Have you ever had a similar experience with gay people?

[Alina15]

In my working place I've met a guy (non-muslim and from the West) who is gay. I didn't notice that until he asked me which was the position of Islam towards gay people. I replied. He is polite, has good manners and he is always willing to help. I mean, he looks a good guy.

Have you ever had a similar experience?

[ElKh]

Re: Have you ever had a similar experience with gay people?

What did you reply? By the way, he is your non-mahram.

[eesa the kiwi]

Re: Have you ever had a similar experience with gay people?

yeah i had a similar experience
i was staying at a hostel a few years back and i was giving dawah to a guy there. he kept asking about islam and gays. Me being naieve it took me a while to figure it out but it was like "oh he's a homo makes sense now his questions".
sad thing was he seemed convinced islam was the truth but i think he didnt want to give up his homo lifestyle so he rejected islam
if it wasnt for him being a homo my impression was the guy was so close to islam

[Stoic Believer]

yeah i had a similar experience
i was staying at a hostel a few years back and i was giving dawah to a guy there. he kept asking about islam and gays. Me being naieve it took me a while to figure it out but it was like "oh he's a homo makes sense now his questions".
sad thing was he seemed convinced islam was the truth but i think he didnt want to give up his homo lifestyle so he rejected islam
if it wasnt for him being a homo my impression was the guy was so close to islam

I know a gay like this. He used to even pray salah with us. But he won't take shahada because he doesn't want to renounce his homosexuality.

[Alina15]

Re: Have you ever had a similar experience with gay people?

What did you reply? By the way, he is your non-mahram.

Basically I said that to be gay is to go against the natural disposition created by Allah swt (the fact of creating a family for example) and it's considered a sin. More elaborated but this the gist.
I know he is non-mahram, I was just replying a question he asked....

[eesa the kiwi]

Re: Have you ever had a similar experience with gay people?

I know a gay like this. He used to even pray salah with us. But he won't take shahada because he doesn't want to renounce his homosexuality.

i felt sorry for this guy can you imagine the regret on qiyamah and being asked why he wasnt a muslim? And all he can say it was because he was a homo
subhannallah i cant even comprehend the regret

[Alina15]

Re: Have you ever had a similar experience with gay people?

I know a gay like this. He used to even pray salah with us. But he won't take shahada because he doesn't want to renounce his homosexuality.

oh, so he prays but cannot renounce his homosexuality.

They love Allah swt but they don't feel attracted by the opposite gender and cannot renounce their homosexuality and they can be good people in life.

:scratch:

[ElKh]

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oh, so he prays but cannot renounce his homosexuality.

They love Allah swt but they don't feel attracted by the opposite gender and cannot renounce their homosexuality and they can be good people in life.

:scratch:

It is shirk to follow your nafs over the command of Allah.

[Stoic Believer]

I know a gay like this. He used to even pray salah with us. But he won't take shahada because he doesn't want to renounce his homosexuality.

i felt sorry for this guy can you imagine the regret on qiyamah and being asked why he wasnt a muslim? And all he can say it was because he was a homo
subhannallah i cant even comprehend the regret

I know. So close to avoiding Jahannam. If he'd only let go of his nafs.

[Stoic Believer]

I know a gay like this. He used to even pray salah with us. But he won't take shahada because he doesn't want to renounce his homosexuality.

oh, so he prays but cannot renounce his homosexuality.

They love Allah swt but they don't feel attracted by the opposite gender and cannot renounce their homosexuality and they can be good people in life.

:scratch:

Yeah. He even learned Arabic and can read it and speak it. He knows Islam is the truth.

[Saif-Uddin]

Re: Have you ever had a similar experience with gay people?

In my working place I've met a guy (non-muslim and from the West) who is gay. I didn't notice that until he asked me which was the position of Islam towards gay people. I replied. He is polite, has good manners and he is always willing to help. I mean, he looks a good guy.

Have you ever had a similar experience?

I had a Sodomite supervisor few years back, was one disgusting useless individual who would blame others, backbite his colleagues in front of contractors, couldn't make a decision himself, would ring his "other half" to make a decision,

He didn't ask me for the Islamic position, but he tried to hide his Sodomite nature at first, even the rest of the Kuffar mocked him,

Despised him,

Went from a closet Sodomite to and outspoken dirty individual who would brag about it,

[AmantuBillahi]

Re: Have you ever had a similar experience with gay people?

I know a gay like this. He used to even pray salah with us. But he won't take shahada because he doesn't want to renounce his homosexuality.

SubhanAllah

a3jeeb!

[Creamcake]

Re: Have you ever had a similar experience with gay people?

http://www.ummah.com/forum/showthrea...what-about-you

What If people actually have those feelings... but don't act on it? ^

I know it's debatable... and acting upon this is obviously a major sin.. but what if some people genuinely cannot help feeling this.. but refrain from acting upon it?

What about them.. What if this is their test.. Not necessarily sin or punishment.. but their test.. how we all face trials.

Obviously anyone who acts on it... that is impermissible, without doubt

But the actual feelings.. without acting upon them..... I don't know.. Allah s.w.t knows best.

[Saif-Uddin]

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oh, so he prays but cannot renounce his homosexuality.

They love Allah swt but they don't feel attracted by the opposite gender and cannot renounce their homosexuality and they can be good people in life.

:scratch:

They arnt good people,

People who chase after their dirty desires cannot be classed as good,

[LingLing12]

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