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    Asalamualaikum,
    How does one go about searching for a spouse (specifically in London, UK) in a halal way? I have registered in mosques and I feel like the imams are just too busy to match make.. also tried muzmatch but deleted it almost instantly because of the amount of fitnah and haram activity going on.

    I previously married a Afro Latino revert but we divorced after two weeks because unfortunately I found out a lot of things that had been hidden from me.

    I know that black brothers find it difficult to get married but I do find them attractive however, I am open to all races. Not too keen on asian as the cultural innovations that they have adopted are a major put off.

    The problem is that we don’t have any links or connections with people in the community to be able to find someone by word of mouth. Is there any London revert marriage events?
    Any other ways ?

    Jazakallah khair

  • #2
    Wa'alaykumasalaam. Try purematrimony.com or sunnah marriage uk .

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    • #3
      I’ve heard pure matrimony has a lot of married brothers on there? Do you know if that’s true? Personally I’m not looking for a polygamous marriage. I’ll give it a go anyways jazakallah

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      • #4
        Originally posted by Morenarizos View Post
        I’ve heard pure matrimony has a lot of married brothers on there? Do you know if that’s true? Personally I’m not looking for a polygamous marriage. I’ll give it a go anyways jazakallah
        Probably but there'll be more single brothers. BarakAllahu Feeki.

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        • #5
          Originally posted by Morenarizos View Post
          I’ve heard pure matrimony has a lot of married brothers on there? Do you know if that’s true? Personally I’m not looking for a polygamous marriage. I’ll give it a go anyways jazakallah
          i am on it and have had no success so far

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          • #6
            Originally posted by Architectmuslim View Post

            i am on it and have had no success so far
            Message each other's PM profile. Problem solved insha'Allah.

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            • #7
              Originally posted by Architectmuslim View Post

              i am on it and have had no success so far
              It will take time, you have just joined and started looking.

              'Whatever it be wherein ye differ, the decision thereof is with Allah: such is Allah my Lord: In Him I trust, and to Him I turn.' The Holy Qu'ran Al Shura (Consultation)

              So, which of the favours of your lord will you deny? ~ Surah Ar Rahman

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              • #8
                Originally posted by Ya'sin View Post

                It will take time, you have just joined and started looking.
                yes

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by Morenarizos View Post
                  I’ve heard pure matrimony has a lot of married brothers on there? Do you know if that’s true? Personally I’m not looking for a polygamous marriage. I’ll give it a go anyways jazakallah
                  probably just the Arabs, I have seen other sisters on here say there were many looking for co wives

                  There has to be single ones, you have to be cautious because people are weird

                  Just make sure you highlight you're not interested and you can report them if they don't get off your case

                  Also, be careful if you get private messages on here
                  'Whatever it be wherein ye differ, the decision thereof is with Allah: such is Allah my Lord: In Him I trust, and to Him I turn.' The Holy Qu'ran Al Shura (Consultation)

                  So, which of the favours of your lord will you deny? ~ Surah Ar Rahman

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                  • #10
                    Thank you brother, I will keep that in mind for sure. I am extremely weary after my last experience. It’s scary how much people can lie about themselves to deceive you.

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by Morenarizos View Post
                      Thank you brother, I will keep that in mind for sure. I am extremely weary after my last experience. It’s scary how much people can lie about themselves to deceive you.
                      (i'm a sister, don't be sorry, its just my username so i'm used to new members thinking i'm a man lol )

                      don't worry sis, I know exactly where you're coming from, may Allah swt make it easy for you and bless you with a righteous spouse. Ameen
                      'Whatever it be wherein ye differ, the decision thereof is with Allah: such is Allah my Lord: In Him I trust, and to Him I turn.' The Holy Qu'ran Al Shura (Consultation)

                      So, which of the favours of your lord will you deny? ~ Surah Ar Rahman

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                      • #12
                        The prejudice against Asians continues.

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                        • #13
                          SisterYa’sin jzk for pardoning my error! And ameen to you too ukhti have a blessed Ramadan.

                          stoicbeliever- this is not a preconceived opinion rather it is based on experience as I’m part asian myself.

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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by Morenarizos View Post
                            Asalamualaikum,
                            How does one go about searching for a spouse (specifically in London, UK) in a halal way? I have registered in mosques and I feel like the imams are just too busy to match make.. also tried muzmatch but deleted it almost instantly because of the amount of fitnah and haram activity going on.

                            I previously married a Afro Latino revert but we divorced after two weeks because unfortunately I found out a lot of things that had been hidden from me.

                            I know that black brothers find it difficult to get married but I do find them attractive however, I am open to all races. Not too keen on asian as the cultural innovations that they have adopted are a major put off.

                            The problem is that we don’t have any links or connections with people in the community to be able to find someone by word of mouth. Is there any London revert marriage events?
                            Any other ways ?

                            Jazakallah khair
                            I would like to know ways to find a spouse too, in the Middle East. I tried matrimony sites; but like as you said, many men are looking for polygamy/future polygamy. I am not quite young, and that makes it even more difficult to find a mature religious man.

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                            • #15
                              Originally posted by nightingalesong View Post

                              I would like to know ways to find a spouse too, in the Middle East. I tried matrimony sites; but like as you said, many men are looking for polygamy/future polygamy. I am not quite young, and that makes it even more difficult to find a mature religious man.
                              Sister honestly all we can do is make dua and trust Allah. It gets abit draining going over the same questions with different people only to find out we aren’t compatible (or maybe I find it hard because I’m introverted?)

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