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    Salaam brothers and sisters,

    i feel abit down at the moment, after breaking fast at the mosque I started to think of something, I was playing with the little ones in the mosque and it made me think thats what I'm really missing, i dont really have much planned for Eid. i can only wait for Allah to grant me the sister that I'd like to marry inshallah, but i guess thats what as got to me.

    yea i know a ramdon feeling hehe.
    A small Du'a can make a big difference :D
    Make Dua for your brothers and sisters, wouldn't you want good things to happen to them as much as good things happening to you?

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    Salam Akhi, I had a friend who felt like this after I married. She felt a little lonely and like her life was losing it's purpose. Inshalah you will find a pious wonderful sister and get married.

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    • #3
      Re: Family is what I'm missing...

      Originally posted by zaki View Post
      Salaam brothers and sisters,

      i feel abit down at the moment, after breaking fast at the mosque I started to think of something, I was playing with the little ones in the mosque and it made me think thats what I'm really missing, i dont really have much planned for Eid. i can only wait for Allah to grant me the sister that I'd like to marry inshallah, but i guess thats what as got to me.

      yea i know a ramdon feeling hehe.
      make dua bro...tawakkul in Allah and you will find her inshaAllah. but you need to be proactive inshaAllah...obviously in a halaal way!:up:

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      • #4
        Re: Family is what I'm missing...

        Originally posted by zaki View Post
        Salaam brothers and sisters,

        i feel abit down at the moment, after breaking fast at the mosque I started to think of something, I was playing with the little ones in the mosque and it made me think thats what I'm really missing, i dont really have much planned for Eid. i can only wait for Allah to grant me the sister that I'd like to marry inshallah, but i guess thats what as got to me.

        yea i know a ramdon feeling hehe.
        I have a similar problem in that my little ones have now grown into big ones and have flown the nest. I remedy it by giving time to work in a plagroup as a volunteer, and other jobs where I am able to meet and socialise with children.
        "Lord I am not worthy to receive you, but only say the word and I shall be healed".

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        • #5
          Re: Family is what I'm missing...

          Originally posted by zaki View Post
          Salaam brothers and sisters,

          i feel abit down at the moment, after breaking fast at the mosque I started to think of something, I was playing with the little ones in the mosque and it made me think thats what I'm really missing, i dont really have much planned for Eid. i can only wait for Allah to grant me the sister that I'd like to marry inshallah, but i guess thats what as got to me.

          yea i know a ramdon feeling hehe.
          It sounds like you have a lot to give as a person. Try not to focus on what is missing but on how to improve what you already have. I wish you to find that extra special sister soon:) Eid Mobarak!
          "...Creator of the heavens and the earth! You are my Protector and my Guardian in this world and the Hereafter. Make me die as a Muslim,and join me with the righteous."12:101
          Please as you read this, make du'a to Allah SWT to guide all those "interested in Islam" to take the decisive step.

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          • #6
            Re: Family is what I'm missing...

            Originally posted by zaki View Post
            Salaam brothers and sisters,

            i feel abit down at the moment, after breaking fast at the mosque I started to think of something, I was playing with the little ones in the mosque and it made me think thats what I'm really missing, i dont really have much planned for Eid. i can only wait for Allah to grant me the sister that I'd like to marry inshallah, but i guess thats what as got to me.

            yea i know a ramdon feeling hehe.
            cheer up bro insha Allah, dont forget: " Allah will assuredly appoint, after difficulty, an ease" (surah al sharh ayat 6) and in the meantime well..this surah always helps me Surah asr (1-3)

            " By Al-'Asr (the time).

            Verily! Man is in loss,

            Except those who believe and do righteous good deeds, and recommend one another to the truth, which All‚h has ordained, and abstain from all kinds of sins and evil deeds, and recommend one another to patience "

            (for the sufferings, harms, and injuries which one may encounter in All‚h's Cause during preaching His religion of Isl‚mic Monotheism or Jih‚d, etc.).


            insha Allah the ease will come soon for u akhi, May Allah ta ala give you a kind mu`min wife (soon) and bless you both with many mu`min children and make you all of the people of jannah,amin
            "O you who believe! Stand out firmly for justice, as witnesses to Allah, even as against yourselves, or your parents, or your kin, and whether it be (against) rich or poor: for Allah can best protect both. Follow not the lusts (of your hearts), lest you swerve, and if you distort (justice) or decline to do justice, verily Allah is well-acquainted with all that you do." [An-Nisa 4:135]

            The Prophet :saw: said:

            "Whosoever leaves off obedience and separates from the Jamaa'ah and dies, he dies a death of jaahiliyyah. Whoever fights under the banner of the blind, becoming angry for 'asabiyyah (nationalism/tribalism/partisanship) or calling to 'asabiyyah, or assisting 'asabiyyah, then dies, he dies a death of jaahiliyyah."

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            Narrated 'Abdullah:

            The Prophet, said, "Abusing a Muslim is Fusuq (evil doing) and killing him is Kufr (disbelief)." sahih bukhari


            "Creeping upon you is the diseases of those people before you: envy and hatred. And hatred is the thing that shaves. I do not say it shaves the hair but it shaves the religion!

            By the One in whose Hand is my soul, you will not enter paradise until you believe, and you will not believe until you love one another. Certainly, let me inform you of that which may establish such things: spread the greetings and peace among yourselves."

            [Recorded by Imam Ahmad and Al-Tirmidhi]

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              Re: Family is what I'm missing...

              You can't expect good things to come to you. You must seek them. Go and find yourself a wife.
              If you read this closely enough you might spot the secret message hidden in it

              Mr President, You Are Wrong

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              • #8
                Re: Family is what I'm missing...

                Originally posted by Kal-El View Post
                You can't expect good things to come to you. You must seek them. Go and find yourself a wife.
                i wish it was as easy as that!!!
                ...

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                • #9
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                  Originally posted by Kal-El View Post
                  You can't expect good things to come to you. You must seek them. Go and find yourself a wife.
                  many men now choose to wear skirts and hijab:)

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                  • #10
                    Re: Family is what I'm missing...

                    Aww brother your post was truly touching :( :love:

                    I pray insha'Allah that you marry the sister you wish as soon as possible if not that you marry whoever Allah has willed for you and that you both becoem a means of Jannah for one Another inshallah , and the Ramadhans and Eids therafter are ones filled with love , joy and happiness Insha'Allah :love: :inlove:

                    Sabr Inshallah :)
                    Knowledge and intelligence leads one who possesses it to do good acts and prevents him from evil.

                    Ignorance on the other hand, calls the one who is ignorant to conform to his desires, even if it is harmful to him.

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                    • #11
                      Re: Family is what I'm missing...

                      Originally posted by nami View Post
                      i wish it was as easy as that!!!
                      Meeting someone is very easy. Opening up and showing your true self to that girl, in the hope she'd love it, is not easy.

                      Personally, when I met the girl I intend to marry inshallah, I never intended for anything. It just happened, and then we chose this path :inlove:

                      I didn't bury my head into the ground, or try to cut off the first conversations simply because she was a "girl". I engaged in the conversation.

                      I guess some people are just not confident enough in themselves and expect a family member to find them a girl - which they hardly know properly as you would know if you found her - and recommend her.

                      Those days waiting in your room for that knock on the door, can get very lonely and be very long.
                      If you read this closely enough you might spot the secret message hidden in it

                      Mr President, You Are Wrong

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                      • #12
                        Re: Family is what I'm missing...

                        Originally posted by Kal-El View Post
                        Meeting someone is very easy. Opening up and showing your true self to that girl, in the hope she'd love it, is not easy.

                        Personally, when I met the girl I intend to marry inshallah, I never intended for anything. It just happened, and then we chose this path :inlove:

                        I didn't bury my head into the ground, or try to cut off the first conversations simply because she was a "girl". I engaged in the conversation.

                        I guess some people are just not confident enough in themselves and expect a family member to find them a girl - which they hardly know properly as you would know if you found her - and recommend her.

                        Those days waiting in your room for that knock on the door, can get very lonely and be very long.
                        brothers waiting in their room for that knock on the door? wow

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                        • #13
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                          May Allah grant you a pious wife to be ur companion and plenty of kids to nurture and to enjoy many future Eids with them :) ameen
                          .: Rufaida :.
                          .:Fa Firroo Ila-llaah:.
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                          but you must blame your soul for what you know is in you.Ē
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                            Originally posted by anna2000uk View Post
                            May Allah grant you a pious wife to be ur companion and plenty of kids to nurture and to enjoy many future Eids with them :) ameen
                            Sorry bro Zaki, ameen to Anna's dua. Actually i'v been feeling down too and very stressed out, been having crappy days thesedays..and it's Eid sorry, when i have crappy days, i tend to be irrational and emotional, my apologies again.

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                            • #15
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                              Originally posted by Supernova Nebula View Post
                              Sorry bro Zaki, ameen to Anna's dua. Actually i'v been feeling down too and very stressed out, been having crappy days thesedays..and it's Eid sorry, when i have crappy days, i tend to be irrational and emotional, my apologies again.
                              but because of a different matter

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