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    Asalaamualaykum brothers and sisters.

    So I know a muslim guy and he recently told me that he feels uncomfortable listening to the adhan or the Qur'an. He cannot stand recitation.

    Now before jumping to conclusions, there is some background issues going on. The brother has anxiety issues, he has depression, he has been out of touch with Islam for years, his family are barevli but he didn't agree with some of the things they did, his family don't pray so he doesn't pray.

    So yeh many issues. How would you advise on countering these issues. I have advised him on prayer and the mental health issues so that won't be needed but can he make himself not feel uncomfortable anymore.

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    Re: Muslim guy feel uncomfortable listen to adhan or Qur'an

    Originally posted by Medic View Post
    Asalaamualaykum brothers and sisters.

    So I know a muslim guy and he recently told me that he feels uncomfortable listening to the adhan or the Qur'an. He cannot stand recitation.

    Now before jumping to conclusions, there is some background issues going on. The brother has anxiety issues, he has depression, he has been out of touch with Islam for years, his family are barevli but he didn't agree with some of the things they did, his family don't pray so he doesn't pray.

    So yeh many issues. How would you advise on countering these issues. I have advised him on prayer and the mental health issues so that won't be needed but can he make himself not feel uncomfortable anymore.
    Wa alaikum salaam wa rahmatullah wa barakatuhu

    He needs to push himself to listen to it.

    I dont like getting out of bed on a cold morning but I know I need to pray so I push myself.

    It can be uncomfortable doing wudhu many times in winter but you push yourself to do it.

    He needs to fight his nafs and the whispering of Shaitan.

    Tell him to do ruyqah on himself too. If he cant read it at least listen to it.

    Not everything is jinn related but always a possibility.

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    • #3
      Wa alaykum Salam

      It all needs to begin with the salaah. Without it one is lost.
      You think you know more than my scholar's qiyās? He was more learned than you and all other scholars combined. Yeah, the devil was the greatest scholar too and look where his qiyās of fire being better than tīn got him. Sorry.

      You follow your scholar's qiyās, and I will follow the Qur'ān and Sunnah.

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      • #4
        Re: Muslim guy feel uncomfortable listen to adhan or Qur'an

        Wa alaikumussalaamu wa rahmatullaahi wa barakaatuh
        So I know a muslim guy and he recently told me that he feels uncomfortable listening to the adhan or the Qur'an. He cannot stand recitation.

        Now before jumping to conclusions, there is some background issues going on. The brother has anxiety issues, he has depression, he has been out of touch with Islam for years, his family are barevli but he didn't agree with some of the things they did, his family don't pray so he doesn't pray.
        My brother ,
        I've a strong feeling that what you said about him -may Allah swt heal him of all sickness- is symptomatic of being affected by some kind of satanic evil ( possession? evil eye ? ) .. besides , anxiety and depression might also be caused by Jinn .. not all depressions are cured by therapy only .. you said he doesn't pray , so he is not ready yet to stand on his feet or at least resist a bit .. would you be willing to bring him a good Raqi .. accompy him to the mosque .. and make him pray even when not willing to .. you might be a company for a while until he gets stronger ..
        A rule of thumb : Be not one of these as Jinns may easily attack these types and choose them as targets :
        those in disobedience (not practising muslims .. commiting major sins etc) ..
        those in constant fear ..
        those with bad temper who often get angry ..
        those in EXTREME JOY ..
        and those in deep melancholy

        A reminder from Sahih Al-Bukhari :
        “Whoever has seven 'Ajwah dates every morning, he will not be harmed on that day by poison or magic.”

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        • #5
          Re: Muslim guy feel uncomfortable listen to adhan or Qur'an

          Originally posted by Muslimahghuraba View Post
          Wa alaikum salaam wa rahmatullah wa barakatuhu

          He needs to push himself to listen to it.

          I dont like getting out of bed on a cold morning but I know I need to pray so I push myself.

          It can be uncomfortable doing wudhu many times in winter but you push yourself to do it.

          He needs to fight his nafs and the whispering of Shaitan.

          Tell him to do ruyqah on himself too. If he cant read it at least listen to it.

          Not everything is jinn related but always a possibility.
          Originally posted by Linkdeutscher View Post
          Wa alaykum Salam

          It all needs to begin with the salaah. Without it one is lost.
          Originally posted by anouar View Post
          Wa alaikumussalaamu wa rahmatullaahi wa barakaatuh

          My brother ,
          I've a strong feeling that what you said about him -may Allah swt heal him of all sickness- is symptomatic of being affected by some kind of satanic evil ( possession? evil eye ? ) .. besides , anxiety and depression might also be caused by Jinn .. not all depressions are cured by therapy only .. you said he doesn't pray , so he is not ready yet to stand on his feet or at least resist a bit .. would you be willing to bring him a good Raqi .. accompy him to the mosque .. and make him pray even when not willing to .. you might be a company for a while until he gets stronger ..
          A rule of thumb : Be not one of these as Jinns may easily attack these types and choose them as targets :
          those in disobedience (not practising muslims .. commiting major sins etc) ..
          those in constant fear ..
          those with bad temper who often get angry ..
          those in EXTREME JOY ..
          and those in deep melancholy

          A reminder from Sahih Al-Bukhari :
          “Whoever has seven 'Ajwah dates every morning, he will not be harmed on that day by poison or magic.”
          I don't really live near him, nowhere near. Is there perhaps a Muslim specialist who he can anonymously talk to online about these issues? Someone who has Islamic knowledge and deals with people who have issues like depression/anxiety etc?

          Like I have already told him to pray etc but I feel there is so much going on that telling him go pray alone won't do anything.

          Jzk for your posts.

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            • #7
              Re: Muslim guy feel uncomfortable listen to adhan or Qur'an

              Originally posted by Medic View Post
              Asalaamualaykum brothers and sisters.

              So I know a muslim guy and he recently told me that he feels uncomfortable listening to the adhan or the Qur'an. He cannot stand recitation.

              Now before jumping to conclusions, there is some background issues going on. The brother has anxiety issues, he has depression, he has been out of touch with Islam for years, his family are barevli but he didn't agree with some of the things they did, his family don't pray so he doesn't pray.

              So yeh many issues. How would you advise on countering these issues. I have advised him on prayer and the mental health issues so that won't be needed but can he make himself not feel uncomfortable anymore.
              Stop listening to music. Music cancells out love for Quran recitation. Both can't Co exist in a person. If the person loves music he will find himself intolerant towards Quran recitation.

              If a person loves Quran recitation he will find himself not at rest with music.
              "If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor."

              "Nothing protects the rights of the minority like the tyranny of the majority"

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              • #8
                Re: Muslim guy feel uncomfortable listen to adhan or Qur'an

                Tell him that the Qur'an only brings peace to believers so its only shaytan making him scared.

                I was scared of doing dhikr for three years tell him that our lives will be short and its good to try, even if for a few minutes, to listen to some Qur'an.

                For me it was the feeling of extreme guilt and worthlessness that made me scared to listen to dhikr. Tell him he should see counselling for that, perhaps Islamic counselling?

                Here is the contact details for this Islamic counselling service in London (and they do counselling for people outside of London too) :

                http://www.sakoon.co.uk/
                وَاقْصِدْ فِي مَشْيِكَ وَاغْضُضْ مِن صَوْتِكَ ۚ إِنَّ أَنكَرَ الْأَصْوَاتِ لَصَوْتُ الْحَمِيرِ - 31:19

                And be moderate in your pace and lower your voice; indeed, the most disagreeable of sounds is the voice of donkeys."


                أَلَمْ تَرَوْا أَنَّ اللَّهَ سَخَّرَ لَكُم مَّا فِي السَّمَاوَاتِ وَمَا فِي الْأَرْضِ وَأَسْبَغَ عَلَيْكُمْ نِعَمَهُ ظَاهِرَةً وَبَاطِنَةً ۗ وَمِنَ النَّاسِ مَن يُجَادِلُ فِي اللَّهِ بِغَيْرِ عِلْمٍ وَلَا هُدًى وَلَا كِتَابٍ مُّنِيرٍ - 31:20

                Do you not see that Allah has made subject to you whatever is in the heavens and whatever is in the earth and amply bestowed upon you His favors, [both] apparent and unapparent? But of the people is he who disputes about Allah without knowledge or guidance or an enlightening Book [from Him].


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                • #9
                  Re: Muslim guy feel uncomfortable listen to adhan or Qur'an

                  Originally posted by Medic View Post
                  Asalaamualaykum brothers and sisters.

                  So I know a muslim guy and he recently told me that he feels uncomfortable listening to the adhan or the Qur'an. He cannot stand recitation.

                  Now before jumping to conclusions, there is some background issues going on. The brother has anxiety issues, he has depression, he has been out of touch with Islam for years, his family are barevli but he didn't agree with some of the things they did, his family don't pray so he doesn't pray.

                  So yeh many issues. How would you advise on countering these issues. I have advised him on prayer and the mental health issues so that won't be needed but can he make himself not feel uncomfortable anymore.
                  Sounds like a possible Jinn possession

                  نعوذ بالله من ذلك
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                  "It does not befit the lion to answer the dogs."

                  – Imam al-Shafi’i (Rahimahullah)

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                  • #10
                    Re: Muslim guy feel uncomfortable listen to adhan or Qur'an

                    Originally posted by candyapple View Post
                    Stop listening to music. Music cancells out love for Quran recitation. Both can't Co exist in a person. If the person loves music he will find himself intolerant towards Quran recitation.

                    If a person loves Quran recitation he will find himself not at rest with music.
                    Originally posted by LailaTheMuslim View Post
                    Tell him that the Qur'an only brings peace to believers so its only shaytan making him scared.

                    I was scared of doing dhikr for three years tell him that our lives will be short and its good to try, even if for a few minutes, to listen to some Qur'an.

                    For me it was the feeling of extreme guilt and worthlessness that made me scared to listen to dhikr. Tell him he should see counselling for that, perhaps Islamic counselling?

                    Here is the contact details for this Islamic counselling service in London (and they do counselling for people outside of London too) :

                    http://www.sakoon.co.uk/
                    Originally posted by Saif-Uddin View Post
                    Sounds like a possible Jinn possession

                    نعوذ بالله من ذلك
                    Jzk for the replies everyone.

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                    • #11
                      Re: Muslim guy feel uncomfortable listen to adhan or Qur'an

                      Originally posted by LailaTheMuslim View Post
                      Tell him that the Qur'an only brings peace to believers so its only shaytan making him scared.

                      I was scared of doing dhikr for three years tell him that our lives will be short and its good to try, even if for a few minutes, to listen to some Qur'an.

                      For me it was the feeling of extreme guilt and worthlessness that made me scared to listen to dhikr. Tell him he should see counselling for that, perhaps Islamic counselling?

                      Here is the contact details for this Islamic counselling service in London (and they do counselling for people outside of London too) :

                      http://www.sakoon.co.uk/
                      Is this free counselling or will it cost him money?

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                      • #12
                        Re: Muslim guy feel uncomfortable listen to adhan or Qur'an

                        Originally posted by Medic View Post
                        Is this free counselling or will it cost him money?
                        they can give him a discount rate to £35 as they offered me. Would the brother be able to afford it once a week or fortnightly?
                        وَاقْصِدْ فِي مَشْيِكَ وَاغْضُضْ مِن صَوْتِكَ ۚ إِنَّ أَنكَرَ الْأَصْوَاتِ لَصَوْتُ الْحَمِيرِ - 31:19

                        And be moderate in your pace and lower your voice; indeed, the most disagreeable of sounds is the voice of donkeys."


                        أَلَمْ تَرَوْا أَنَّ اللَّهَ سَخَّرَ لَكُم مَّا فِي السَّمَاوَاتِ وَمَا فِي الْأَرْضِ وَأَسْبَغَ عَلَيْكُمْ نِعَمَهُ ظَاهِرَةً وَبَاطِنَةً ۗ وَمِنَ النَّاسِ مَن يُجَادِلُ فِي اللَّهِ بِغَيْرِ عِلْمٍ وَلَا هُدًى وَلَا كِتَابٍ مُّنِيرٍ - 31:20

                        Do you not see that Allah has made subject to you whatever is in the heavens and whatever is in the earth and amply bestowed upon you His favors, [both] apparent and unapparent? But of the people is he who disputes about Allah without knowledge or guidance or an enlightening Book [from Him].


                        Please take a look at my travel booking website : https://destinationfindertravel.com/

                        Please take a look at my blog : http://thinkingmuslima.blogspot.co.uk/

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                        • #13
                          Re: Muslim guy feel uncomfortable listen to adhan or Qur'an

                          Originally posted by LailaTheMuslim View Post
                          they can give him a discount rate to £35 as they offered me. Would the brother be able to afford it once a week or fortnightly?
                          He's a student. I don't think he will be able to afford it. Is the £35 for one session?

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                          • #14
                            Re: Muslim guy feel uncomfortable listen to adhan or Qur'an

                            Originally posted by Medic View Post
                            He's a student. I don't think he will be able to afford it. Is the £35 for one session?
                            yeah for one session.

                            he can try this in sha Allah:
                            http://muslimcommunityhelpline.org.uk/
                            وَاقْصِدْ فِي مَشْيِكَ وَاغْضُضْ مِن صَوْتِكَ ۚ إِنَّ أَنكَرَ الْأَصْوَاتِ لَصَوْتُ الْحَمِيرِ - 31:19

                            And be moderate in your pace and lower your voice; indeed, the most disagreeable of sounds is the voice of donkeys."


                            أَلَمْ تَرَوْا أَنَّ اللَّهَ سَخَّرَ لَكُم مَّا فِي السَّمَاوَاتِ وَمَا فِي الْأَرْضِ وَأَسْبَغَ عَلَيْكُمْ نِعَمَهُ ظَاهِرَةً وَبَاطِنَةً ۗ وَمِنَ النَّاسِ مَن يُجَادِلُ فِي اللَّهِ بِغَيْرِ عِلْمٍ وَلَا هُدًى وَلَا كِتَابٍ مُّنِيرٍ - 31:20

                            Do you not see that Allah has made subject to you whatever is in the heavens and whatever is in the earth and amply bestowed upon you His favors, [both] apparent and unapparent? But of the people is he who disputes about Allah without knowledge or guidance or an enlightening Book [from Him].


                            Please take a look at my travel booking website : https://destinationfindertravel.com/

                            Please take a look at my blog : http://thinkingmuslima.blogspot.co.uk/

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                            • #15
                              Re: Muslim guy feel uncomfortable listen to adhan or Qur'an

                              Originally posted by LailaTheMuslim View Post
                              yeah for one session.

                              he can try this in sha Allah:
                              http://muslimcommunityhelpline.org.uk/
                              I see, How long does 1 session last?

                              Jzk for the link.

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