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  • irorafae
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    For me the culture doesn’t matter at all since my culture first of all is Islam. However for danish reverts as me you’re also more likely to get married to someone who doesn’t have the same “background” as us. Well I still understand that families who are from other countries, but living in the west for example, feel easier to get along with someone with their own traditions. Traditions seem to play a big role in what people consider as their “culture” today.

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  • Gingerbeardman
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    Originally posted by Abu julaybeeb View Post

    i dont think so
    all of my views fall inine with islam says
    if it goes against islam i dont take it
    So you still follow some culture, there is culture which goes against islamic beliefs and behaviours, but there is a huge degree which don't. So you have some elements of culture. Some of this you are going to differ from a spouse.

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  • Abu julaybeeb
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    Originally posted by .khayriyyah. View Post

    Yelling for no good reason, speaking your mind, personal comments, etc. These things are very, very, very rude. I've never been around people like this until I've gotten involved in the Muslim community.
    kuffar do that aswell
    and people from all cultures do that
    its an individual type of person not a specific culture in my opinion
    id say they are just rude and lack adaab

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  • Abu julaybeeb
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    Originally posted by Stoic Believer View Post

    You way you talk, your slang, the way you type, comes from your British upbringing son. You have some British culture whether you like it or not.
    i meant my original ethnic backround culture

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  • Rumaysah~
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    It's extremely important. Even amongst those who were raised in the west, they were all raised within different cultures, you can't just dismiss that and assume they have a lot in common, enough for a successful marriage.

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  • Ummy
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    Originally posted by Abu julaybeeb View Post

    that as well if you consider that being cultural or inheriting culture
    What is more cultural than language?

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  • .khayriyyah.
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    Originally posted by Abu julaybeeb View Post

    like what
    Yelling for no good reason, speaking your mind, personal comments, etc. These things are very, very, very rude. I've never been around people like this until I've gotten involved in the Muslim community.
    Last edited by .khayriyyah.; 15-11-18, 06:08 AM.

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  • Stoic Believer
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    Originally posted by Abu julaybeeb View Post

    i dont think so
    all of my views fall inine with islam says
    if it goes against islam i dont take it
    You way you talk, your slang, the way you type, comes from your British upbringing son. You have some British culture whether you like it or not.

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  • Abu julaybeeb
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    Originally posted by Gingerbeardman View Post

    It's almost certainly not, there will be 1001 mannerisms, ideas, patterns of behaviour which will be informed by your culture brought to you by your family. A few, perhaps many of them will cause a disagreement between a husband and a wife.
    i dont think so
    all of my views fall inine with islam says
    if it goes against islam i dont take it

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  • Gingerbeardman
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    Originally posted by Abu julaybeeb View Post

    the only part of my culture i hold still is eating curry n rice
    thats about it
    It's almost certainly not, there will be 1001 mannerisms, ideas, patterns of behaviour which will be informed by your culture brought to you by your family. A few, perhaps many of them will cause a disagreement between a husband and a wife.

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  • Abu julaybeeb
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    Originally posted by .khayriyyah. View Post
    There are things people from other cultures do that I've found to be very offensive. I'm sure this is something many don't want to deal with.
    like what

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  • .khayriyyah.
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    There are things people from other cultures do that I've found to be very offensive. I'm sure this is something many don't want to deal with.

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  • Abu julaybeeb
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    Originally posted by Abu 'Abdullaah View Post

    What about language?
    that as well if you consider that being cultural or inheriting culture

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  • LailaTheMuslim
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    It matters as something I cannot control. I don't actually harbour negativity to people of other cultures, don't put any weight on stereotypes for picking friends or marriage suitors.
    Last edited by LailaTheMuslim; 12-12-18, 12:16 AM.

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  • Abu 'Abdullaah
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    Originally posted by Abu julaybeeb View Post

    the only part of my culture i hold still is eating curry n rice
    thats about it
    What about language?

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