My husband always gives his sister more time and attention then me.
i completely understand that this is his sister and no1 can replace your family but he just seems to completely ignore me at times.
if i come back from work its just a quick hi you okay and he wanders off into his sisters room and talks to her even though hes been at home all day as he is out of work at the moment.
Its like im boring and he would rather go speak to her. she is a loud mouth lazy person she doesn't do anything all day no cooking no cleaning doesn't even know how to work a washing machine her mum cooks all her meals for her she eats and leavers her dishes on the table which i will pickup and wash.She doesn't work and spends most of her day laying in bed watching tv or staring in the mirror telling herself how beautiful she is and how good she looks for her age she is always rude to me and ordering me about she is picky and fussy and shouts and screams if she doesn't get her way.
its like all im good for is cooking him meals and cleaning if im in the kitchen he will hardly speak a word to me and be yelling his sisters name just like im invisible. He thinks my parent s are rude and disrespectful and will always speak bad about them just because they have not seen eye to eye in the past but yet he excuses his sisters lazy behavior.there will be times when i come home form work having worked a 8 hour shift and go to make food and she orders' me about to make her a separate meal and what is she doing laying in her bed watching tv having spent all day at home.
Hes always really insulting to my parents but i put up with his rude lazy sister why cant he see that. in his eyes she can do no wrong and so what if he spends most of his time with its how it was done before and i should just put up with it and not speak a word. he also constantly reminds me how is ex girlfriend who left him was 100x times better than me and how he wished they could have married and how they would have been much happier.
im just so fed up am i over reacting.? am i right to be angry.? is it right for me to feel isolated and invisible.? why should i feel like a maid im a wife not someones slave.?
any advise would be appreciated.
i completely understand that this is his sister and no1 can replace your family but he just seems to completely ignore me at times.
if i come back from work its just a quick hi you okay and he wanders off into his sisters room and talks to her even though hes been at home all day as he is out of work at the moment.
Its like im boring and he would rather go speak to her. she is a loud mouth lazy person she doesn't do anything all day no cooking no cleaning doesn't even know how to work a washing machine her mum cooks all her meals for her she eats and leavers her dishes on the table which i will pickup and wash.She doesn't work and spends most of her day laying in bed watching tv or staring in the mirror telling herself how beautiful she is and how good she looks for her age she is always rude to me and ordering me about she is picky and fussy and shouts and screams if she doesn't get her way.
its like all im good for is cooking him meals and cleaning if im in the kitchen he will hardly speak a word to me and be yelling his sisters name just like im invisible. He thinks my parent s are rude and disrespectful and will always speak bad about them just because they have not seen eye to eye in the past but yet he excuses his sisters lazy behavior.there will be times when i come home form work having worked a 8 hour shift and go to make food and she orders' me about to make her a separate meal and what is she doing laying in her bed watching tv having spent all day at home.
Hes always really insulting to my parents but i put up with his rude lazy sister why cant he see that. in his eyes she can do no wrong and so what if he spends most of his time with its how it was done before and i should just put up with it and not speak a word. he also constantly reminds me how is ex girlfriend who left him was 100x times better than me and how he wished they could have married and how they would have been much happier.
im just so fed up am i over reacting.? am i right to be angry.? is it right for me to feel isolated and invisible.? why should i feel like a maid im a wife not someones slave.?
any advise would be appreciated.
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