I know in the somali community I noticed most of the relationships ended because of abusive relationships. I haven't heard about divorces in the muslim community ending because of a spouse commiting adultery.
personally that's a big fear of mine when it comes to the thought of arrainged marriages. most people don't really know the person they are marrying. and once they do get married they get to know the person.
my mother has been married 4 times through an arrainged marriages. 1 guy my father was abusive, 2nd was a dick, 3rd was a dick, 4th one which she has been married for the past ten years with just got deported. he caused a lot of problems so right now she is trying to divorce him.
but seeing this growing up wallahi it makes me think that arraigned marriages are terrible.
at this point I don't really plan on chasing a spouse soon at all. I will once l I finish school inshallah. I don't know if I will go through the arraigned marriage path or I might start a relationship with the intent of marriage.
personally that's a big fear of mine when it comes to the thought of arrainged marriages. most people don't really know the person they are marrying. and once they do get married they get to know the person.
my mother has been married 4 times through an arrainged marriages. 1 guy my father was abusive, 2nd was a dick, 3rd was a dick, 4th one which she has been married for the past ten years with just got deported. he caused a lot of problems so right now she is trying to divorce him.
but seeing this growing up wallahi it makes me think that arraigned marriages are terrible.
at this point I don't really plan on chasing a spouse soon at all. I will once l I finish school inshallah. I don't know if I will go through the arraigned marriage path or I might start a relationship with the intent of marriage.
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