Assalamu alaikum. I like a guy and have been speaking to him for 2 months. MA he's on the deen and we are the same age. We have went on 5 dates with my mahram around.
Anyways I decided to pray istikhara. He did it too and we saw 2 completely different things. He had a postive feeling and started increasing his deen becuase I motivated him apparently.
Then there's me. I dreamt 3 dreams in a row of me being with someone else. The first 2 were different people and the last was with me and him then the last party changed to someone else. I want to leave him because of these dreams. I told him and he's so upset he's not eating or sleeping. I feel so bad. Please idk what to do. He wants us to stop speaking now and wait for him after I finish uni which is in 2 years. Then hell speak to me. Should I not?
My brother tells me that the dreams are from shaitan but I really don't know. I actually like him and he really likes me but if these signs are from Allah swt I will choose Allah.
Anyways I decided to pray istikhara. He did it too and we saw 2 completely different things. He had a postive feeling and started increasing his deen becuase I motivated him apparently.
Then there's me. I dreamt 3 dreams in a row of me being with someone else. The first 2 were different people and the last was with me and him then the last party changed to someone else. I want to leave him because of these dreams. I told him and he's so upset he's not eating or sleeping. I feel so bad. Please idk what to do. He wants us to stop speaking now and wait for him after I finish uni which is in 2 years. Then hell speak to me. Should I not?
My brother tells me that the dreams are from shaitan but I really don't know. I actually like him and he really likes me but if these signs are from Allah swt I will choose Allah.
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