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  • Different shades of love and their significance

    you feel and the other where you love the person because of how you make them feel.

    The first type of love seems to be more of a I love me rather than I love you
    Last edited by .Hajar.; 08-03-17, 05:03 AM. Reason: user request
    Indeed we belong to Allah,
    and indeed to Him we will return.


    Quran 2:156

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    Re: Why does Love Run Out in So Many Muslim Marriages?

    Walaikum assalaam

    You are asking hard questions, I have no idea.

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    • #3
      Re: Why does Love Run Out in So Many Muslim Marriages?

      Come back and tell us after you're married.

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      • #4
        Re: Why does Love Run Out in So Many Muslim Marriages?

        Originally posted by Stoic Believer View Post
        Come back and tell us after you're married.
        -sigh
        Indeed we belong to Allah,
        and indeed to Him we will return.


        Quran 2:156

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        • #5
          Re: Why does Love Run Out in So Many Muslim Marriages?

          Originally posted by Stoic Believer View Post
          Come back and tell us after you're married.
          Not to sound harsh, but I kinda agree with what the brother is saying here. It seems kinda fruitless to concern yourself with a scenario that might or might not happen once u get married..

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          • #6
            Re: Why does Love Run Out in So Many Muslim Marriages?

            Why do you assume there was love to begin with?

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            • #7
              Re: Why does Love Run Out in So Many Muslim Marriages?

              Originally posted by Umm Uthmaan View Post
              Not to sound harsh, but I kinda agree with what the brother is saying here. It seems kinda fruitless to concern yourself with a scenario that might or might not happen once u get married..
              but love will always run out if the source is not Allah. isn't that a given?
              Indeed we belong to Allah,
              and indeed to Him we will return.


              Quran 2:156

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              • #8
                Re: Why does Love Run Out in So Many Muslim Marriages?

                Originally posted by ninety1daisies View Post
                but love will always run out if the source is not Allah. isn't that a given?
                Allahu A'lam, but I don't think that's the case. There are plenty of couples that love each other and grow old together despite not being Muslim. They just don't love each other for the sake of Allah, which obviously is the type of love we as Muslims should aspire to have in our marriages.

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                • #9
                  Re: Why does Love Run Out in So Many Muslim Marriages?

                  Do you know a lot of people who've fallen out of love in marriage?

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                  • #10
                    Re: Why does Love Run Out in So Many Muslim Marriages?

                    I think love is purely something that Allah puts in the heart... and he سبحانه وتعالى is the only one to maintain it...
                    Many couples dont do ibadah together...
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                    * typing from my phone, excuse the mess

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                    • #11
                      Re: Why does Love Run Out in So Many Muslim Marriages?

                      Originally posted by malleat1 View Post
                      I think love is purely something that Allah puts in the heart... and he سبحانه وتعالى is the only one to maintain it...
                      Many couples dont do ibadah together...
                      yes.. and that can be achieved through loving each other for His sake.
                      Indeed we belong to Allah,
                      and indeed to Him we will return.


                      Quran 2:156

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                      • #12
                        Re: Why does Love Run Out in So Many Muslim Marriages?

                        'ofcourse we should love for the sake of Allah but there's no harm in loving your spouse because that's a desire that Allah swt installed in the creation of Adam and so long as the route is halaal (marriage) then there is no harm in doing so.'

                        um just thought i'd add this in there, incase anyone got confused like I did on concept of love.
                        Indeed we belong to Allah,
                        and indeed to Him we will return.


                        Quran 2:156

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                        • #13
                          Re: Why does Love Run Out in So Many Muslim Marriages?

                          Because either the wife or the husband or both stop making an effort.

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                          • #14
                            Re: Why does Love Run Out in So Many Muslim Marriages?

                            Originally posted by lonelyniqabi View Post
                            Because either the wife or the husband or both stop making an effort.
                            why do they stop making an effort?
                            Indeed we belong to Allah,
                            and indeed to Him we will return.


                            Quran 2:156

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                            • #15
                              Re: Why does Love Run Out in So Many Muslim Marriages?

                              btw content in original post was gathered from an Islamic lecture.

                              except for the title, that was my wrong.
                              Indeed we belong to Allah,
                              and indeed to Him we will return.


                              Quran 2:156

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