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  • #16
    Re: Drugs and Isolation

    Originally posted by Fragile View Post
    Salaam...

    I'm seeking advice about a brother who seems to be taking weed
    I think you get several type of weed smokers.

    1. Those that have their life together, might be professionals etc, and only smoke like once a week maybe or on special occasions. They tend to be like middle aged. They have it under control.
    2. People who smoke weed on a daily basis and they'll do anything to get it. They might be young and NEET. NEET is someone who is not in education, employment or training. Basically doing nothing even though they are not ill or anything. This kind of person might smoke first thing in the morning before they've even brushed their teeth. This person has a a drug problem. They might be depressed. The weed sort of lies to them. Keeps them stuck in their situation. These kind of people need to stop all together as they don't have it under control. The weed helps them cope but the high only lasts so long so they need to find another way to cope...
    3. Other cannabis smokers who don't fall under 1 or 2.

    Important note about this is that long term use has been linked to Schizophrenia which is a MENTAL ILLNESS.

    Also, it is illegal in the UK >> Class B. The popo are not that strict on it but if they catch you with a small amount a couple of times, I think you can get arrested.


    and inhaling some form of drug through a glass bottle..
    Don't know what drug that is. Maybe FRANK can help.

    http://www.talktofrank.com

    He is also beyond addiction to zina on the Internet
    You mean porn? He needs a woman.
    drinks alcohol
    Would you say he's an alcoholic? If he is, would he be willing to get professional help?
    seems to hide away from Islamic related incidents
    Wouldn't be surprising after all the above..
    stays in his room all day
    He needs to be doing something with himself.
    and goes out clubbing all night
    I'm guessing he goes for the women. I don't think men go for any other reason. He obviously needs to get married but he's in no fit state.
    answers back
    To whom?

    and got his ear pierced..
    This is minor compared to all the above. If he sorts himself out, he can simply take the earring out.
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    • #17
      Re: Drugs and Isolation

      Originally posted by Superwoman View Post
      lol it's a bong, and weed is a recreational drug, when you say addicted do you mean he can't live without it or something? because I've never heard of that. If he's an alcoholic try and get him to attend AA meetings
      Bong? Is that the glass thing? HAHAHAH. Weed can be a problem for some people. If you just sit around smoking weed all day, it's a problem.
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      • #18
        Re: Drugs and Isolation

        Originally posted by HopefulOne View Post
        I think you get several type of weed smokers.

        1. Those that have their life together, might be professionals etc, and only smoke like once a week maybe or on special occasions. They tend to be like middle aged. They have it under control.
        2. People who smoke weed on a daily basis and they'll do anything to get it. They might be young and NEET. NEET is someone who is not in education, employment or training. Basically doing nothing even though they are not ill or anything. This kind of person might smoke first thing in the morning before they've even brushed their teeth. This person has a a drug problem. They might be depressed. The weed sort of lies to them. Keeps them stuck in their situation. These kind of people need to stop all together as they don't have it under control. The weed helps them cope but the high only lasts so long so they need to find another way to cope...
        3. Other cannabis smokers who don't fall under 1 or 2.

        Important note about this is that long term use has been linked to Schizophrenia which is a MENTAL ILLNESS.

        Also, it is illegal in the UK >> Class B. The popo are not that strict on it but if they catch you with a small amount a couple of times, I think you can get arrested.



        Don't know what drug that is. Maybe FRANK can help.

        http://www.talktofrank.com


        You mean porn? He needs a woman.

        Would you say he's an alcoholic? If he is, would he be willing to get professional help?

        Wouldn't be surprising after all the above..

        He needs to be doing something with himself.

        I'm guessing he goes for the women. I don't think men go for any other reason. He obviously needs to get married but he's in no fit state.


        To whom?



        This is minor compared to all the above. If he sorts himself out, he can simply take the earring out.

        Salaam and thank u for that...u took time and effort to reply...I really appreciate it sis.. Xx he answers back to all.. Maybe a shique can help.. Make duaa for him inshallah
        I love you, cherish you and worship you,
        Guide me on your path to your janna,
        Unite me beside you My King and all mighty,


        :love:Allah:love:

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        • #19
          Re: Drugs and Isolation

          I feel for you sis.

          trying to help a person who doesn't want your help just sucks :(
          Ya Rab! When you give me wealth, do not take away my happiness. When you give me strength, do not take away my intelligence. When you give me victory, do not take away my humility. When you give me humility, do not take away my dignity.

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          • #20
            Re: Drugs and Isolation

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            Last edited by wifeseeker; 18-02-15, 12:24 AM. Reason: old

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            • #21
              Re: Drugs and Isolation

              Originally posted by Fragile View Post
              Salaam and thank u for that...u took time and effort to reply...I really appreciate it sis.. Xx he answers back to all.. Maybe a shique can help.. Make duaa for him inshallah
              Its cool sis. I like giving advice. :)

              and okay about the dua inshaallah.
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              • #22
                Re: Drugs and Isolation

                Originally posted by wifeseeker View Post
                Wasalaam.

                Sounds like this guy is certainly struggling with something in his life but instead of turning to Allah, he has turned to vice.
                This suggests he had a serious issue with his Iman before he began to struggle with whatever he is struggling with.
                Whatever it is, he is running away from the problem by seeking out vice.
                He needs to face his problems.
                Drugs etc are a cop out and won't resolve anything.
                He's just harming himself.
                Tell him to speak to a guy about his problems, preferably a counsellor/community support/or AA type of person and get him to seek out real solutions instead of prolonging the inevitable because those close to him are suffering due to it.
                If all else fails, tell his parents ie the longer this thing is kept secret, the more chronic it becomes till there will come a stage he will be seriously addicted and unable to stop.
                Salaam... Thank u brother. Everything u said is valid and important but I can't tell his parents... I'm no grass or one to inflict pain on others. They will realise sooner or later.. This role his taken is new to us.. New to him..... His maybe confused and angry but this is not the way... istaqfurallah
                I'm sincerely ashamed...I'm religious for heavens sake,, abaya and the lot. Next will be niqab and his doing this. How could he.. I'm so angry with him. Sorry for ranting
                I love you, cherish you and worship you,
                Guide me on your path to your janna,
                Unite me beside you My King and all mighty,


                :love:Allah:love:

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                • #23
                  Re: Drugs and Isolation

                  Originally posted by -qed- View Post
                  I feel for you sis.

                  trying to help a person who doesn't want your help just sucks :(
                  Thank u sis... Means a lot. Xx
                  I love you, cherish you and worship you,
                  Guide me on your path to your janna,
                  Unite me beside you My King and all mighty,


                  :love:Allah:love:

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                  • #24
                    Re: Drugs and Isolation

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                    Last edited by wifeseeker; 18-02-15, 12:24 AM. Reason: old

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                    • #25
                      Re: Drugs and Isolation

                      Originally posted by wifeseeker View Post
                      Wasalaam.

                      Sounds like this guy is certainly struggling with something in his life but instead of turning to Allah, he has turned to vice.
                      This suggests he had a serious issue with his Iman before he began to struggle with whatever he is struggling with.
                      Whatever it is, he is running away from the problem by seeking out vice.
                      He needs to face his problems.
                      Drugs etc are a cop out and won't resolve anything.
                      He's just harming himself.
                      Tell him to speak to a guy about his problems, preferably a counsellor/community support/or AA type of person and get him to seek out real solutions instead of prolonging the inevitable because those close to him are suffering due to it.
                      If all else fails, tell his parents ie the longer this thing is kept secret, the more chronic it becomes till there will come a stage he will be seriously addicted and unable to stop.

                      This

                      Our hearts need to be filled with the love for Allah..if it isn't you'll feel an emptiness which people fill with other worldly matters..maybe there are practicing brothers who can talk to him ?
                      don' give up hope..if he has khair in his heart Allah will guide him inshaAllah sooner or later,
                      Allah is towards you as you are towards Him and His servants."
                      [Imam Ibn al Qayyim Al-Jawziyyah RahimahuAllah]

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