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  • Is it wrong to talk to two different families?

    I'm considering marrying one of two women at the moment but I don't know which one should I go for. Do you think it is morally wrong to continue to speak to both families until I find which one is better or should I speak just to one?

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    Not sure what the Islamic ruling is on this, I am sure someone will be able to provide some Islamic references, but from your perspective, would you be okay if one of those families was also looking at people from two different families where you were one of those families? If no, then based on your personal morals, it would be wrong for you to talk to two families at the same time. If you would be perfectly okay for the other family looking at two families where you are one of the families, then based on your personal morals, it would be okay.
    Last edited by oshirowanen; 13-06-19, 06:56 PM.

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    • #3
      You should not have face to face meeting with more than one prospect at times but if you are talking about background search/pre meeting stuff then its ok. I know islamically we should only entertain one prospect at a time so not to cloud our judgment.

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      • #4
        Just one.

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        • #5
          Stop confusing yourself.

          Men are hopeless at judging women as it is.

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          • #6
            Originally posted by MyUsernameIs... View Post

            Men are hopeless at judging women as it is.
            ¬*

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            • #7
              Originally posted by MyUsernameIs... View Post
              Stop confusing yourself.

              Men are hopeless at judging women as it is.

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              • #8
                It's better if you concentrate on one sister/family at a time. It shows respect and also, you'll get less confused..

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                • #9
                  just marry both bro if you can afford it :D

                  jokes aside .. I think you can only be serious with one at a time

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by Umm Uthmaan View Post
                    It's better if you concentrate on one sister/family at a time. It shows respect and also, you'll get less confused..
                    So many sisters talk to multiple boys at one time

                    its not just brothers

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                    • #11
                      Follow your aql and not your nafs
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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by Abu julaybeeb View Post

                        So many sisters talk to multiple boys at one time

                        its not just brothers
                        Your point is?

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by Bayna3 View Post
                          just marry both bro if you can afford it :D
                          Finally. Some serious discussion around here.

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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by Abu julaybeeb View Post

                            So many sisters talk to multiple boys at one time

                            its not just brothers
                            Are they allowed to do that? Are their walis agreeing to doing this?¬*


                            ¬*

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                            • #15
                              Originally posted by Indefinable View Post

                              Are they allowed to do that? Are their walis agreeing to doing this?¬*


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                              Their walis probably dont even know
                              Whether they are allowed or not i dont know

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