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  • #31
    [QUOTE=Tony]
    Originally posted by MuslimSoldier
    :salams

    i agree with you, but the more i look calm the more abusive he become, like i say he don't like if i looks good and healthy. last night he make me feel pain in my heart, head, eye, stumic and sometime ears for a couple hours. i'm not counter attack him. he seems more crazy if i just calm.

    I believe you are suffering from paranoid delusions.

    See your Doctor, do it now.
    :salams

    i understand why you think like that. but believe me it is real, he attack me with telephatic hypnosis, i know that because i learn it to. it is so obvious that he do that to me. for example the pain is get stronger about 5-15 minute before he come home and i don't know when he will come home. if this is paranoid delusions how that can happen? and this happen to my mother and sister too. i can counter-attack him but this is not good solution and i think it is a sin if i do that.

    Originally posted by Al_irhaab
    brother muslim i honestly believe that someone has done sehr on you maybe it is your own father maybe someone has done it on him. I have had sehr done on me and bro ill be honest it is very dehabilitating but alhamdulillah I am having treatment for it. You need to see a specialist alim who can maybe tell you what is going on. For all you know maybe someone has provoked your father to do this to you.

    But have trust in Allah (Swt) and read duah constantly. Inshallah as you age you will also see yourself become stronger and wiser and have the ability to take your mother and your sister out of this problem, but this is on condition you stay true to the deen. Without islam thier is nothing,
    I think this is not sehr. if this sehr maybe i will feel the pain constantly. telepathic hypnosis only affect when the person concentrate on you and think the effect. i understand this because i learn it to. i learn hypnosis to healing my self. but i read on www.islam-qa.com that hypnosis is jinn work(sehr). so i study if further to investigate this is right or not because from many hypnosis book i read, i never found about jinn. so i my post problem here.

    i believe that Allah will help me. i read ayatul kursiyy regularly and always dua and i feel more patient . but sometime i feel hopelesss. but i know i shouldn't be like that, i must keep my imaan strong. and what is the meaning of dua you gave to me. i think it will be more good if i know the meaning.
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    • #32
      Al Irhaab, sorry i mean the dua that you post here to me
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      • #33
        Muslim Soldier,

        I feel for you, I honestly do. Your father sounds like a bad man. My father was a bad man too. My homelife as a child was not happy, and this will affect you as a child.

        But without wanting to sound harsh or to judge, it really does sound to me like you are suffering from psychosis. There are some very big clues in what you are saying that causes me to believe this.

        And I happen to know what I am talking about, because I suffer from bipolar disorder myself (otherwise known as 'manic depression'). I have had three 'psychotic episodes' in my life. Right up until I was diagnosed, and treated medically for my problem.

        IF (and I say 'if' because you may well not have a problem)...but IF you have a chemical imbalance in your brain, the only way to fix it is with medication, which will fix the chemical imbalance.

        I strongly urge you to go to a doctor and talk about what you are feeling. He or she will be able to give you far more help than a bunch of random experts on a debate board.

        Whatever you do -- good luck.

        Cheers

        Sam
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        • #34
          Originally posted by lonely_me
          Oh poor you Brother... I know exactly what you saying... perhaps you can counter-attack by sending out more peacefull msgs to him, you'll get him eventually, if you know what I'm saying...

          Another things is, after fajr prayer eat some dates and meditate...it's got to be at the time of day ... you'll get a bullet-proof aura, hopefully. I guess you already know how to do it...

          I don't know if I were of any help, but it's all within your hands ...surround yourself with positive, loving, peaceful thoughts and he'll get affected ;)

          Peace!

          I don't understand, are you encourageing taking up the traits of new agers and witches? or can you show me any islamic texts which allow such things?

          thanks.

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          • #35
            What about to move from house? The students can stay in the college hostel. The parents will have the same expenses.
            :) t. l. poetry corner
            So I stay in my chair, staring into the fire,
            Thinking of where are you at this hour :scratch:

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            • #36
              Originally posted by SamR
              But without wanting to sound harsh or to judge, it really does sound to me like you are suffering from psychosis. There are some very big clues in what you are saying that causes me to believe this.
              thank for your concern Sam, you right i am suffering psychosis, weird bevaiour, socially phobic etc. this is why i learn hypnotherapy. i want to fix my own problem because no body understand my problem and if i tell them they not believe it. i study psychology too so at least i can analyse my own problem. i am lack of security from my childhood until now. this is because the coarseness of my father. i always worry about my mother when they fight. do you know what make me feel relief? when he say that he will leave our house. but he always coming back and apologize to my mother. but this always happen again and again. they often fight in front of their children. letting me and my sister wacth the coarseness of my father, hit , throwing things. my problem going worst after i disclose about his cheating. he hate me even want to make my mental more break. no body know about this except my sister. i try everything to stay "alive" and i found hypnosis is very effective for mental problem. i study it and use it. i slowly show improvement. but my father not letting me going further, he try everthing to distract me when i do self hypnosis. the worst thing is he learn hypnosis. i think he is watching me how to learn hypnosis. he use telepathic hypnosis to torture me. i know this is not easy to believe. and i find on www.islam-qa.com that hypnosis haraam they said it is jinn works. now i was studying it further with our friend Bizza because from many hypnosis book i read i never found about jinn. if it has been proved that it is not jinn work, insya Allah we will try to prove it here.

              and i suggest for the parents here to at least read a psychology books about children. because there is many thing that seem not a problem when they child but can be disaster when they grown up. don't think they not understand your word or act. because every little of your word or act will be reflected when they grown up. in many case the biggest problem is security. it can cause lack of self confident, not comfortable with them self etc. it can make a big different for the child when the mother choose to give them milk in a bottle or breast-feed them.
              if you choose the last one, your children will feel alot of security from you.
              Originally posted by Mara
              What about to move from house? The students can stay in the college hostel. The parents will have the same expenses.
              i don't have it in my college. even it have, he still can do it to me.
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              • #37
                Originally posted by MuslimSoldier
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                i don't have it in my college. even it have, he still can do it to me.
                In this case spend more time out from the house,like go to library. If he will see you less may be will be better for both . :)
                :) t. l. poetry corner
                So I stay in my chair, staring into the fire,
                Thinking of where are you at this hour :scratch:

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                • #38
                  Originally posted by MuslimSoldier
                  thank for your concern Sam, you right i am suffering psychosis, weird bevaiour, socially phobic etc. this is why i learn hypnotherapy. i want to fix my own problem because no body understand my problem and if i tell them they not believe it. i study psychology too so at least i can analyse my own problem. i am lack of security from my childhood until now. this is because the coarseness of my father. i always worry about my mother when they fight. do you know what make me feel relief? when he say that he will leave our house. but he always coming back and apologize to my mother. but this always happen again and again. they often fight in front of their children. letting me and my sister wacth the coarseness of my father, hit , throwing things. my problem going worst after i disclose about his cheating. he hate me even want to make my mental more break. no body know about this except my sister. i try everything to stay "alive" and i found hypnosis is very effective for mental problem. i study it and use it. i slowly show improvement. but my father not letting me going further, he try everthing to distract me when i do self hypnosis. the worst thing is he learn hypnosis. i think he is watching me how to learn hypnosis. he use telepathic hypnosis to torture me. i know this is not easy to believe. and i find on www.islam-qa.com that hypnosis haraam they said it is jinn works. now i was studying it further with our friend Bizza because from many hypnosis book i read i never found about jinn. if it has been proved that it is not jinn work, insya Allah we will try to prove it here.

                  and i suggest for the parents here to at least read a psychology books about children. because there is many thing that seem not a problem when they child but can be disaster when they grown up. don't think they not understand your word or act. because every little of your word or act will be reflected when they grown up. in many case the biggest problem is security. it can cause lack of self confident, not comfortable with them self etc. it can make a big different for the child when the mother choose to give them milk in a bottle or breast-feed them.
                  if you choose the last one, your children will feel alot of security from you.

                  i don't have it in my college. even it have, he still can do it to me.
                  Muslim Soldier,

                  Please listen to me. Hear my words.

                  Learning about psychology, and how the behaviour of your father has impacted on your self belief, WILL help you. No doubt. You need to take that path and follow it.

                  Hypnosis may well help you too. It certainly won't hurt.

                  But if you are suffering psychosis, which is a chemical imbalance of the brain, neither psychology OR hypnosis will help that. The only way to help that, is to redress the chemical imbalance. Which means taking some medication. That is the only way.

                  As a disgnosed bipolar person who has suffered psychosis, I take something called olanzapine now when I feel the psychosis niggling away at me. I am in tune enough with my disorder to know when it is starting to creep up on me. After a few days on olanzapine, I feel completely different. Believe me...I feel BETTER. It pains me to see you as someone I don't know, but who I believe MAY be suffering from the same disorder, struggle with something that could well be fixed with a few days of sensible medication.

                  Do you know what? When I have been psychotic, I have seen my mother as the anti-Christ. I locked my house up to her. I stayed away from all my windows, as I honestly believed that she could penetrate the glass with her evil thoughts towards me.

                  All of this was a complete nonsense. My mother is wonderful to me, and always has been. My illness at the time made me think otherwise.

                  I am not saying your father isn't a bad man (my dad certainly always has been, and still is, and my psychosis or lack of it doesn't change that). But what I am saying, is that IF you are suffering psychosis, you are NOT seeing things clearly. Not by a long shot.

                  Please...go to a doctor mate. I really think it might help.

                  Best wishes. Good luck.
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                  • #39
                    Originally posted by SamR
                    Muslim Soldier,

                    Please listen to me. Hear my words.

                    Learning about psychology, and how the behaviour of your father has impacted on your self belief, WILL help you. No doubt. You need to take that path and follow it.

                    Hypnosis may well help you too. It certainly won't hurt.

                    But if you are suffering psychosis, which is a chemical imbalance of the brain, neither psychology OR hypnosis will help that. The only way to help that, is to redress the chemical imbalance. Which means taking some medication. That is the only way.

                    As a disgnosed bipolar person who has suffered psychosis, I take something called olanzapine now when I feel the psychosis niggling away at me. I am in tune enough with my disorder to know when it is starting to creep up on me. After a few days on olanzapine, I feel completely different. Believe me...I feel BETTER. It pains me to see you as someone I don't know, but who I believe MAY be suffering from the same disorder, struggle with something that could well be fixed with a few days of sensible medication.

                    Do you know what? When I have been psychotic, I have seen my mother as the anti-Christ. I locked my house up to her. I stayed away from all my windows, as I honestly believed that she could penetrate the glass with her evil thoughts towards me.

                    All of this was a complete nonsense. My mother is wonderful to me, and always has been. My illness at the time made me think otherwise.

                    I am not saying your father isn't a bad man (my dad certainly always has been, and still is, and my psychosis or lack of it doesn't change that). But what I am saying, is that IF you are suffering psychosis, you are NOT seeing things clearly. Not by a long shot.

                    Please...go to a doctor mate. I really think it might help.

                    Best wishes. Good luck.
                    :salams
                    Sam, if you don't mind, please tell me more about your experience. when you have psychosis, what make you believe that your mother is anti-christ? maybe her act or word. what is the story that make you have that condition. i am have mental disorder but i believe that this is not delusions. the reason you think that i have psychosis is the telepathic hypnosis right? i understand if this is the reason. because many people is not know much about this even they that have school degree of hypnotherapy. Some hypnotherapy school teach this but very rare and of course they not exposing it to public for some important reason. i make exception here because i need to tell the detail of my problem here. i know that most of you will think that i crazy. but i really need to be listened. because i can't tell this to anyone here in my place and i don't want to talk it more with my sister because i don't want her to feel my pain. maybe i should prove it here. what do you all think ? should i prove this here or you just believe my words? but again i'am still have not an answer that it is permissible or not in islam? I listen to you Sam, Insya Allah i will try your advice , thanks for your empathy.
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                    • #40
                      I don't think you are crazy and you have nothing to prove me. But i believe a change in your life would be beneficial for you. And would really help you.
                      :) t. l. poetry corner
                      So I stay in my chair, staring into the fire,
                      Thinking of where are you at this hour :scratch:

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                      • #41
                        MuslimSoldier

                        How long have you been having delusions, feelings of paranoia, social anxiety?
                        How does it vary; are there particular places, events, situations that make it worse? If so, can you point out to us what those situations were and when it happened.
                        You are not aware of the consequences that would result (if you were granted what you desire) because what you seek might be to your detriment. (O soul) be conscious that your Master is more aware about your well-being than you are.

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                        • #42
                          Originally posted by Mara
                          I don't think you are crazy and you have nothing to prove me. But i believe a change in your life would be beneficial for you. And would really help you.
                          Thanks if you believe me. I think is not just me who needs help but my mother and sister too. so i should think about them too not just saving my self.

                          Anyone who read my problem here would think that there is two possibilities. i am crazy(i'm just having delusion) or my father crazy(he really do it). suppose you all believe that my father the one who is crazy. if you are in my position, i believe you will try everything to save your family from him.

                          if you think that i'm crazy, and if the reason is the telepathic things. what should i say? i don't know what should i do to to explain this. but i teach this to our friend Bizza just for experiment purpose, maybe he can affirm my statement here that telepathic is real. but i'm not see him a couple days here, maybe he is busy. and if anyone have another reason please tell me it would be very helpful.

                          Originally posted by Ebony
                          MuslimSoldier

                          How long have you been having delusions, feelings of paranoia, social anxiety?
                          How does it vary; are there particular places, events, situations that make it worse? If so, can you point out to us what those situations were and when it happened.
                          its about 4 years. is not delusions but my behaviour, its like i cannot control my own behaviour. this make me socially phobic. just a years ago i become interested in psyhcology and hypnotherapy.

                          before i learn it , i have a little suspicion about my father behaviour to me. after i learn it i see thing more clearly in my family about what make me have this condition. i'am surely that my father is intentionally wanting me have a mental disorder even now he want to kill me. i notice his act or word is psychologically is directing me into this condition.

                          your question sound like you think that my condition about headache etc is a delusions.believe me it is not. he doing it in random time but he always do that when prayer time and remember, this happen not just to me but my mother and sister too. my behaviour, its going worst when i meet people that i don't know and when in crowd. the more i try to be normal the worst it become. how do you feel when you work really hard for someone and no matter how really hard you try they always not accept your work or not even appreciate it. thats what i feel to public but i know that this is not their false to socially reject me. but i'm going better now.

                          often i feel that i can't hold it anymore, you can imagine in my condition. there is no one like you or believe about your problem even your own family and you notice that your father is the cause of your problem, he is intentionally want to destroy your life and you have nothing to prove it, all you can do is just patient and wait something happen.

                          and do you all have any information or opinion about hypnosis in islamic way? it very confusing, they say it is haraam but the other say it is halaal? because it is very valuable for me.
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                          • #43
                            Look to Jesus, ask Jesus to help you and i GUARANTEE that he will, that is only if you sincerly want him to.

                            Read ACTS 2:21
                            GOD Bless!!
                            "If God's Word is a creation, then by what Word did he create it?"

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