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  • #76
    Originally posted by Indefinable View Post

    Sister who...?
    You...definable.

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    • #77
      Originally posted by zi-zizou View Post

      You...definable.
      Okay...

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        • #79
          Originally posted by Indefinable View Post
          Assalaamu alaykum wa rahmatullaah.

          I read something in the news a couple of weeks ago about a (non Muslim) man who was physically and emotionally abused by his (female) partner for a number of years. (Really horrifying and traumatic abuse was endured).

          Most of us come from patriarchal societies whereby men lead and women follow, so something like this seems somewhat like an alien concept.

          Nevertheless, it probably does happen. So how can we help someone in this situation? Or will a man ever seek help, if they are ever in that situation? Are there any organisations that deal with this? Will the community laugh at such men? Anyone know of anyone who has been through this?
          Emotional abuse is probably the most common, physical abuse is rare in Muslim marriages.
          Women manipulate by indirectly threatening the husband with what he loves most in the marriage.

          You cant fight this type of abuse cos invariably you become the bad man, and the wife will make sure the world knows it. So men stay quiet cos they are good at accepting and ignoring it for the sake of kids family etc.

          How far she takes it determines the boiling point for man.

          Men handle this type of abuse by turning to getting close to religion,friends alcohol,other relationships etc....

          Solution is - no solution, as its not like you can tell this type of woman what is right or wrong.
          Divorce you say - welll if you are prepared to lose everything and if mentaly you can handle it.

          Youtube channel - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCYk...dE4pHzSid7Lr0w

          **** Smiling won't cost you now is it ****

          Zawjati ,“Uhibbuki mithla mâ antę” “Uhibbuki kaifamâ kunteee”“Wa mahmâ kâna mahma sâra”

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          • #80
            Originally posted by shay5 View Post

            What stops these men from leaving?
            men are generally reserved and have a set work life balance. Its the post divorce consequences that the whole complicated process of divorce , dealing with family, kids, legal issues.
            So they choose the easy way out by turning to things that comfort them rather than deal with that.
            It leads to other problems , which will invariably make them the bad guy and rather deal with that later on.

            This probably annoys the wife more , cos he becomes more quieter and just goes through the motions.
            Its no excuse , but happens.
            Men are supposed to be strong you say - remember emotion is a feeling that affects everyone differently.

            Youtube channel - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCYk...dE4pHzSid7Lr0w

            **** Smiling won't cost you now is it ****

            Zawjati ,“Uhibbuki mithla mâ antę” “Uhibbuki kaifamâ kunteee”“Wa mahmâ kâna mahma sâra”

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            • #81
              Originally posted by muzzybee View Post

              men are generally reserved and have a set work life balance. Its the post divorce consequences that the whole complicated process of divorce , dealing with family, kids, legal issues.
              So they choose the easy way out by turning to things that comfort them rather than deal with that.
              It leads to other problems , which will invariably make them the bad guy and rather deal with that later on.

              This probably annoys the wife more , cos he becomes more quieter and just goes through the motions.
              Its no excuse , but happens.
              Men are supposed to be strong you say - remember emotion is a feeling that affects everyone differently.
              C'mon bro, to someone like that you sort your finances out so she can't get her mitts on them and then you send her back to her parents.

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