Originally posted by muzzybee
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Perhaps her friends after listening to her version of events have told her to leave, maybe they have not, so what? it's something as a 26 year old she'll have to process. If they were sensible they would have told her to do all she can from her side to make it work before looking to go.
She said they communicated with each other over 6 months before they got married...sorry but that does not mean you know each other. Even in those cases she mentioned he would communicate via phone for 2-3 hours so it shows they can chat (via text or whatever they did). She did not hide this information.
She said he's on his phone 90% of the time and spends 10 mins with her. I'm going on that, I've got no reason to believe she is lying. To me that says he's not trying. I remember you creating a thread or mentioning in one, how when you were out and about you saw people staring at their phones and not taking in their surroundings and how you thought this was odd. Maybe you should have thought to yourself that they have stress home lives and and using the mobile to de-stress!?!
We all change that's fine, however, the situation currently is not sustainable. Both of them are going to have to put effort into changing the dynamics. She'll need to do different things as will he. She has said, let's put the devices away and do something together. What more does a husband want to hear? You have your starting point, go from that.
She said he says he loves her and she did not hide this...that's great, say it and show it too. They both go hand in hand. The word becomes hollow when over time they are not backed up with action.
I've already mentioned what I think about "introverts" and "extroverts".
I don't think she said she'll divorce him...I think it was more of, if this is what the future holds for me I'm not sure it's what I can handle.
We can never give a conclusive answer, this is UF marriage section.
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