remembrance of Allah do hearts find satisfaction."
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I figured it would be some weird reasons like that. Some men see them as easy prey. Are these usually revert men marrying them? All the divorcees I know usually either had to marry another divorcee or enter a polygamous marriage. It can take several years sometimes for them to get remarried. I don’t see young never married men marrying them. Some men marry them to leech off their government benefits. You are right that some men think they are doing them a favor by “ saving” them.
This brother was saying how in 15-16 years of his work at a mosque, he hasn’t seen a divorcee get remarried.
The video looks interesting, I’ll watch it later Insha allah. There definitely are single men who would marry Divorcees and there not always reverts. I think an issue is that divorcees always assume that it may be really difficult for them to re marry and it’s not always the case, so sometimes they can be extremely naive when they get marriage proposals
The video looks interesting, I’ll watch it later Insha allah. There definitely are single men who would marry Divorcees and there not always reverts. I think an issue is that divorcees always assume that it may be really difficult for them to re marry and it’s not always the case, so sometimes they can be extremely naive when they get marriage proposals
Interesting...make another thread on this. Lol since your marriage threads never get closed...hahah
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