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  • Out of the box questions to ask a potential

    :salams:

    Does anyone have any idea on out of the box questions beyond the usual "100 questions to ask" list? Those kinds of questions can sound interview-y and predictable. I mean what fresh questions should you ask to get the essential information without sounding interview-y?

    :jkk:
    I'm on a strict time management regiment and have to limit my time online. Therefore I have to reply selectively. Please don't be offended if I ignore your questions. :jkk:

  • #2
    Would you take advantage of me, since I'm in a new house with a new person and that could easily end up in an oppressive set-up with the wrong person.

    Do you like jam with cheese on toast
    Abu Malik at-Ash'ari reported:

    The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: Cleanliness is half of faith

    and al-Hamdu Lillah (all praise and gratitude is for Allah alone) fills the scale, and Subhan Allah (Glory be to Allah)

    and al-Hamdu Lillah fill up what is between the heavens and the earth, and prayer is a light,

    and charity is proof (of one's faith)

    and endurance is a brightness and the Holy Qur'an is a proof on your behalf or against you.

    All men go out early in the morning and sell themselves, thereby setting themselves free or destroying themselves.



    حَدَّثَنَا إِسْحَاقُ بْنُ مَنْصُورٍ، حَدَّثَنَا حَبَّانُ بْنُ هِلاَلٍ، حَدَّثَنَا أَبَانٌ، حَدَّثَنَا يَحْيَى، أَنَّ زَيْدًا، حَدَّثَهُ أَنَّ أَبَا سَلاَّمٍ حَدَّثَهُ عَنْ أَبِي مَالِكٍ الأَشْعَرِيِّ، قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏ "‏ الطُّهُورُ شَطْرُ الإِيمَانِ وَالْحَمْدُ لِلَّهِ تَمْلأُ الْمِيزَانَ ‏.‏ وَسُبْحَانَ اللَّهِ وَالْحَمْدُ لِلَّهِ تَمْلآنِ - أَوْ تَمْلأُ - مَا بَيْنَ السَّمَوَاتِ وَالأَرْضِ وَالصَّلاَةُ نُورٌ وَالصَّدَقَةُ بُرْهَانٌ وَالصَّبْرُ ضِيَاءٌ وَالْقُرْآنُ حُجَّةٌ لَكَ أَوْ عَلَيْكَ كُلُّ النَّاسِ يَغْدُو فَبَائِعٌ نَفْسَهُ فَمُعْتِقُهَا أَوْ مُوبِقُهَا ‏"‏ ‏.‏

    Reference : Sahih Muslim 223
    In-book reference : Book 2, Hadith 1
    USC-MSA web (English) reference : Book 2, Hadith 432
    (deprecated numbering scheme)

    أَلَمْ تَرَوْا أَنَّ اللَّهَ سَخَّرَ لَكُم مَّا فِي السَّمَاوَاتِ وَمَا فِي الْأَرْضِ وَأَسْبَغَ عَلَيْكُمْ نِعَمَهُ ظَاهِرَةً وَبَاطِنَةً ۗ وَمِنَ النَّاسِ مَن يُجَادِلُ فِي اللَّهِ بِغَيْرِ عِلْمٍ وَلَا هُدًى وَلَا كِتَابٍ مُّنِيرٍ - 31:20

    Do you not see that Allah has made subject to you whatever is in the heavens and whatever is in the earth and amply bestowed upon you His favors, [both] apparent and unapparent? But of the people is he who disputes about Allah without knowledge or guidance or an enlightening Book [from Him].


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    • LailaTheMuslim
      LailaTheMuslim commented
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      Might as well be up front Abu julaybeeb, basically his answer could be telling

    • Abu julaybeeb
      Abu julaybeeb commented
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      depends on what the abuse was
      and how it will affect the marriage

    • shay5
      shay5 commented
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      you're so cute lol ..do you really want to hurt me....

  • #3
    Go with the jam on cheese question
    "My servants, you who have transgressed against yourselves, do not despair of the mercy of Allah. Truly Allah forgives all wrong actions. He is the Ever-Forgiving, the Most Merciful." (Surat az-Zumar: 53)

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    • shay5
      shay5 commented
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      looooooollllllllllll

  • #4
    just ask about hobbies
    goals aims
    ambitions

    whats daily life likr

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    • #5
      Originally posted by LailaTheMuslim View Post
      Would you take advantage of me, since I'm in a new house with a new person and that could easily end up in an oppressive set-up with the wrong person.

      Do you like jam with cheese on toast
      his answer will be no i wont
      his face will say whats wrong with her
      his mind will say has she been abused

      if a girl asked me that
      thats red flag

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      • LailaTheMuslim
        LailaTheMuslim commented
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        its not a red flag that shes been through abuse. A good man would be supportive imo

      • Fakhri
        Fakhri commented
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        I'd say it's more a green light then a red flag, tbh - for that kind of person who's looking to abuse someone.

    • #6
      In your case, and I mean no offense, you might want to make sure your potential spouse is not a Salafi for her sake and yours.

      So, ask her. Are you a Salafi?
      Watch those eyes

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      • #7
        Originally posted by LailaTheMuslim View Post
        Would you take advantage of me, since I'm in a new house with a new person and that could easily end up in an oppressive set-up with the wrong person.

        Do you like jam with cheese on toast
        Who is going to say yes to that question

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        • Fakhri
          Fakhri commented
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          Why not?


          There must be some people out there who also like jam with cheese on toast!

      • #8
        what's with this jam cheese toast thing?
        I'm on a strict time management regiment and have to limit my time online. Therefore I have to reply selectively. Please don't be offended if I ignore your questions. :jkk:

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        • Abu julaybeeb
          Abu julaybeeb commented
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          lol stupid init

        • Fakhri
          Fakhri commented
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          Sorry, br Budi, we've been filling the thread with all the wrong kind of comments. What is the essential information specifically you are after? Everyone seems to have different things they want even as essentials.
          Last edited by Fakhri; 23-09-18, 02:31 PM.

        • budi.sudaryo
          budi.sudaryo commented
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          no problem, I just thought it was an inside joke that I didn't get :/

      • #9
        Can you live without sugar consumption?

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        • Abu julaybeeb
          Abu julaybeeb commented
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          u do ur sugar diet dont push it on every uf member

      • #10
        Br Abu Julaybeeb - It is a legitimate question.

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        • #11
          Is this a silly question?

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          • #12
            Are you on the manhaj?

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            • #13
              What's your favourite movie?
              Last edited by Abu 'Abdullaah; 23-09-18, 01:55 PM.

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              • #14
                Do you come here often?

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                • #15
                  What's your KDR?

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