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  • Interacting with the opposite gender

    :salams

    You can't talk to the opposie gender for no reason afaik, but what if they start talking to you how would you respond?

    Also, what if you're talking about something for good reason but then the convo drifts into the 'unnecessary talks' region, what should you do?
    Accept the decree

    It has happened to a million other people don't expect to be the exception

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    Re: Interacting with the opposite gender

    Originally posted by LingLing12 View Post
    :salams

    You can't talk to the opposie gender for no reason afaik, but what if they start talking to you how would you respond?

    Also, what if you're talking about something for good reason but then the convo drifts into the 'unnecessary talks' region, what should you do?
    If they start talking just respond with the shortest answers so "yes" "no" "to the right" "in class" "page 235" stuff like this. Direct and concise.

    If conversation starts to drift, you simply redirect it, or you end it.

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    • #3
      Re: Interacting with the opposite gender

      Originally posted by LingLing12 View Post
      :salams

      You can't talk to the opposie gender for no reason afaik, but what if they start talking to you how would you respond?
      Run away.

      Also, what if you're talking about something for good reason but then the convo drifts into the 'unnecessary talks' region, what should you do?
      Run away again.

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      • #4
        Re: Interacting with the opposite gender

        Originally posted by thebench View Post
        Run away.

        Lol

        Run away again.
        Lol again.
        Accept the decree

        It has happened to a million other people don't expect to be the exception

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        • #5
          Re: Interacting with the opposite gender

          Originally posted by Sarah5 View Post
          If they start talking just respond with the shortest answers so "yes" "no" "to the right" "in class" "page 235" stuff like this. Direct and concise.

          If conversation starts to drift, you simply redirect it, or you end it.
          Ok :jkk:
          Accept the decree

          It has happened to a million other people don't expect to be the exception

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          • #6
            Re: Interacting with the opposite gender

            If this is to be generalised,then everybody knows that in Asia and Africa traditions differ whereas in Europe,USA and Australia there is no restriction.

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            • #7
              Re: Interacting with the opposite gender

              A Muslim should not talk to the opposite gender or be around them, we are not Christians.
              Last edited by slaveofthemosthigh; 19-11-16, 04:50 PM.

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              • #8
                Re: Interacting with the opposite gender

                Originally posted by LingLing12 View Post
                :salams

                You can't talk to the opposie gender for no reason afaik, but what if they start talking to you how would you respond?

                Also, what if you're talking about something for good reason but then the convo drifts into the 'unnecessary talks' region, what should you do?
                Walaikum assalaam

                If they start talking then give short impersonal responses.

                If you see that there might chance of long convo, you abruptly change the topic onto more formal subject. If you can't do that then allow person to speak her thing, then don't make any comment on it and change onto more formal subject.

                Sometimes if you are in group where everybody knows each then involve other people into your discussion.

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                • #9
                  Re: Interacting with the opposite gender

                  Originally posted by slaveofthemosthigh View Post
                  A Muslim should not talk to the opposite gender or be around them, we are not Christians.
                  Do you talk to your mum??
                  Accept the decree

                  It has happened to a million other people don't expect to be the exception

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                  • #10
                    Re: Interacting with the opposite gender

                    Originally posted by HelloEverybody View Post
                    Walaikum assalaam

                    If they start talking then give short impersonal responses.

                    If you see that there might chance of long convo, you abruptly change the topic onto more formal subject. If you can't do that then allow person to speak her thing, then don't make any comment on it and change onto more formal subject.

                    Sometimes if you are in group where everybody knows each then involve other people into your discussion.
                    :jkk: for the detailed advice
                    Accept the decree

                    It has happened to a million other people don't expect to be the exception

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                    • #11
                      Re: Interacting with the opposite gender

                      Originally posted by LingLing12 View Post
                      Do you talk to your mum??
                      Yes, there is nothing wrong with that because she is my Mother.

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                      • #12
                        Re: Interacting with the opposite gender

                        Originally posted by slaveofthemosthigh View Post
                        Yes, there is nothing wrong with that because she is my Mother.
                        So you just lied.
                        Accept the decree

                        It has happened to a million other people don't expect to be the exception

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by LingLing12 View Post
                          Originally posted by slaveofthemosthigh View Post
                          Yes, there is nothing wrong with that because she is my Mother.
                          So you just lied.
                          Rather your comprehension prevented you from grasping the very obviously implied meaning.
                          You think you know more than my scholar's qiyās? He was more learned than you and all other scholars combined. Yeah, the devil was the greatest scholar too and look where his qiyās of fire being better than tīn got him. Sorry.

                          You follow your scholar's qiyās, and I will follow the Qur'ān and Sunnah.

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                          • #14
                            Re: Interacting with the opposite gender

                            Originally posted by Linkdeutscher View Post
                            Rather your comprehension prevented you from grasping the very obviously implied meaning.
                            Rather you have no clue why I wrote what I wrote.
                            Accept the decree

                            It has happened to a million other people don't expect to be the exception

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                            • #15
                              Re: Interacting with the opposite gender

                              Originally posted by LingLing12 View Post
                              So you just lied.
                              No, when I said that you should not talk to the opposite gender I meant non mahrams.

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