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    #16
    Re: Wife doesn't always eat halal. Wut do?

    Originally posted by Muslima London View Post
    ignore qustions.

    realised that muzzybee asked the same.....
    It is still worth asking again.
    There must be other deficiencies in her deen which leads to her not being concerned about the permissibility of what she eats ....how did you overlook that?

    Anyway you should probably get someone with knowledge to explain to her that what she is doing is impermissible.
    It doesn't sound like there is much use in you speaking to her, by all means still do though, but also ensure someone of knowledge speaks to her on the matter or even give her a book or show her a video on the topic.

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      #17
      Re: Wife doesn't always eat halal. Wut do?

      Originally posted by Rhed View Post
      She does
      Many of what you say dont relate, but I will give you the benefit of the doubt...
      First of all, you need to advise her... if she is your 'new' wife then give her time... encourage her to engage upon acts of worship and take her out to lectures where real knowledge exists...
      Trying to change her at once may not work... so give it time... and give her advise that knowingly eating haraam is going to be harmful to her Iman and her a'maal...

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        #18
        Re: Wife doesn't always eat halal. Wut do?

        I know of a Muslim couple, not very practicing but not very liberal either, who would recite bismillah before consuming any (non-pork) meat outside. When we came to know of it, we asked them for their reasoning and they said they thought reading bismillah... before eating anything makes it halal. They do, thankfully, know that pork is haram. Anyway, maybe the opening poster's wife holds the same belief?

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          #19
          Re: Wife doesn't always eat halal. Wut do?

          Originally posted by Rhed View Post
          I forgot. I would assume she would eat halal only. I played myself...
          hahahhaha.
          The one Question you forgot to ask.
          Ya Allah,
          Make me a stronger person today. Make me a better person out of all these. It is no longer bearable for me for my heart is aching and You are the only One who knows how I feel. Nothing is making sense to myself and for anyone else for that matter especially to the one person I wish to understand me better than anybody else.
          "Don't use the sharpness of your tongue on the mother who taught you how to speak

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            #20
            Re: Wife doesn't always eat halal. Wut do?

            Originally posted by Abu julaybeeb View Post
            What is your definition of practising islam as from this thread and the other one its not looking good for you

            You have to try and educate her in Islam and instill that love and fear of Allah otherwise its gonna be a hard road ahead of you for your relationship with your wife
            well don't we all have weakness?If shs prays and does everything else but perhaps this is her error and one weakness.
            Ya Allah,
            Make me a stronger person today. Make me a better person out of all these. It is no longer bearable for me for my heart is aching and You are the only One who knows how I feel. Nothing is making sense to myself and for anyone else for that matter especially to the one person I wish to understand me better than anybody else.
            "Don't use the sharpness of your tongue on the mother who taught you how to speak

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              #21
              Re: Wife doesn't always eat halal. Wut do?

              Im not saying we dont have weaknesses or mistakes everyones imaan goes up and down im just sayn doing what the 5 pillars say might not be enough we have to strive to do more some people will go jahannam after being good their whole life but that 1 deed at the end ruined them. The prophet :saw: said jannah is closer to you than your shoelace and so is jahannam. So we have to go above and beyond

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                #22
                Re: Wife doesn't always eat halal. Wut do?

                My didi's ex was like this. He did pray and fast etc, but he'd eat meat from any fast food etc as long as it wasn't pork. We did try to talk to him about this but he'd spent half of his life in the US, where some celebrity sheikhs follow the view that "we can eat the meat of Jews and Christians" and take that to mean any non porcine meat from supermarkets and fast food chains that are owned by Jews or Christians. It's simply absurd. I've come across a lot of Muslims who think like this, especially those in the US. Also I once met a practising Egyptian lady who bought haram meat from Tesco cos' "big sheikh on TV says it's okay". Once they get a fatwa of approval from their sheikhs, they feel they have carte blanche to eat any meat they want from any store for the sake of their own convenience.
                The Lyme Disease pandemic: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z5u73ME4sVU

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                  #23
                  Re: Wife doesn't always eat halal. Wut do?

                  Originally posted by Rhed View Post
                  So I told her to only eat what's halal. But she just tells me she picks and chooses...whatever dat means. She eats outside meat from like fast food places and such. I understand there's some school of thought that allows u or something.

                  Idk...wut do I do?
                  Tell her to stop and tell her she'll get fat eating junk food.

                  Originally posted by neelu View Post
                  My didi's ex was like this. He did pray and fast etc, but he'd eat meat from any fast food etc as long as it wasn't pork. We did try to talk to him about this but he'd spent half of his life in the US, where some celebrity sheikhs follow the view that "we can eat the meat of Jews and Christians" and take that to mean any non porcine meat from supermarkets and fast food chains that are owned by Jews or Christians. It's simply absurd. I've come across a lot of Muslims who think like this, especially those in the US. Also I once met a practising Egyptian lady who bought haram meat from Tesco cos' "big sheikh on TV says it's okay". Once they get a fatwa of approval from their sheikhs, they feel they have carte blanche to eat any meat they want from any store for the sake of their own convenience.
                  What's a didi?

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                    #24
                    Re: Wife doesn't always eat halal. Wut do?

                    Originally posted by Ekoor View Post
                    I think she is referring to meat slaughtered by the people of the book.

                    I would get the opinion of a scholar you both have confidence in to explain how this doesnt apply in this day and age,

                    If this goes on think of what impact it will have on your kids.

                    What do you mean it doesn't apply in this day and age?

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                      #25
                      Re: Wife doesn't always eat halal. Wut do?

                      Originally posted by Rhed View Post
                      So I told her to only eat what's halal. But she just tells me she picks and chooses...whatever dat means. She eats outside meat from like fast food places and such. I understand there's some school of thought that allows u or something.

                      Idk...wut do I do?
                      Are you even married to her?

                      Originally posted by Poster View Post
                      What do you mean it doesn't apply in this day and age?
                      What day and age?

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                        #26
                        Re: Wife doesn't always eat halal. Wut do?

                        Originally posted by Poster View Post
                        What do you mean it doesn't apply in this day and age?
                        He meant that christians of today dont follow the Book as of former times. So they basically eat meat which hasnt been slaughtered in the name of Allah.
                        “Mix with the noble people, you become one of them; and keep away from evil people so that you protect yourself from their evils.”


                        Hadhrat Ali (Radiallahu anhu)

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                          #27
                          Re: Wife doesn't always eat halal. Wut do?

                          Originally posted by Morose View Post
                          Are you even married to her?



                          What day and age?

                          This day and age

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                            #28
                            Re: Wife doesn't always eat halal. Wut do?

                            Originally posted by Sky Lark View Post
                            He meant that christians of today dont follow the Book as of former times. So they basically eat meat which hasnt been slaughtered in the name of Allah.
                            Why can't people just stick in the main to daal and roti, everything would be so much more simpler!?!

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                              #29
                              Re: Wife doesn't always eat halal. Wut do?

                              Originally posted by Sister_2009 View Post
                              So, a week ago you weren't married (http://www.ummah.com/forum/showthrea...=1#post7445288). Guess you married this lady. Anyway, congrats.
                              You should seriously consider being a mod. Not joking.

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                                #30
                                Re: Wife doesn't always eat halal. Wut do?

                                Originally posted by Spicen View Post
                                You should seriously consider being a mod. Not joking.
                                I was once a mod on another site (professional, not religious). It didn't go well. I blocked the IP address of another mod that I didn't like, and they could not access the site. It did not go over well. Ha!

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