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    Salam alaykum
    I hope you are all well.
    I just wanted to post this here. It is some shocking reading but I feel that its something that we cannot ignore. True, this is not happening everywhere but the fact that it is happening at all should be enough to concern us and make us want to raise awareness.

    These girls who have been exploited are our sisters, whether they are bad or not – they are still our sisters, and through whatever reason, they have taken the first steps to their downfall. If you read the stories, you willr ealise how easy it was for men to exploit them and use them. They were vulnerable sisters, and need our dua’s – not our judgement.
    I post this, to remind you how easy it is to get into this, and how easily our vulnerability can increase. One of the girls had lost her father, one was living away from home, one was being abused by her guardians. Her mother had died when she was young. One was just picked up off the street, abused, had photos taken and then blackmailed.
    This could be anyone of us, or anyone that we know.

    As for those who have exploited them – subhanallah what can I say. They are men who call themselves muslims and on the day when children’s hair turns grey they will stand before Allah with all the heaviness of their disgusting deed. And they should remind themselves that when they were on dunya they showed little mercy for another man’s sister, daughter They should remind themselves that Allah swt was witness to their deeds and that Allah is all just, he is the punisher, and he is the one whose wrath will fall upon those who have oppressed others. They should fear that day, make repentance while they can and ask forgiveness from those that they have hurt.

    As a mother of a teenage girl, I felt so much pain reading some of this report but I realise that I have a responsibility to know what is happening out there.
    In sha allah lets look out for our sisters, and safe them from the evil which is out ther. We don’t’ just have a responsibility to keep ourselves pure and good, but also our sisters in islam who are not on the path of guidance. They are our sisters, not just other people's sisters but our sistesr in islam.

    May Allah Keep them safe, on his path and in righteousness – ameen

    Here is the link to the report and some key statements which stood out for me.
    http://www.mwnuk.co.uk//go_files/res...eardVoices.pdf


    “Some boys at secondary schools are being paid anything from £100-£150 to identify vulnerable girls in their schools. They are expected to befriend them and introduce them to the older men outside school or in a park.”

    “It is easy to trap girls just have to tell ‘em you love ‘em and will marry ‘em. Some of the lads are doing secret ‘nikahs’ [marriage ceremonies] to make sure da’ link don’t get broken – that way you don’t lose the link with the girl. Then they offer their wives around. I have heard people I know say, hey bro do you want my wife?”

    Concerns were raised by a number of informants that staff in takeaways located near secondary schools or which were popular with pupils, were being paid to identify vulnerable girls and groom them.

    “Cases investigated include the offender taking indecent photographs of the victim whilst they were in a relationship. If the victim wanted to end the relationship or refused to give the offender what he wanted, he would threaten the release of those photographs to her family and friends. One case involved the offender sending out over 40 photographs to the victim’s friends and family on Facebook.”
    These examples show that this technique has been used to coerce girls into having sex with numerous men. Many girls believed they were having a relationship with their older boyfriends, who would then blackmail them with the images and threaten to expose their relationship unless they agreed to have sex with other friends and associates

    CASE STUDY
    Jamila was a graduate in her mid 20s from a Pakistani background. She was living alone away from family because of her job. A local Pakistani man, a few years older than her, befriended her. He told her that he loved her and wanted to marry her but in secret until he could get his parents to formally agree to the marriage. Unknown to Jamila at the time, he was married with children.
    They married in secret without involving either family. Jamila would receive visits in the evening from her husband so he could have sex with her and then return back to his family home. He then started demanding expensive gifts from her such as designer watches, clothes and shoes. Jamila loved her husband so she bought him whatever he asked for. She was unable to keep up with his demands and could not afford to buy him the requested items. It was then that her husband suggested that she started earning additional income so she could continue buying him what he wanted and to help pay off his debts. He put a lot of pressure on Jamila and used emotional blackmail to get her to have sex with other men in exchange for money. He then started taking Jamila to various houses so his friends could have sex with her. Some of these men looked religious from their appearance such as having beards and wearing thobes. Jamila was not the only one being exploited in this way – the same network of Pakistani men would exchange information about other young Asian women and converts living by themselves in the same town and target them in the same way. They would then share their so-called ”wives” within the network.
    Last edited by Muslima London; 07-05-16, 02:44 PM.
    Ibnul Qayyim رحمه الله said: "Donít ruin your happiness with worry, and donít ruin your mind with pessimism. Donít ruin your success with deception and donít ruin the optimism of others by destroying it. Donít ruin your day by looking back at yesterday.
    __________________________________________________ _____________________________
    If you think about your situation, you will find that Allaah (سبحانه وتعالى) has given you things without asking, so have trust in Allaah (سبحانه وتعالى) that He doesnít prevent anything you want except there is goodness for you.

    You could be sleeping and the doors of the heavens are being opened with duaías being made on your behalf, SubhanAllaah: perhaps from someone poor whom you helped, or someone sad whom you brought joy, or someone passing by and you smiled at him, or someone in distress and you removed it.. so donít ever underestimate any good deeds."



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  • #2
    Re: Sexual expoloitation of young asian women

    :salams

    disgusting. May ALLAH do justice to the sisters. Ameen.

    One advice: stop being naive, "I love him, we'll walk in the sunset" bla bla. Don't marry drug addicts or womanisers.

    such men rarely have any fear of Allah SWT, nor do they have gheerah
    Last edited by Serinity; 07-05-16, 04:10 PM.
    La ilaha illallahu, wahdahu la sharika lahu, lahul-mulku wa lahul-hamdu, wa Huwa 'ala kulli sha'in Qadir
    (there is no true god except Allah. He is One and He has no partner with Him; His is the sovereignty and His is the praise, and He is Omnipotent),'
    Do not say about Allah but Truth.

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    • #3
      Re: Sexual expoloitation of young asian women

      But sis
      If you read some of the reports you will realise that these girls are duped in different ways

      The perpetrators are not always so obv
      Ibnul Qayyim رحمه الله said: "Donít ruin your happiness with worry, and donít ruin your mind with pessimism. Donít ruin your success with deception and donít ruin the optimism of others by destroying it. Donít ruin your day by looking back at yesterday.
      __________________________________________________ _____________________________
      If you think about your situation, you will find that Allaah (سبحانه وتعالى) has given you things without asking, so have trust in Allaah (سبحانه وتعالى) that He doesnít prevent anything you want except there is goodness for you.

      You could be sleeping and the doors of the heavens are being opened with duaías being made on your behalf, SubhanAllaah: perhaps from someone poor whom you helped, or someone sad whom you brought joy, or someone passing by and you smiled at him, or someone in distress and you removed it.. so donít ever underestimate any good deeds."



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      • #4
        Re: Sexual expoloitation of young asian women

        Any recommendations put forward in the report?

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        • #5
          Re: Sexual expoloitation of young asian women

          Astaghfirullah

          These boys/men should be castrated with meat cleavers. Blunt meat cleavers.

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          • #6
            Re: Sexual expoloitation of young asian women

            maybe dailymail, EDL and britain first have a point after all?
            what an embarrassment to the community

            no ones looking out for no one in this world these girls need to stop falling for every pervert on the corner
            most of the time they don't get enough affection/attention at home, they can't talk to parents about their feelings without creating a big drama, they don't really understand islam except a cultural version of it add in to that desires and low self esteem and you have girls falling for the first tramp who buys them flowers and says "i love you".

            back in the day i used to see these asian guys in shops trying to flirt with the school/college girls lol. disgusting
            شَكَوْتُ إلَى وَكِيعٍ سُوءَ حِفْظِي
            فَأرْشَدَنِي إلَى تَرْكِ المعَاصي
            وَأخْبَرَنِي بأَنَّ العِلْمَ نُورٌ
            ونورُ الله لا يهدى لعاصي

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            • #7
              Re: Sexual expoloitation of young asian women

              Originally posted by Rumaysah~ View Post
              maybe dailymail, EDL and britain first have a point after all?
              what an embarrassment to the community

              no ones looking out for no one in this world these girls need to stop falling for every pervert on the corner
              most of the time they don't get enough affection/attention at home, they can't talk to parents about their feelings without creating a big drama, they don't really understand islam except a cultural version of it add in to that desires and low self esteem and you have girls falling for the first tramp who buys them flowers and says "i love you".

              back in the day i used to see these asian guys in shops trying to flirt with the school/college girls lol. disgusting
              And that's what it is - lack of attention and love at home 'sometimes'

              And yet one of the case studies was a Pakistani woman from. Back home being pimped out by her brother in law astaghfirullaha

              Someone tell me what is going on through the minds of these sick people. How do they do these things and then go back home to their own wife's , daughters, mothers. Is it really about money and drugs or is there some other sick disease

              Some of the men had thobes and beards. Disgusting
              Ibnul Qayyim رحمه الله said: "Donít ruin your happiness with worry, and donít ruin your mind with pessimism. Donít ruin your success with deception and donít ruin the optimism of others by destroying it. Donít ruin your day by looking back at yesterday.
              __________________________________________________ _____________________________
              If you think about your situation, you will find that Allaah (سبحانه وتعالى) has given you things without asking, so have trust in Allaah (سبحانه وتعالى) that He doesnít prevent anything you want except there is goodness for you.

              You could be sleeping and the doors of the heavens are being opened with duaías being made on your behalf, SubhanAllaah: perhaps from someone poor whom you helped, or someone sad whom you brought joy, or someone passing by and you smiled at him, or someone in distress and you removed it.. so donít ever underestimate any good deeds."



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              • #8
                Re: Sexual expoloitation of young asian women

                Originally posted by Abu 'Abdullaah View Post
                Any recommendations put forward in the report?

                The usual- culturally sensitive services, awareness raising, training,
                Ibnul Qayyim رحمه الله said: "Donít ruin your happiness with worry, and donít ruin your mind with pessimism. Donít ruin your success with deception and donít ruin the optimism of others by destroying it. Donít ruin your day by looking back at yesterday.
                __________________________________________________ _____________________________
                If you think about your situation, you will find that Allaah (سبحانه وتعالى) has given you things without asking, so have trust in Allaah (سبحانه وتعالى) that He doesnít prevent anything you want except there is goodness for you.

                You could be sleeping and the doors of the heavens are being opened with duaías being made on your behalf, SubhanAllaah: perhaps from someone poor whom you helped, or someone sad whom you brought joy, or someone passing by and you smiled at him, or someone in distress and you removed it.. so donít ever underestimate any good deeds."



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                • #9
                  Re: Sexual expoloitation of young asian women

                  Originally posted by Muslima London View Post
                  The usual- culturally sensitive services, awareness raising, training,
                  For who?

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                  • #10
                    Re: Sexual expoloitation of young asian women

                    Originally posted by Abu 'Abdullaah View Post
                    For who?
                    Good question

                    For the young girls
                    The community
                    Community leaders
                    Schools and other professionals who work with this age group- eg imagine a young Asian girl turning up at the gp with STd. GPs should act upon these things and make it a safeguarding issue

                    As for those filthy dirty perverts, nothing short of castration with a blunt knife will take away their illness. Allah protect all our daughters from that
                    Ibnul Qayyim رحمه الله said: "Donít ruin your happiness with worry, and donít ruin your mind with pessimism. Donít ruin your success with deception and donít ruin the optimism of others by destroying it. Donít ruin your day by looking back at yesterday.
                    __________________________________________________ _____________________________
                    If you think about your situation, you will find that Allaah (سبحانه وتعالى) has given you things without asking, so have trust in Allaah (سبحانه وتعالى) that He doesnít prevent anything you want except there is goodness for you.

                    You could be sleeping and the doors of the heavens are being opened with duaías being made on your behalf, SubhanAllaah: perhaps from someone poor whom you helped, or someone sad whom you brought joy, or someone passing by and you smiled at him, or someone in distress and you removed it.. so donít ever underestimate any good deeds."



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                    • #11
                      Re: Sexual expoloitation of young asian women

                      Originally posted by Muslima London View Post
                      And that's what it is - lack of attention and love at home 'sometimes'

                      And yet one of the case studies was a Pakistani woman from. Back home being pimped out by her brother in law astaghfirullaha

                      Someone tell me what is going on through the minds of these sick people. How do they do these things and then go back home to their own wife's , daughters, mothers. Is it really about money and drugs or is there some other sick disease

                      Some of the men had thobes and beards. Disgusting
                      thobes and beards, hijabs and niqabs don't say anything about people these days subhanAllah

                      simply, they've been sinning for so long they're hearts are black and dead. mercy and shame go out the window
                      that's why it's so dangerous to persist in sins because after a while you see nothing wrong with it
                      شَكَوْتُ إلَى وَكِيعٍ سُوءَ حِفْظِي
                      فَأرْشَدَنِي إلَى تَرْكِ المعَاصي
                      وَأخْبَرَنِي بأَنَّ العِلْمَ نُورٌ
                      ونورُ الله لا يهدى لعاصي

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                      • #12
                        Re: Sexual expoloitation of young asian women

                        Maybe it's the cynic in me, but I cannot help but feel that this study was politically motivated.

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                        • #13
                          Re: Sexual expoloitation of young asian women

                          Originally posted by Abu 'Abdullaah View Post
                          Maybe it's the cynic in me, but I cannot help but feel that this study was politically motivated.
                          whatever the motivations - the fact remains, THESE THINGS ARE HAPENNING WITHIN OUR COMMUNITY AND OUR DAUGHTERS ARE BEING VIOLATED

                          Imagine - the man from back home who gave his daugther in marriage to someone here, and she ended up pimped out. Does he care what the motivations of this report is??

                          or the man wh o passed away leaving 4 daughters, and each of them got involved with men whe exploited them. Does he care???

                          i doubt very m uch these case studies are made up. Come on brother. You are a worldly man and certainly not a youngster, and you have young children. This should concern you more then others
                          Last edited by Muslima London; 07-05-16, 05:58 PM.
                          Ibnul Qayyim رحمه الله said: "Donít ruin your happiness with worry, and donít ruin your mind with pessimism. Donít ruin your success with deception and donít ruin the optimism of others by destroying it. Donít ruin your day by looking back at yesterday.
                          __________________________________________________ _____________________________
                          If you think about your situation, you will find that Allaah (سبحانه وتعالى) has given you things without asking, so have trust in Allaah (سبحانه وتعالى) that He doesnít prevent anything you want except there is goodness for you.

                          You could be sleeping and the doors of the heavens are being opened with duaías being made on your behalf, SubhanAllaah: perhaps from someone poor whom you helped, or someone sad whom you brought joy, or someone passing by and you smiled at him, or someone in distress and you removed it.. so donít ever underestimate any good deeds."



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                          • #14
                            Re: Sexual expoloitation of young asian women

                            Originally posted by Muslima London View Post
                            whatever the motivations - the fact remains, THESE THINGS ARE HAPENNING WITHIN OUR COMMUNITY AND OUR DAUGHTERS ARE BEING VIOLATED
                            Our community i.e. Muslims should not put young women in such a vulnerable position. The first and foremost precaution for safeguarding is to not allow them to go out unaccompanied. That alone beats any pretentious 'awareness' training.

                            I wonder what the MWNUK would say to that suggestion.

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                            • #15
                              Re: Sexual expoloitation of young asian women

                              Originally posted by Abu 'Abdullaah View Post
                              Our community i.e. Muslims should not put young women in such a vulnerable position. The first and foremost precaution for safeguarding is to not allow them to go out unaccompanied. That alone beats any pretentious 'awareness' training.

                              I wonder what the MWNUK would say to that suggestion.
                              13 year old girls need to go to school

                              9 year old girls should not be touched up by filthy pervy uncles who need certian bits chopped off, and they should not be raped in the comfort of their own homes by filthy men.

                              It seems some women don't even need to be out and about for evil to come to their doors

                              The kind of recommendations that I have for these men are not the type to end up in a report. Trust me
                              Ibnul Qayyim رحمه الله said: "Donít ruin your happiness with worry, and donít ruin your mind with pessimism. Donít ruin your success with deception and donít ruin the optimism of others by destroying it. Donít ruin your day by looking back at yesterday.
                              __________________________________________________ _____________________________
                              If you think about your situation, you will find that Allaah (سبحانه وتعالى) has given you things without asking, so have trust in Allaah (سبحانه وتعالى) that He doesnít prevent anything you want except there is goodness for you.

                              You could be sleeping and the doors of the heavens are being opened with duaías being made on your behalf, SubhanAllaah: perhaps from someone poor whom you helped, or someone sad whom you brought joy, or someone passing by and you smiled at him, or someone in distress and you removed it.. so donít ever underestimate any good deeds."



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