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  • Can you ever be too nice?

    :salams

    I know it's good to be kind but sometimes you get weirded out by people like do extremely nice ppl ever creep you out??
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    Re: Can you ever be too nice?

    Wa aleiykum salaam
    Not because of the creep factor, im very nice and people appreciate that but the thing is you hurt yourself cus people use you or you start feeling used
    يَٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلنَّاسُ ٱعْبُدُوا۟ رَبَّكُمُ ٱلَّذِى خَلَقَكُمْ وَٱلَّذِينَ مِن قَبْلِكُمْ لَعَلَّكُمْ تَتَّقُونَ

    O mankind, worship your Lord, who created you and those before you, that you may become righteous

    Surah Al Baqarah ayah 21

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    • #3
      Re: Can you ever be too nice?

      Originally posted by aynina View Post
      Wa aleiykum salaam
      Not because of the creep factor, im very nice and people appreciate that but the thing is you hurt yourself cus people use you or you start feeling used
      That's too bad I know how it feels to be used and i hate it when people do that
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      • #4
        Re: Can you ever be too nice?

        Originally posted by zantz View Post
        That's too bad I know how it feels to be used and i hate it when people do that
        Ikrrrr me too
        يَٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلنَّاسُ ٱعْبُدُوا۟ رَبَّكُمُ ٱلَّذِى خَلَقَكُمْ وَٱلَّذِينَ مِن قَبْلِكُمْ لَعَلَّكُمْ تَتَّقُونَ

        O mankind, worship your Lord, who created you and those before you, that you may become righteous

        Surah Al Baqarah ayah 21

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        • #5
          Re: Can you ever be too nice?

          Originally posted by zantz View Post
          :salams

          I know it's good to be kind but sometimes you get weirded out by people like do extremely nice ppl ever creep you out??
          I think it's a mentality thing too. Like if we come across someone who is super nice, we start thinking like 'what's their motive? Why are they so nice and is it because they want something from?' Stuff like that. Although it's a wrong way of thinking, in my opinion. We should give people benefit of the doubt but there are just some shady people out there. Can't trust nobody!
          Allah gave us two ears and one mouth, so we can listen more and talk less.

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          • #6
            Re: Can you ever be too nice?

            Yes, I'm always weirded out by overly nice people. I don't like being around them.

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            • #7
              Re: Can you ever be too nice?

              People who are too nice are too insipid and boring. They are also annoying and make me feel uncomfortable. Equally, people who are too forthcoming with compliments also are annoying.

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              • #8
                Re: Can you ever be too nice?

                You lose out by being too nice. I've been self employed for couple years and whenever I try being good, I end up being stepped over. But alhamdulillah Allah is the best provider
                There is a clock on your forehead counting down to the time of your death. Only Allah knows how many seconds are left on it

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                • #9
                  Re: Can you ever be too nice?

                  Do you mean people who don't display negative emotions like anger or disappointment?

                  I've yet to come across someone who is 'too nice'.

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                  • #10
                    Re: Can you ever be too nice?

                    :(

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                    • #11
                      Re: Can you ever be too nice?

                      :wswrwb:

                      Depends, just like with everything in life.

                      It's hard to find that balance.

                      If you're sucking up to me I'd rather you not. Be nice for genuine reasons but don't over do it by praising people all the time. You might find yourself in a tricky situation in the future where you've decided to change your opinions on that certain individual.

                      I find it suspicious and I know that's wrong. My environment has had a role to play in that so if I meet an overly nice person, I'd prefer to get to know them a bit more before convincing myself that they are 'creeps'.
                      'Whatever it be wherein ye differ, the decision thereof is with Allah: such is Allah my Lord: In Him I trust, and to Him I turn.' The Holy Qu'ran Al Shura (Consultation)

                      So, which of the favours of your lord will you deny? ~ Surah Ar Rahman

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                      • #12
                        Re: Can you ever be too nice?

                        I like them...For instance, Arabs are 'extra' nice when you're at their home. They make sure you feel home, and I honestly like it :D. It makes me feel comfortable...All in all, it's better to be too nice than cold and rude.

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                        • #13
                          Re: Can you ever be too nice?

                          Originally posted by DerGlšubiger View Post
                          I like them...For instance, Arabs are 'extra' nice when you're at their home. They make sure you feel home, and I honestly like it :D. It makes me feel comfortable...All in all, it's better to be too nice than cold and rude.
                          Are you a 'nice' person?

                          If so, why do you think you're nice?
                          'Whatever it be wherein ye differ, the decision thereof is with Allah: such is Allah my Lord: In Him I trust, and to Him I turn.' The Holy Qu'ran Al Shura (Consultation)

                          So, which of the favours of your lord will you deny? ~ Surah Ar Rahman

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                          • #14
                            Re: Can you ever be too nice?

                            I'll be too nice when I need something. That long lost brother who I forgotten to speak to is now my buddy.




























































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                            • #15
                              Re: Can you ever be too nice?

                              Originally posted by brightesthour View Post
                              :(
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