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  • New Generation, Will you follow Culture/traditions?

    :salams

    From posts, i have realized some of the new generations/youngsters being troubled by culture/tradition practices, when wanting to do something contrary to culture expectations. Especially since some culture/traditions is practiced by parents and hence they feel bad to go against their wishes.

    Question to those

    When you become parents will you follow the culture, that once made your life harder, with your own children?

    P.s i am not talking about all cultures/traditions, just those that unnecessary makes supposedly easy decisions, hard.
    P.s.s i am not talking about culture that goes against Islam

    The reason i ask this question is because such cultures have been passed on for so long, so will you follow that cycle or will you not?

    Give examples if you wish.
    Bye...

  • #2
    Re: New Generation, Will you follow Culture/traditions?

    :wswrwb:

    Am I new generation?

    If you hate something so much and it's imposed on you, the moment you get a chance you'd run far from it. Why make things harder for your own children? Different approach for different ppl based on experience etc etc.

    But if they don't wish to break the bad and they don't challenge it now then I bet you it's gonna stay the same as it has.

    لا تفكر كثيرا
    بل استغفر كثيرا

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    • #3
      Re: New Generation, Will you follow Culture/traditions?

      :wswrwb:

      'Course not. Easy.
      Secure few moments, everyday, to reflect upon the innumerable blessings of Allah and thank Him for bestowing them upon you.

      "A person who is blessed with the ability to be grateful, shall never be deprived of barakah and increase in blessings."
      - Rasulullah (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم)‎

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      • #4
        Re: New Generation, Will you follow Culture/traditions?

        Then if people are saying no.

        Why has it took so long for us to realise it?

        I remember watching a documentary about widows and the way they are behaved, and it is clear they are deserted and hurt. But no one says no about the issue. No one stops the cycle.

        We can say no, but would we actually act on our words?
        Bye...

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        • #5
          Re: New Generation, Will you follow Culture/traditions?

          :wswrwb:

          Language and cuisine i would like to keep course other than that your 'Ps and Pss' has left no choice

          But there are certain customs/traditions we have which have no basis in deen but same time I would like to carry on :insha: so long as it dont contradicts shariah :)

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          Allahumma anta Rabbi la ilaha illa anta Khalaqtani wa ana'abduka, wa ana 'ala 'ahdika wa Wa'dika mastata'tu A'uidhubika min sharri ma sana'tu.' abu'u Laka bi ni 'matika wa'ala abu'u bidhanbi; faghfirli fa'innahu la yaghfiru-dh-dhunuba illa anta.
          O Allah, You are my Lord, none has the right to be worshipped except You, You created me and I am Your servant and I abide to Your covenant and promise as best I can, I take refuge in You from the evil of which I have committed. I acknowledge Your favour upon me and I acknowledgemy sin, so forgive me, for verilynone can forgive sin except You.



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          • #6
            Re: New Generation, Will you follow Culture/traditions?

            Originally posted by Maghrebia00 View Post
            Then if people are saying no.

            Why has it took so long for us to realise it?

            I remember watching a documentary about widows and the way they are behaved, and it is clear they are deserted and hurt. But no one says no about the issue. No one stops the cycle.

            We can say no, but would we actually act on our words?
            That's the thing. The walkin the walk. It's fear and in some ways cowardice imso.

            لا تفكر كثيرا
            بل استغفر كثيرا

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            • #7
              Re: New Generation, Will you follow Culture/traditions?

              A lot of men and women are ready to marry widows/divorcess and a lot of them don't see them any lesser.

              It might be that single, never married, people prefer to marry someone who has not been married before.
              Secure few moments, everyday, to reflect upon the innumerable blessings of Allah and thank Him for bestowing them upon you.

              "A person who is blessed with the ability to be grateful, shall never be deprived of barakah and increase in blessings."
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              • #8
                Re: New Generation, Will you follow Culture/traditions?

                Originally posted by .mirror. View Post
                A lot of men and women are ready to marry widows/divorcess and a lot of them don't see them any lesser.

                It might be that single, never married, people prefer to marry someone who has not been married before.
                That is just one example... it is not the preference, it is the way society view them. It was a certain culture

                It is like a cycle, females will judge other females, then when they are widowed or divorced they will go through the hate and others will judge and etc...

                Though, that culture does kinda go against Islam, since you are not meant to judge.

                I was trying to look at cultures that doesn't go against Islam.
                Bye...

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                • #9
                  Re: New Generation, Will you follow Culture/traditions?

                  wouldnt rejection for divorcees and widows fall under 'Ps & Pss'? :scratch:

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                  Allahumma anta Rabbi la ilaha illa anta Khalaqtani wa ana'abduka, wa ana 'ala 'ahdika wa Wa'dika mastata'tu A'uidhubika min sharri ma sana'tu.' abu'u Laka bi ni 'matika wa'ala abu'u bidhanbi; faghfirli fa'innahu la yaghfiru-dh-dhunuba illa anta.
                  O Allah, You are my Lord, none has the right to be worshipped except You, You created me and I am Your servant and I abide to Your covenant and promise as best I can, I take refuge in You from the evil of which I have committed. I acknowledge Your favour upon me and I acknowledgemy sin, so forgive me, for verilynone can forgive sin except You.



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                  • #10
                    Re: New Generation, Will you follow Culture/traditions?

                    Originally posted by Ansaariyah View Post
                    wouldnt rejection for divorcees and widows fall under 'Ps & Pss'? :scratch:
                    Maybe...
                    Bye...

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                    • #11
                      Re: New Generation, Will you follow Culture/traditions?

                      Cultures that don't go against Islam would probably fall into things like food and clothing.
                      Secure few moments, everyday, to reflect upon the innumerable blessings of Allah and thank Him for bestowing them upon you.

                      "A person who is blessed with the ability to be grateful, shall never be deprived of barakah and increase in blessings."
                      - Rasulullah (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم)‎

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                      • #12
                        Re: New Generation, Will you follow Culture/traditions?

                        Originally posted by Maghrebia00 View Post
                        Maybe...
                        Surely islaam dont stigmatize widows and divorcees unlike other religions

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                        Allahumma anta Rabbi la ilaha illa anta Khalaqtani wa ana'abduka, wa ana 'ala 'ahdika wa Wa'dika mastata'tu A'uidhubika min sharri ma sana'tu.' abu'u Laka bi ni 'matika wa'ala abu'u bidhanbi; faghfirli fa'innahu la yaghfiru-dh-dhunuba illa anta.
                        O Allah, You are my Lord, none has the right to be worshipped except You, You created me and I am Your servant and I abide to Your covenant and promise as best I can, I take refuge in You from the evil of which I have committed. I acknowledge Your favour upon me and I acknowledgemy sin, so forgive me, for verilynone can forgive sin except You.



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                        • #13
                          Re: New Generation, Will you follow Culture/traditions?

                          Originally posted by .mirror. View Post
                          Cultures that don't go against Islam would probably fall into things like food and clothing.
                          it could be something like "feeling it is wrong for a female to propose..." (inspired by another thread)
                          a women not proposing is not islamically wrong and nor is women proposing

                          but culture can make it hard for you...
                          Bye...

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                          • #14
                            Re: New Generation, Will you follow Culture/traditions?

                            Yeah, that's just nonsensical. People say they'll lose their honor or something if the girl side proposes...
                            Secure few moments, everyday, to reflect upon the innumerable blessings of Allah and thank Him for bestowing them upon you.

                            "A person who is blessed with the ability to be grateful, shall never be deprived of barakah and increase in blessings."
                            - Rasulullah (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم)‎

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                            • #15
                              Re: New Generation, Will you follow Culture/traditions?

                              Originally posted by Maghrebia00 View Post
                              it could be something like "feeling it is wrong for a female to propose..." (inspired by another thread)
                              a women not proposing is not islamically wrong and nor is women proposing

                              but culture can make it hard for you...
                              sis that again isnt from our deen :alhumdull

                              ok here is one example 'girls get together before the wedding' idk if it has any basis in Islaam but i same time dont see nothing wrong in it?

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                              Allahumma anta Rabbi la ilaha illa anta Khalaqtani wa ana'abduka, wa ana 'ala 'ahdika wa Wa'dika mastata'tu A'uidhubika min sharri ma sana'tu.' abu'u Laka bi ni 'matika wa'ala abu'u bidhanbi; faghfirli fa'innahu la yaghfiru-dh-dhunuba illa anta.
                              O Allah, You are my Lord, none has the right to be worshipped except You, You created me and I am Your servant and I abide to Your covenant and promise as best I can, I take refuge in You from the evil of which I have committed. I acknowledge Your favour upon me and I acknowledgemy sin, so forgive me, for verilynone can forgive sin except You.



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