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  • neelu
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    Re: My desires is beginning to frustrate me - make me angry...

    I find this problem very frustrating too- it's not just a guy thing. I think you should try and fast a couple of times a week anyway, even if it's just on weekends if you want to not fast on study days. Perhaps that'll help... at least until you find the means to marry. how comes none of the guys are responding?

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  • Creamcake
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    brothers only section, if you don't have access, pm abu musab or one of the brothers

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  • Fragile
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    Erm... Maybe a warning with brother's only sign in clear red would be great.. Cause trust me I did not need to read that :/

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  • LailaTheMuslim
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    Re: My desires is beginning to frustrate me - make me angry...

    Originally posted by Serinity View Post
    My desires frustrates me - to put it mild.

    My desires, I just hate them. If I could make a wish right now, it would be to rid myself of desire, cuz it is like a thorn on my path. And with all the other things provoking my desires, I just hate it...
    I can't get married, fasting? I am in college, my brain needs to be in top gear.
    I can't be bothered doing ghusl almost every single day, and with the OCD I have, it just adds to the burden.

    Even youtube now has become a filthy website... Every screenshot is aiming at fueling or provoking our desires... And with my OCD, ohhh... It is like being imprisoned.

    I guess I am too aware of my desires, cuz when I get the sensation almost, of you know... I checked, etc. Call of nature, and couldn't tell from the liquid / fluid... So I just did Wudhu and prayed... Cuz too many ghusls... Too many doubts.. It goes to a point where it seems like madness..

    Now I feel like I've done major sins, cuz just by you know what sensation, I feel like I am in major impurity, but I can't see anything, cuz, can't tell from the two liquids. You know..
    If I can't tell, isn't it just fine to just pass water over it, do wudhu and pray??? If I keep heeding this sensation and this unidentifiable - and by its texture - more like the "call of nature" rather than otherwise... I'll be a "batholic"

    Am I doomed for praying in this case?
    do u have access to the brothers section? or just contact abu-musab, maybe u can get a ruling for the OCD and wudu/ghusl.

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  • Serinity
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    Originally posted by Fragile View Post
    What?...

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  • My desires is beginning to frustrate me - make me angry...

    I guess...
    Last edited by Serinity; 08-09-15, 07:51 PM.
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