Allah SWT promised me Hoors in heaven right?

[Abdell]

because right now I have the option to call any of 4 special friends and commit Zina..I'm literally crying right now. Like really crying...No spouse, and right now I'm at the edge..

I just want a release and I have the options to do so...But I know that's a SIN.

So I'm super distressed right now..Everyday I have the option to commit Zina, but I dont...and I won't.

But having the ability to commit Zina easily isn't helping...It's like the lady is in front of me and ready to do anything I want everyday, but I have to control Myself.

Wallahi, if no for the 5 daily prayers and Ramadan, I probably would have done it already...

I wanna talk to someone to calm my nerves

[Serinity]

[Abdell]

Re: Allah SWT promised me Hoors in heaven right?

I have so far beat shaytan in terms of committing zina, but now he's focused his attention on " it's ok they are just friends" I've been thinking of deleting them for a while now but my physical needs just is too strong..but at the same time, I don't want to commit zina..I'm in between and that's probably the hardest thing.

[HealerofWorlds]

Re: Allah SWT promised me Hoors in heaven right?

Lol.
He only promised the righteous people that they'll have whatever they want in Jannah. So if you want to be righteous and are desperate to have your 'hoor'/companion in Jannah, then stay away from haraam.

[Sky Lark]

Re: Allah SWT promised me Hoors in heaven right?

I know, its not easy.. the harder you try not to fall the greater the rewards, dont give in.

Thats true that your salah and fasting is helping you to keep on track.

[Serinity]

Re: Allah SWT promised me Hoors in heaven right?

I have so far beat shaytan in terms of committing zina, but now he's focused his attention on " it's ok they are just friends" I've been thinking of deleting them for a while now but my physical needs just is too strong..but at the same time, I don't want to commit zina..I'm in between and that's probably the hardest thing.

It is not okay, a sin is a sin no matter what situation you're in. Don't fall for that. Remember, just as Sky Lark said, the more difficult it gets the higher the reward - and think like this the more difficult it gets the closer you're to victory.

Can anyone define righteous? Ps. is the righteous promised hoors/companions? hmm...

Ps. I just realised a while ago, that I've OCD. Which makes doing wudhu, and ghusl a lot more difficult. I get anxious at the thought of it not being accepted. I just want to read Quran, and I know that Shaytaan the accursed uses these dirty tactics in order for me to give up.

[*sheba*]

Re: Allah SWT promised me Hoors in heaven right?

You shouldnt have any girls, special or not. Get rid of them/their numbers. Someone that wants to abstain from zina should follow Allah's commands and *not come near to it* simply avoiding it, is good, but cutting out all things that lead to it, big or small, is even better.

If I decide to go on a diet. I get rid of the junk food before i start to diet, so I don't cave in and eat it one day in a moment of weakness. It's common sense. Not saying girls are like food, lol, but you get me, temptation is temptation and resistance requires will power and planning ahead.

[Mikha’eel]

Re: Allah SWT promised me Hoors in heaven right?

what is stopping u from marriage?

[Abdell]

Re: Allah SWT promised me Hoors in heaven right?

what is stopping u from marriage?

My old folks need help with money so I can't just go..so it's money. otherwise, I would have been married already.