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  • LailaTheMuslim
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    I have no clue how to approach this, I mean if he had completely changed and was carrying with his Islamic work on YouTube then it could of been a good idea to marry him.

    I hate the idea of discriminating against reverts, but its not that hes a convert but any Muslim with a serious continued criminal behaviour needs to sort themselves out before marrying, for the sake of not being selfish to their future spouse.

    And OP I thought u were already married tbh lol sis 

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  • Poster
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    Wa alaykum salaam

    If a friend of yours asked you this, what would you say to her? 

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  • Janna90
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    Last edited by Janna90; 22-05-19, 01:54 AM.

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  • Layla_
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  • Abu julaybeeb
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    Well usually kuffar obsess over muslim women because they are covered and cant get them (alhamdullilah )

    The way u describe him is really bad like bare red flags

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  • Layla_
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    Originally posted by Abu julaybeeb View Post

    Too much of a risk
    you also have 2 kids you need to think can this man be a role model for my children

    some will be arrogant and some wont be just need to be patient and keep looking

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  • Layla_
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    Originally posted by Fakhri-bin-Ali View Post

    There must be humble brothers our there who are practicing, surely?

    What if sister had a daughter of her own.
    Would she give her daughter to a brother in that situation?

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  • Abu julaybeeb
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    Too much of a risk
    you also have 2 kids you need to think can this man be a role model for my children

    some will be arrogant and some wont be just need to be patient and keep looking

    and if ur fear the sneaky thing then ask them
    have u been married before
    If he knows the fiqh of marriage divorce etc
    Have u got any wives

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  • Fakhri-bin-Ali
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    There must be humble brothers our there who are practicing, surely?

    What if sister had a daughter of her own.
    Would she give her daughter to a brother in that situation?

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  • Fakhri-bin-Ali
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    I was just messing with that comment. It's in reference to a giant thread on here that I'm guessing grates br Abu Abdullaah a little.

    Sneaky... in what way?


    This is maybe going off on a bit of a tangent but...

    There was a comment made on here a while back that made me think about myself. It was from someone mentioning how a person had disappointed them and they'd seen that person's true colours, how they weren't really the person they originally assumed.

    As people we should temper our expectation of others and realise that most people have flaws and are liable to disappoint us in one way or another.

    So if a brother or sister is really trying hard to improve and be a certain way but then falls short, loses their temper etc, etc, it stands out a lot of more than someone who we'd not normally associate with being very practicing/religious.

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  • Layla_
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  • Abu julaybeeb
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    Originally posted by Fakhri-bin-Ali View Post

    Is there any point when





    Women just lurve bad boys. :]
    Why oh why

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  • Abu julaybeeb
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    Originally posted by Fakhri-bin-Ali View Post

    She also mentioned he hasn't completely given up his old ways... And with so many convictions... You'd think he'd still have a target on his back from people from his past.

    If he had been solidly practicing, completely changed for 5-6 years, etc, with a job, then that might be something a little different, but still, as a hypothetical father, I'd be reluctant.
    Bro why u posting me im not married let alone have a daughter to give for marriage

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