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  • I have an masturbation addiction, I need help.

    Asalamwaulykum Brothers and Sisters,

    I am the age of 14 currently and I have been Masturbating to pornography at the age of 13. At first I kept feeling guilt when I kept committing the sin but now I don't even feel any feeling after done! I HATE this addiction so much and it is so hard to overcome. Whenever I start having sexual thoughts, my hormones start to act up and I cannot resist it. I asked for forgiveness to Allah (swt) but it doesn't help. I searched up on how to stop this but no use. I don't want anyone to find out I have been doing this so would anyone help?!

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    Re: I have an masturbation addiction, I need help.

    Wa Alaykumussalam
    BUMP - Insha ' Allah people can give u advice on this
    I guess a lot of people must struggle with this.
    Remember to make Du'aa, fast, lower your gaze, wear loose clothing, get out of the room when you feel like this, go downstairs where your family are, use blocking on your laptop/phone, also don't listen to music, watch films etc, these are haram, plus they make it worse, i'm guessing.
    Also, the search button in the top right will come in handy, because there are lots of threads on similar topics, so more advice there.
    And with Him are the keys of the Ghayb (all that is hidden), none knows them but He. And He knows whatever there is in the land and in the sea; not a leaf falls, but He knows it. There is not a grain in the darkness of the earth nor anything fresh or dry, but is written in a Clear Record”
    [al-An’aam 6:59]


    • #3
      Re: I have an masturbation addiction, I need help.


      I did a quick google search and alhamdulilah there's lots of practical tips and advice around. I briefly read through this one and it seems to be helpful so have a look:


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        Re: I have an masturbation addiction, I need help.


        Insha'Allah these links will be useful;

        Stay strong in your imaan, brother. May Allah keep us firm on the deen and protect us from the shaytan, ameen.
        "Let the days do as they please, and be optimistic when destiny decrees. Do not despair due to the events of the past, for the events of this world were not meant to last." - Imam Shafi'i


        • #5
          Re: I have an masturbation addiction, I need help.

          To stop it fully takes your commitment of wanting to stop, to actually stop. Nothing can help you stop but yourself, and by staying away from anything that would trigger the thought of masturbation to you would definitely help you achieve your goal: throw away your pornos, pics, and stay away from movies with sex. It takes full concentration and self reliance to stop, nothing else can help you. Just stay committed!

          Good luck!
          "Don't be too perfect; no one will want to talk to you. Maintain a flaw or two to keep yourself approachable." -My guide to being amazing


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            Re: I have an masturbation addiction, I need help.


            You have to avoid the trigger. There is a trigger, something that leads you to commit these sins, and you need to do everything not go near this trigger. It could be watching TV and seeing a woman or listening to music or talking about these things, etc.
            Secure few moments, everyday, to reflect upon the innumerable blessings of Allah and thank Him for bestowing them upon you.

            "A person who is blessed with the ability to be grateful, shall never be deprived of barakah and increase in blessings."
            - Rasulullah (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم)‎


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              Re: I have an masturbation addiction, I need help.

              Walaikumassalam brother,

              It may take you time to get over this, since it is an "addiction" as you say, and addictions are rarely broken overnight.

              Summon up your willpower, and read the resources mentioned in the above posts.

              Set yourself manageable targets to begin with i.e going clean for 3 days, one week etc and then start extending the time period. If you slip up, dont kill yourself with guilt - just start again,

              All these things are possible to stop, in sha Allah, with a dose of willpower, self control and continuous dua.


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                Re: I have an masturbation addiction, I need help.

                You can do it overnight(inshallah) try to gain as much taqwa as you can by memorising quran and learn tafseer try from alfatiha then albaqarah. If you actually wanna do something about it you'd LISTEN to this advice and ik how off-putting this may be but trust me its mainly shaytan tryna take you away from allah but inshallah your dedication and hardwork shall pay off.

                Remember imam mahdi is supposed to change overnight so why not you a small habit
                [SIZE=3][FONT=Times New Roman][B][U][CENTER]Oh Allah, in your name, I die and live.[/CENTER][/U][/B][/FONT][/SIZE]

                [B][CENTER]Ya Allah, Grant Me A Heart That Sees[/CENTER][/B]