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    What are some of the best ways to stop thinking about someone??

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    Re: stopping thinking about someone

    You gotta get busy bro. Don't let her infiltrate your mind.
    They say good things come to those who wait, so imma be at least an hour late

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    • #3
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      I had you down as an expert in not thinking.

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      • #4
        Re: stopping thinking about someone

        Originally posted by ibzy View Post
        You gotta get busy bro. Don't let her infiltrate your mind.
        Yes but at times when one is not busy, how can he stop those thoughts from coming? They're interfering with dhikr of Allah.. Unfortunately

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          Re: stopping thinking about someone

          Originally posted by Abu 'Abdullaah View Post
          I had you down as an expert in not thinking.
          Wait what

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          • #6
            stopping thinking about someone

            Detach your heart from the creation and attach it only to Allah.

            Is the only way you can truly get over someone and move on in your life.
            ⚔ Even in death may you be triumphant ⚔
            U.F Sadaqah Jariyah Project

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            • #7
              Re: stopping thinking about someone

              Originally posted by abcdefghij View Post
              What are some of the best ways to stop thinking about someone??
              Is that someone thinking about you?

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              • #8
                Re: stopping thinking about someone

                Originally posted by zi-zizou View Post
                Is that someone thinking about you?
                No idea.. Both yes or no

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                • #9
                  Re: stopping thinking about someone

                  Originally posted by Meriadoc View Post
                  Detach your heart from the creation and attach it only to Allah.

                  Is the only way you can truly get over someone and move on in your life.
                  How..

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                  • #10
                    Re: stopping thinking about someone

                    Originally posted by abcdefghij View Post
                    No idea.. Both yes or no
                    I'll take that as a no. Once you realise you get no benefit from this thinking, you'll move off it yourself. Plenty of thinking to do elsewhere.

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                    • #11
                      Re: stopping thinking about someone

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                      Last edited by 1412; 17-09-15, 03:34 PM.

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                      • #12
                        Re: stopping thinking about someone

                        Just try not to think about her. Make du'aa for this. Keep yourself busy with other things. Obviously the mind still wanders are there will be times that you can't help remembering her. That's a fact. But wounds take time to heal. Not overnight. Yeah you'll be upset at first and miss her. But as time passes you keep making du'aa, distract yourself, remember she is not for you. The pain will decrease. Eventually it will probably go. And she'll become a distant memory. Won't happen overnight so be patient. Oh and another thing. Rid anything that reminds you of het/connects you to her. Pics numbers gifts etc. Dispose of them. And remember that insha allah you will find someone better.

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                        • #13
                          Re: stopping thinking about someone

                          Originally posted by abcdefghij View Post
                          What are some of the best ways to stop thinking about someone??
                          Read Quran, pray regularly, give your free time to maybe even reading Quran's translation, best way to spend time! If you do think about that somebody, try to think about why that somebody is gone and only the bad times, really, but mostly just go for the Quran Majid. Go to masjid more. Socialize and spend more time with friends, as much as possible.

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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by abcdefghij View Post

                            How..
                            Develop a relationship with Allah by getting to know Him through the Qur'an in a language you can understand. Sit with a tafsir so you can truly appreciate everything that's being conveyed.

                            Do the night prayers and make du'aa that He who is Ar-Rahman, Ar-Raheem, detaches your heart from this dunya and replaces it with the love and attachment for Him Alone.

                            Hold the dunya in your hand rather than in your heart. If you have something in your hand, it's easier to let go. You'll feel pain but it'll be shortlived and not the heavy pain after something has been metaphorically ripped from you inside.

                            People come and go, in hindsight you'll be able to :insha: take lessons away from this.
                            Finally don't communicate with person at all, don't stalk them online, don't 'check up on them'- just delete them from your life and ask Allah to grant you khair and protect you in all things.

                            The process of moving on is hard but acceptance is a major step in regaining your well being. Ask Allah to provide you this too.
                            ⚔ Even in death may you be triumphant ⚔
                            U.F Sadaqah Jariyah Project

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                            • #15
                              Re: stopping thinking about someone

                              Ask allah for that, make a decision (istakhra) and it will help u asap.
                              if u want realiable ways i'd suggest to delete every contact (facebook etc etc) and start thinkin to find someone to marry instead.

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