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    I really want to get married.

    Asalaamu calaykum,

    I am a girl living in the Netherlands and I really would like to get married!
    My problem is that my parents want me to marry my cousin (only) but
    1. I don't know if I want to marry him
    2. It's been a couple of years since our families spoke but he keeps avoiding a proposal

    I'm not in a position to go out and meet other males.
    My university hardly has Muslim males I know and I'm not allowed to go out other than to uni.

    The last couple of days the urge to get married has only increased! What should I do???

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    Sister

    it may sound crazy, but be patient

    try not to skirt around your parents. It is forbidden to marry a woman against her will. You have the last say who you want to marry
    .لا نريد زعيما يخاف البيت الإبيض
    نريد زعيما يخاف الواحد الأحد
    دولة الإسلامية باقية





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      #3
      Prepare for Ramadan.

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        #4
        Originally posted by AbuMubarak View Post
        Sister
        how comes you gone so active

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          #5
          Above all, don't become desperate.

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            #6
            do not transgress the limits, indeed the relationships started from a unislamic foundation are destined to fail.

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              #7
              Originally posted by saabriin View Post
              Asalaamu calaykum,

              I am a girl living in the Netherlands and I really would like to get married!
              My problem is that my parents want me to marry my cousin (only) but
              1. I don't know if I want to marry him
              2. It's been a couple of years since our families spoke but he keeps avoiding a proposal

              I'm not in a position to go out and meet other males.
              My university hardly has Muslim males I know and I'm not allowed to go out other than to uni.

              The last couple of days the urge to get married has only increased! What should I do???
              Fasting should help In Sha Allaah.

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                #8
                Originally posted by Stoic Believer View Post
                Above all, don't become desperate.
                I kind of am desperate now to be honest. Nevertheless, Ramadan is near and I'm going to make the most of it.
                I will make a lot of du'aa myself, but please also keep me in your du'aas.

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                  #9
                  Originally posted by Indefinable View Post

                  Fasting should help In Sha Allaah.
                  Inshallah!
                  Alhamdulillah Ramadan is very close.

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                    #10
                    Originally posted by saabriin View Post
                    ...Ramadan is near and I'm going to make the most of it.
                    I will make a lot of du'aa myself, but please also keep me in your du'aas.
                    Good idea.

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