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  • Fakhri-bin-Ali
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    Originally posted by Abu 'Abdullaah View Post
    Have you asked any out-of-the-box questions?
    Is there any point when





    Women just lurve bad boys. :]

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  • Fakhri-bin-Ali
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    Originally posted by Abu julaybeeb View Post
    If i had a daughter no i wouldnt

    if someone reverts yes their sins are forgiven and we dont judge them but sins and habits can leave marks on a person and sometimes they are hard to get rid of

    if someone has been a repeat offender wouldnt especially if he still has some of his old lifestyle with him i wouldnt give my daughter if i had one

    be patient dont compromise on things like this get someone whos practising fully and has been for a while
    consistency and reliability is important
    She also mentioned he hasn't completely given up his old ways... And with so many convictions... You'd think he'd still have a target on his back from people from his past.

    If he had been solidly practicing, completely changed for 5-6 years, etc, with a job, then that might be something a little different, but still, as a hypothetical father, I'd be reluctant.

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  • Layla_
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    Originally posted by Abu 'Abdullaah View Post
    Have you asked any out-of-the-box questions?
    Erm I did ask some quite judgemental questions....

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  • Abu 'Abdullaah
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    Have you asked any out-of-the-box questions?

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  • Fakhri-bin-Ali
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    The question from the OP to brothers was if we had a daughter would we marry her to him.

    Honestly, no.

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  • Abu julaybeeb
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    If i had a daughter no i wouldnt

    if someone reverts yes their sins are forgiven and we dont judge them but sins and habits can leave marks on a person and sometimes they are hard to get rid of

    if someone has been a repeat offender wouldnt especially if he still has some of his old lifestyle with him i wouldnt give my daughter if i had one

    be patient dont compromise on things like this get someone whos practising fully and has been for a while
    consistency and reliability is important

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  • Layla_
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    Originally posted by Farah. A View Post

    Do not marry him unless he changes. Willing is not enough. Be careful sis.

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  • Layla_
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    Originally posted by Stoic Believer View Post
    Interesting.
    Thoughts?

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  • Stoic Believer
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    Interesting.

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  • Farah. A
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    Do not marry him unless he changes. Willing is not enough. Be careful sis.

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  • Layla_
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    Would you marry an ex gangsta revert?

    Assalamu alaykum

    apologies for the thread title. Sooo... for the sisters out there, would you marry an ex gangsta revert? Brothers, would you allow your daughter to marry one?

    I’ve had a brother interested in marrying me & he’s done things in the right & correct manner (approach my father etc) however my father isn’t practising & isn’t exactly taking his role as a wali seriously. (I’m also divorced) and so I’ve done some serious FBI work on this brother & have found out that he has been to prison 15 times. Wallah I’m not joking, I wish I was! He has got something like 68 offences on his record and 29 convictions. The brother has said that these offences were before he became Muslim & most of the offences are fighting. I have met the brother once in the presence of family & he’s softly spoken, seems calm and genuine. He seems to have a genuine love for Islam and has said that he reverted whilst in prison.
    Obviously when someone reverts, we look past their jahilliyah & I’m not being judgemental but he does seem to have had a very rocky start in life.¬†


    Soo..would you overlook a person’s past or would it bother you?¬†
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