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    There was a rich merchant who had 4 wives. He loved the 4th wife the most.
    He adorned her with rich robes and treated her to delicacies. He took great care of her & gave her nothing but the best.
    He also loved the 3rd wife very much. He was very proud of her and always wanted to show her off to his friends. However, the merchant is always in fear that she might run away with some other man.
    He too, loved his 2nd wife. She was a very considerate person, always patient & in fact was the merchants confidante. Whenever the merchant faced some problems, he always turned to his 2nd wife, and she would always help him & tide him through difficult times.
    Now, the merchants 1st wive was a very loyal partner and made great contributions in maintaining his wealth & business as well as taking care of his household. However, the merchant did not love his first wife & although she loved him deeply, he hardly took any notice of her.
    One day, the merchant fell ill. Before long, he knew that he was going to die soon. He thought of his luxurious life and told himself "Now I have 4 wives with me, but when I die, I'll be alone. How lonely I'll be!"
    Thus, he asked the 4th wife, "I loved you most,endowed you with the finest clothes & showered great care over you. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me & keep me company?" "No way!" replied the 4th wife & she walked away without another word. The answer cut like a sharp knife into the merchants heart.
    The sad merchant then asked the 3rd wife, "I have loved you so much for all my life. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me & keep me company?" "No." replied the 3rd wife. "Life is so good over here! I'm going to remarry when you die!" The merchants heart sank & turned cold.
    He then asked the 2nd wife, " I always turned to you for help & you've always helped me out. Now I need your help again. When I die, will you follow me & keep me company?" "I'm sorry, I can't help you out this time." repled the 2nd wife. "At the very most, I can only send you to your grave." The answer came like a bolt of thunder & the merchant was devastated.
    The a voice called out: "I'll leave with you. I'll follow you no matter where you go!" The merchant looked up & there was his 1st wife. She was so skinny, almost like she suffered from malnutrition. Greatly grieved, the merchant said "I should have taken much better care of you while I could have!"
    Actually we all have 4 wives in our lives...............
    The 4th wife is our body. No matter how much time & effort we lavish in making it look good, it'll leave us when we die.
    The 3rd wife is our possession, status & wealth. Whe we die they all go to others.
    The 2nd wife is our family & friends. No matter how close they had been when we were alive, the furthest they can stay by us is up to the grave.
    The 1st wife.
    Something you can't see is in fact our soul. Often neglected in persuit of material wealth & pleasure. It is actually the only thing that followa us wherever we go. Perhaps it's a good idea to cultivate & strengthen it noe rather than to wait until we are on our death bed to lament.
    What will you do about it?
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    mashallah that is really nice...now when i get married nd my husband wants 4 wives...i'll show him this...lol
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    • #3
      everything starts from within one self.

      keep it simple. keep it pure. keep it beautiful.
      :up: :lailah: :up:

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      • #4
        Originally posted by muslimsisterONL

        There was a rich merchant who had 4 wives. He loved the 4th wife the most.
        He adorned her with rich robes and treated her to delicacies. He took great care of her & gave her nothing but the best.
        He also loved the 3rd wife very much. He was very proud of her and always wanted to show her off to his friends. However, the merchant is always in fear that she might run away with some other man.
        He too, loved his 2nd wife. She was a very considerate person, always patient & in fact was the merchants confidante. Whenever the merchant faced some problems, he always turned to his 2nd wife, and she would always help him & tide him through difficult times.
        Now, the merchants 1st wive was a very loyal partner and made great contributions in maintaining his wealth & business as well as taking care of his household. However, the merchant did not love his first wife & although she loved him deeply, he hardly took any notice of her.
        One day, the merchant fell ill. Before long, he knew that he was going to die soon. He thought of his luxurious life and told himself "Now I have 4 wives with me, but when I die, I'll be alone. How lonely I'll be!"
        Thus, he asked the 4th wife, "I loved you most,endowed you with the finest clothes & showered great care over you. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me & keep me company?" "No way!" replied the 4th wife & she walked away without another word. The answer cut like a sharp knife into the merchants heart.
        The sad merchant then asked the 3rd wife, "I have loved you so much for all my life. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me & keep me company?" "No." replied the 3rd wife. "Life is so good over here! I'm going to remarry when you die!" The merchants heart sank & turned cold.
        He then asked the 2nd wife, " I always turned to you for help & you've always helped me out. Now I need your help again. When I die, will you follow me & keep me company?" "I'm sorry, I can't help you out this time." repled the 2nd wife. "At the very most, I can only send you to your grave." The answer came like a bolt of thunder & the merchant was devastated.
        The a voice called out: "I'll leave with you. I'll follow you no matter where you go!" The merchant looked up & there was his 1st wife. She was so skinny, almost like she suffered from malnutrition. Greatly grieved, the merchant said "I should have taken much better care of you while I could have!"
        Actually we all have 4 wives in our lives...............
        The 4th wife is our body. No matter how much time & effort we lavish in making it look good, it'll leave us when we die.
        The 3rd wife is our possession, status & wealth. Whe we die they all go to others.
        The 2nd wife is our family & friends. No matter how close they had been when we were alive, the furthest they can stay by us is up to the grave.
        The 1st wife.
        Something you can't see is in fact our soul. Often neglected in persuit of material wealth & pleasure. It is actually the only thing that followa us wherever we go. Perhaps it's a good idea to cultivate & strengthen it noe rather than to wait until we are on our death bed to lament.
        What will you do about it?
        sis dont start the brothers of of about 4 wives,they already cant stop talking about hoors!!!

        LOL
        The Prophet SAW said, "(There are2words which R dear 2 the most gracious (Allah SWT)&very easy4the tongue2say but very heavy in the balance.They are:Subhan Allahi Wa Bihamdihi - Subhan Allahil-Azim

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        • #5
          hey i'll show this to ma bro jus planning on having four wives the little pr***
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          • #6
            Originally posted by Black_Flag
            mashallah that is really nice...now when i get married nd my husband wants 4 wives...i'll show him this...lol
            Don't despair. Polyandry exists as well. There have been lots of cases, especially among Mormons.

            http://www.wordsources.info/words-mod-polygamyPt1.html
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            • #7
              Originally posted by Black_Flag
              mashallah that is really nice...now when i get married nd my husband wants 4 wives...i'll show him this...lol

              HAHa, lol, then he'll be all "and the lesson of that story is that no matter how badly you treat your first wife, she'll always be loyal to you"

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              • #8
                nd i'll say no..the lesson is u already have 4 wives
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                • #9
                  exactly

                  so he dont need anymore wives, lol.
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                  • #10
                    theres nothing wrong with having 4 wives,

                    different women have different qualities
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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by Aftab
                      theres nothing wrong with having 4 wives,

                      different women have different qualities
                      Does anyone have any experience from four men? Certainly they have different qualities, too.

                      http://www.wordsources.info/words-mod-polygamyPt1.html
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                      • #12
                        subhanallah that story was beautiful....
                        and very nice to hear again!
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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by Stillcurious
                          Does anyone have any experience from four men? Certainly they have different qualities, too.

                          http://www.wordsources.info/words-mod-polygamyPt1.html

                          I think this question is directed to the wrong crowd (Muslims) because this can only is answered by a Western woman. By the way Islam allow conditional "Polygyny" and the not the polygamy.
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                          • #14
                            Last night I saw something quite interesting on television (Michael Palin's series on Tibet).There's a tribe in Western China, where a child never knows his father. Women look after children together and the uncle of the child has some sort of a father's role.
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                            • #15
                              Assalamu Aleikum Warahmatullah

                              There was a rich merchant who had 4 wives. He loved the 4th wife the most.
                              He adorned her with rich robes and treated her to delicacies. He took great care of her & gave her nothing but the best.
                              He also loved the 3rd wife very much. He was very proud of her and always wanted to show her off to his friends. However, the merchant is always in fear that she might run away with some other man.
                              He too, loved his 2nd wife. She was a very considerate person, always patient & in fact was the merchants confidante. Whenever the merchant faced some problems, he always turned to his 2nd wife, and she would always help him & tide him through difficult times.
                              Now, the merchants 1st wive was a very loyal partner and made great contributions in maintaining his wealth & business as well as taking care of his household. However, the merchant did not love his first wife & although she loved him deeply, he hardly took any notice of her.
                              One day, the merchant fell ill. Before long, he knew that he was going to die soon. He thought of his luxurious life and told himself "Now I have 4 wives with me, but when I die, I'll be alone. How lonely I'll be!"
                              Thus, he asked the 4th wife, "I loved you most,endowed you with the finest clothes & showered great care over you. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me & keep me company?" "No way!" replied the 4th wife & she walked away without another word. The answer cut like a sharp knife into the merchants heart.
                              The sad merchant then asked the 3rd wife, "I have loved you so much for all my life. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me & keep me company?" "No." replied the 3rd wife. "Life is so good over here! I'm going to remarry when you die!" The merchants heart sank & turned cold.
                              He then asked the 2nd wife, " I always turned to you for help & you've always helped me out. Now I need your help again. When I die, will you follow me & keep me company?" "I'm sorry, I can't help you out this time." repled the 2nd wife. "At the very most, I can only send you to your grave." The answer came like a bolt of thunder & the merchant was devastated.
                              The a voice called out: "I'll leave with you. I'll follow you no matter where you go!" The merchant looked up & there was his 1st wife. She was so skinny, almost like she suffered from malnutrition. Greatly grieved, the merchant said "I should have taken much better care of you while I could have!"
                              Actually we all have 4 wives in our lives...............
                              The 4th wife is our body. No matter how much time & effort we lavish in making it look good, it'll leave us when we die.
                              The 3rd wife is our possession, status & wealth. Whe we die they all go to others.
                              The 2nd wife is our family & friends. No matter how close they had been when we were alive, the furthest they can stay by us is up to the grave.
                              The 1st wife.
                              Something you can't see is in fact our soul. Often neglected in persuit of material wealth & pleasure. It is actually the only thing that followa us wherever we go. Perhaps it's a good idea to cultivate & strengthen it noe rather than to wait until we are on our death bed to lament.
                              What will you do about it?
                              Masha that was a great post:up:
                              Jazaka Allah Khayr
                              O our Lord, pour out on us patience, and make us die as those who have submitted (to You). (A-RAAF: 126)
                              With steadfastness, Paradise is earned!

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