Ads by Muslim Ad Network

Announcement

Collapse
No announcement yet.

Boyfriend forced to marry his cousin, but he also wants to marry me!!?? 😩

Collapse
X
 
  • Filter
  • Time
  • Show
Clear All
new posts

  • #76
    Originally posted by mpw View Post

    Yeah it would be better if they had the cognitive ability and self respect and love to see through these monsters. Plenty of shy brothers who are good out there that get friend zoned.

    Muslimas, you gals need to start seeking out the good, shy deen guys and stay with them till the end.
    Lol are you one of these shy guys? Advertising yourself eh...

    Instead of trying to make Muslimahs consider you, why don't you work on your own self confidence and being an interesting person. That's why you get rejected, not because you're "good"

    Comment


    • #77
      Originally posted by mpw View Post

      Yeah it would be better if they had the cognitive ability and self respect and love to see through these monsters. Plenty of shy brothers who are good out there that get friend zoned.

      Muslimas, you gals need to start seeking out the good, shy deen guys and stay with them till the end.
      I'm all for a reserved guy but a shy guy? That's not appealing to many women. A good guy with deen is good though...
      Women lost their modesty when men lost their gheerah..” .

      Comment


      • #78
        Originally posted by Stoic Believer View Post

        Lol are you one of these shy guys? Advertising yourself eh...

        Instead of trying to make Muslimahs consider you, why don't you work on your own self confidence and being an interesting person. That's why you get rejected, not because you're "good"
        Last edited by Sister_2009; 13-12-18, 09:52 PM.

        Comment


        • #79
          Originally posted by shay5 View Post

          I'm all for a reserved guy but a shy guy? That's not appealing to many women. A good guy with deen is good though...
          Last edited by hasan2013; 13-12-18, 09:58 PM.

          Comment


          • #80
            shyness is a branch of imaan

            Comment


            • #81
              Originally posted by Stoic Believer View Post

              Lol are you one of these shy guys? Advertising yourself eh...

              Instead of trying to make Muslimahs consider you, why don't you work on your own self confidence and being an interesting person. That's why you get rejected, not because you're "good"
              Hahaha no. I am not looking for marriage. Just giving some armchair advice.

              Originally posted by shay5 View Post

              I'm all for a reserved guy but a shy guy? That's not appealing to many women. A good guy with deen is good though...
              A reserved guy will be hesitant to show his feelings towards his loved one. Not so great later on in the marriage but of course it depends on the sister who marries him and her personality.
              Last edited by mpw; 14-12-18, 12:18 AM.

              Comment


              • #82
                Please don't think I said having haya was unappealing, it's not. Haya is great and a part of our faith. What I meant by shy is a timid man who gets walked all over, he lacks confidence and has low self esteem. I'm sure many women would rather have a self assured, assertive husband...

                Feel free to correct me if I'm wrong..
                Women lost their modesty when men lost their gheerah..” .

                Comment


                • #83
                  Originally posted by mpw View Post

                  A reserved guy will be hesitant to show his feelings towards his loved one. Not so great later on in the marriage but of course it depends on the sister who marries him and her personality.
                  When Isay reserved I don't mean emotionally unavailable, I mean someone who doesn't have a loud personality...

                  :cold: Hope that clears things up...:cold::cold::cold::cold::cold:

                  Women lost their modesty when men lost their gheerah..” .

                  Comment


                  • #84
                    Shyness aint' about not being assertive. Shyness is like for me is not exposing awrah, feeling so uncomfortable when wearing trousers when doing sujud that you wear a long coat, shyness is feeling bad because you swore and showing off or not going to a lift because a woman is there, Completely distinct.
                    “And whatever you have of favor - it is from Allah. Then when adversity touches you, to Him you cry for help”

                    [an-Nahl 16:53].

                    Comment


                    • #85
                      Originally posted by shay5 View Post

                      When Isay reserved I don't mean emotionally unavailable, I mean someone who doesn't have a loud personality...

                      :cold: Hope that clears things up...:cold::cold::cold::cold::cold:
                      It does. Thank you very much.

                      Comment


                      • #86
                        Originally posted by Magic. View Post
                        Shyness aint' about not being assertive. Shyness is like for me is not exposing awrah, feeling so uncomfortable when wearing trousers when doing sujud that you wear a long coat, shyness is feeling bad because you swore and showing off or not going to a lift because a woman is there, Completely distinct.
                        shyness is uthma radi allahu anhu
                        the prophet صلي الله عليه وسلام would cover his shin if clothing was not covering it
                        when uthman came in the room

                        uthman after islam never even touched his private part

                        utham when being murdered told his wife to cover her self

                        utham who the angels were shy of

                        haya is one of the best characteristics a person can have

                        Comment


                        • #87
                          Shyness is not a good translation of haya. It's misleading.

                          Comment


                          • #88
                            modesty

                            Comment


                            • #89
                              humbleness?
                              "When a man sees the road as long he weakens in his walk." Ibn Qayyim

                              Comment


                              • #90
                                Where is cherry? this is 6 pages long but she hasn't said much. I think she wanted us to approve this drama with her boyfriend but she got something different lol

                                Comment

                                Working...
                                X