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    Salaams peeps is ignoring your spouse such a thing in Islam?

    ¬¬†is a wife allowed to ignore her husband?¬†

    i is a husband allowed to ignore his wife? 

    personally I think ignoring is such a hurtful thing to do no matter the reasons why it's justified 

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    Wa-Alaikum Salaam

    Is doing anything you know will hurt you spouse permissible?

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    • #3
      Originally posted by Simply_Logical View Post
      Salaams peeps is ignoring your spouse such a thing in Islam?

      ¬¬ is a wife allowed to ignore her husband?¬

      i is a husband allowed to ignore his wife?¬

      personally I think ignoring is such a hurtful thing to do no matter the reasons why it's justified¬
      One of the methods of discipline prescribed in the Qur'an is to refuse sharing the bed. Wouldn't that be a form of "ignoring"?

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      • #4
        Originally posted by Eijaz Koor View Post
        Wa-Alaikum Salaam

        Is doing anything you know will hurt you spouse permissible?
        It's not necessarily Haram. Sometimes doing something Halal might upset your wife, but that doesn't make it Haram. If that was the case, then your wife's desires and emotions would be the boss of the relationship.

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        • #5
          Ignoring in what sense? Like you talk to her and she doesn't reply back to you? 

          I sometimes ignore my husband when he's being immature. 

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          • #6
            Originally posted by AmantuBillahi View Post

            One of the methods of discipline prescribed in the Qur'an is to refuse sharing the bed. Wouldn't that be a form of "ignoring"?
            I'm not sure

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            • #7
              Originally posted by Indefinable View Post
              Ignoring in what sense? Like you talk to her and she doesn't reply back to you?¬¬†

              I sometimes ignore my husband when he's being immature.¬¬†
              Yea when he/she blatantly ignores you for some time

              no I don't mean when it's done out of banter

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              • #8
                Originally posted by AmantuBillahi View Post

                One of the methods of discipline prescribed in the Qur'an is to refuse sharing the bed. Wouldn't that be a form of "ignoring"?
                no lol

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by Simply_Logical View Post

                  Yea when he/she blatantly ignores you for some time

                  no I don't mean when it's done out of banter
                  "Some time" ... is that days or weeks or months?

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by Abu julaybeeb View Post

                    no lol
                    Why not?

                    Refusing to share the bed = Silent treatment = Ignoring

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by AmantuBillahi View Post

                      Why not?

                      Refusing to share the bed = Silent treatment = Ignoring
                      Isn't that more of a punishment for something you disapprove of? 

                      And ignoring someone, like refusing to talk to them is more of emotional abuse? 

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by Indefinable View Post

                        Isn't that more of a punishment for something you disapprove of?¬

                        And ignoring someone, like refusing to talk to them is more of emotional abuse?¬
                        How are you differentiating between "punishment" and "emotional abuse"? One could argue that refusing to share the bed is also emotional abuse.

                        If I'm not mistaken, the intended purpose of refusing to share the bed is to enact the silent treatment. It's a prescribed form of punishing/rectifying the relationship between you and your spouse.

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by Indefinable View Post

                          "Some time" ... is that days or weeks or months?
                          Depends could be days or a week

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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by Indefinable View Post

                            Isn't that more of a punishment for something you disapprove of?¬¬†

                            And ignoring someone, like refusing to talk to them is more of emotional abuse?¬¬†
                            It is emotional abuse

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                            • #15
                              Originally posted by AmantuBillahi View Post

                              How are you differentiating between "punishment" and "emotional abuse"? One could argue that refusing to share the bed is also emotional abuse.

                              If I'm not mistaken, the intended purpose of refusing to share the bed is to enact the silent treatment. It's a prescribed form of punishing/rectifying the relationship between you and your spouse.
                              Its not to enact silent treatment

                              its to stop intimacy mainly and just the act of going to another bed shows there are issues and escalation has occured in terms of conflict resolution

                              and this is mention in quran thus it is not abuse (the word abuse has negative connotations) 

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