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  • #16
    Originally posted by muslimsister91 View Post



    I registered on muslima.com and honestly about 99% of messages received are from 50+year old men from abroad. Realistically that’s not going to work. On the minder app the majority of brothers on there classified themselves as ‘non-practicing.’ Now registered on single Muslim so see how it goes.
    Is single muslim still free for women?

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    • #17
      Originally posted by Abu julaybeeb View Post

      go on pure matrimony everything else is not good
      There all the same tbh even pure matrimony people on there are not serious

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      • #18
        Originally posted by Janna90 View Post

        There all the same tbh even pure matrimony people on there are not serious
        some will some wont
        its on you to filter the good from the bad

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        • #19
          Funny how sisters complain about never getting any decent prospects online.

          Meanwhile I message sisters I'm interested in and rarely get a reply.

          Something doesn't add up here.

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          • #20
            Originally posted by Abu julaybeeb View Post

            some will some wont
            its on you to filter the good from the bad
            Yh but they lie and say they are

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            • #21
              Originally posted by Stoic Believer View Post
              Funny how sisters complain about never getting any decent prospects online.

              Meanwhile I message sisters I'm interested in and rarely get a reply.

              Something doesn't add up here.
              Maybe your messaging the wrong people. Or maybe they don't feel you will be compatible from what they read on your profile. If I see some things like the person only prays sometimes or doesn't pray then I don't reply. It could be anything.

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              • #22
                Originally posted by Janna90 View Post

                Yh but they lie and say they are
                you should ask about things to understand his charachter

                how often does he go to the masjid in a week
                what salaah does he go there for

                does he currently do any islamic classes or has he done any in the last year
                does he want to seek knowledge in islam and go to islamic classes if he hasnt
                also why hasnt he

                how often does he read quran in a week and if so for how long each time

                does he have a beard or trying to grow one
                does he wear trousers above his ankles
                does he wear islamic clothing if so when or how often

                does he listen to any islamic lecturers, students of knowledge or scholars
                apart from the obvious tv famous ones

                does he do any volunteering or charity work or has he done so in the last year

                does he want to move to a muslim country


                these kind of questioms will filter good from bad
                of course he can lie but thats why u have to get charachter references and see him in real life and not rush in to marriage

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                • #23
                  Originally posted by Janna90 View Post

                  Maybe your messaging the wrong people. Or maybe they don't feel you will be compatible from what they read on your profile. If I see some things like the person only prays sometimes or doesn't pray then I don't reply. It could be anything.
                  Deen wise I'm pretty compatible with them.

                  It's just a numbers game. You all get dozens of messages. Hard to stand out.

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                  • #24
                    Originally posted by Stoic Believer View Post

                    Deen wise I'm pretty compatible with them.

                    It's just a numbers game. You all get dozens of messages. Hard to stand out.
                    Not really, if there serious they will reply.

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                    • #25
                      Originally posted by Abu julaybeeb View Post

                      you should ask about things to understand his charachter

                      how often does he go to the masjid in a week
                      what salaah does he go there for

                      does he currently do any islamic classes or has he done any in the last year
                      does he want to seek knowledge in islam and go to islamic classes if he hasnt
                      also why hasnt he

                      how often does he read quran in a week and if so for how long each time

                      does he have a beard or trying to grow one
                      does he wear trousers above his ankles
                      does he wear islamic clothing if so when or how often

                      does he listen to any islamic lecturers, students of knowledge or scholars
                      apart from the obvious tv famous ones

                      does he do any volunteering or charity work or has he done so in the last year

                      does he want to move to a muslim country


                      these kind of questioms will filter good from bad
                      of course he can lie but thats why u have to get charachter references and see him in real life and not rush in to marriage
                      Yh those are good questions to ask, but before all that you need to make sure they have the same aqeeda. And honestly not a lot of people I spoken to do. Which leaves us with less options to choose from. Am not against the way other people choose to practice but when it comes to marriage both people need to be on the same page.

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                      • #26
                        Originally posted by Stoic Believer View Post
                        Funny how sisters complain about never getting any decent prospects online.

                        Meanwhile I message sisters I'm interested in and rarely get a reply.

                        Something doesn't add up here.
                        You probably don't climb mountains or sell cakes.

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                        • #27
                          Originally posted by Janna90 View Post

                          Yh those are good questions to ask, but before all that you need to make sure they have the same aqeeda. And honestly not a lot of people I spoken to do. Which leaves us with less options to choose from. Am not against the way other people choose to practice but when it comes to marriage both people need to be on the same page.
                          depends what your aqeedah is(maybe make it more clearer and elaborate on it in ur bio)
                          this is also why you need connections
                          ie friends who are married who can then get their spouse to look
                          maybe they have friends or
                          friends of friends etc
                          Last edited by Abu julaybeeb; 12-02-19, 01:37 PM.

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                          • #28
                            Originally posted by Janna90 View Post

                            There all the same tbh even pure matrimony people on there are not serious
                            The website is paid, why would people pay for something they are not serious about?

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                            • #29
                              Originally posted by Stoic Believer View Post

                              Deen wise I'm pretty compatible with them.

                              It's just a numbers game. You all get dozens of messages. Hard to stand out.
                              Dont forget Allah has a decree. When a woman doesn't get back at you theres a very good reason behind that. Maybe Allah saved you from something.

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                              • #30
                                Originally posted by Kaas View Post

                                The website is paid, why would people pay for something they are not serious about?
                                You tell me. It doesn’t matter if they pay or not, if someone’s intention is just to mess about then that’s what they will do.

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