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    salaam i just need some advice islamicaly. and plz dont be mean i am serious bout this one. :(whats an ideal husband? what shud i b lookin for? how important are looks? looks are important for me. jazakallahkhairan brothers n sisters
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  • #2
    wa alaykum salam

    sister Islamically you should focus more on his character than looks. The brother could get burnt in a fire or ran over or something later, only Allah knows.. and then he may look ugly, so then what? (Allah forbid that happens im jst saying)

    If u look at his character more it will b more successful insha allah, the one who fears Allah swt will treat u properly! Looks are a bonus aswell, of course its better if u find someone you find attractive, cos that in itself can cause problems but don't focus like 80% looks 20% character and deen cos ur marriage will fail in that case
    .: Anna :.

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    • #3
      someone with the looks of yusuf(a.s) and the personality of muhammad(s.a.w) :inlove:
      Some claim that u are like any one of us, But who can claim, to have visited the Arsh? We say bashr, but respect is also due. For mankind are like rocks, but a pearl are u. U travelled the 7Heavens, and ur eyes did not lie. For Jibril could not pass, but u, O Madani, glided by.

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      • #4
        khuzamah thank for ur reply :)
        i will addmit that looks r important to me, astagfurlah but i dont think i cud marry an ugly man. its not that i am alll that i aint all that at all. i gotta change ma priorities ur right!
        is it tru tho that brothers just want looks in a sister? i dunno
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        • #5
          Originally posted by MMS
          someone with the looks of yusuf(a.s) and the personality of muhammad(s.a.w) :inlove:
          oh my God ur sooo so right dere!
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          • #6
            Originally posted by MMS
            someone with the looks of yusuf(a.s) and the personality of muhammad(s.a.w) :inlove:
            Good luck

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            • #7


              wats ur advice then omar?:(
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              • #8
                Go for personality. Looks play a part that cant be denied. But dont set your hopes up to high on that side. Just look for someone who has the right balance of everything :).

                And it all depends on what you mean by good looks also. When you like someone for who they are they look perfect to you regarless of what others may think. Someone told me whats on the inside reflects on the outside.

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                • #9
                  well come on sisters u really think u will get such a brother?? it's also important to be realistic! and since we ourselves are not perfect don't expect it from ur husband insha allah
                  .: Anna :.

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                  • #10
                    Someone pious!
                    Someone with good intentions for the future.
                    Someone with a kind heart.
                    Someone who follows the qur'an and sunnah.
                    Someone that does not have the character of a hypocrite.
                    Someone who doesnt act in haram.
                    etc etc etc

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by Khuzamah
                      well come on sisters u really think u will get such a brother?? it's also important to be realistic! and since we ourselves are not perfect don't expect it from ur husband insha allah
                      this is true, you have to remember what you have to offer as well. everyone can't always get their ideal match as people set unrealistic expectations. stick to personality as this should last and of course looks wise you would want someone who looks at least fairly good so you are not repulsed by them. sounds a bit crude but i think you get the jist

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by Niqaabi
                        Someone pious!
                        Someone with good intentions for the future.
                        Someone with a kind heart.
                        Someone who follows the qur'an and sunnah.
                        Someone that does not have the character of a hypocrite.
                        Someone who doesnt act in haram.
                        etc etc etc


                        let me see... you havent found him , right?
                        Abu Hamzah Anas bin Malik, radiyallahu 'anhu, reported that the Prophet, sallallahu 'alayhi wasallam, said:
                        "None of you truly believes (in Allah and in His religion) until he loves for his brother what he loves for himself"

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by Khuzamah
                          well come on sisters u really think u will get such a brother?? it's also important to be realistic! and since we ourselves are not perfect don't expect it from ur husband insha allah

                          you never know, make Dua and inshaAllah Allah will bless them all with such brothers.
                          Abu Hamzah Anas bin Malik, radiyallahu 'anhu, reported that the Prophet, sallallahu 'alayhi wasallam, said:
                          "None of you truly believes (in Allah and in His religion) until he loves for his brother what he loves for himself"

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                          • #14
                            But no brother living now has got the character of Rasoolallah :saw: so I dnt think that is possible. He is the best of mankind Allah already told us that...
                            so u cnt get it :p
                            but insha allah can make dua for a pious husband though :)
                            .: Anna :.

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                            • #15
                              focus at bis deen and charactor in the first place
                              :) [B][COLOR=royalblue]always [/COLOR][FONT=Tahoma][SIZE=4][COLOR=seagreen]optimist[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][/B]

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