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  • Fairy
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    Re: Can Anyone Actually Stay Away From Fithan of Girls ?

    Originally posted by blanchoir View Post
    Look down when walking/travelling. there's a whole world your missing out on... flowers, ants, texture...
    what the hell are ants doing in the air?

    but yea dont look down cos ull bump into something, just look ahead but not focus on anything.

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  • Islam3333
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    Re: Can Anyone Actually Stay Away From Fithan of Girls ?

    Originally posted by blanchoir View Post
    Look down when walking/travelling. there's a whole world your missing out on... flowers, ants, texture...
    How does one lower their gaze and at the same time see where they're going?

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  • blanchoir
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    Look down when walking/travelling. there's a whole world your missing out on... flowers, ants, texture...

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  • Aliyah101
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    Originally posted by Fairy View Post
    I do feel bad for men, I never used to think about stuff like this

    but then some1 mentioned we dont have half naked men walking around us daily. n its true we dont

    whereas guys do n they are exposed to it so I get it must be tough

    but yea lower ur gaze, its on u .
    I know it's harder for them and maybe I don't understand how bad their desires are but they can't change what people wear or do in public.

    Some want to look wherever they want to and not see any fitnah which is impossible and instead of making the effort to lower their gaze they complain about it

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  • Fairy
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    Re: Can Anyone Actually Stay Away From Fithan of Girls ?

    Originally posted by Rebel101 View Post
    EW. Alhamdulillah for that. The last time I saw a naked man accidently (came running out of his house naked :O) I almost fainted.
    ^ hahaha like FRiends...ugly naked guy loooooooooool

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  • Rebel101
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    Re: Can Anyone Actually Stay Away From Fithan of Girls ?

    Originally posted by Fairy View Post
    I do feel bad for men, I never used to think about stuff like this

    but then some1 mentioned we dont have half naked men walking around us daily. n its true we dont

    whereas guys do n they are exposed to it so I get it must be tough

    but yea lower ur gaze, its on u .
    EW. Alhamdulillah for that. The last time I saw a naked man accidently (came running out of his house naked :O) I almost fainted.
    Last edited by Rebel101; 05-03-14, 11:48 PM.

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  • Fairy
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    Re: Can Anyone Actually Stay Away From Fithan of Girls ?

    Originally posted by Aliyah101 View Post
    I don't think it's as bad as some people make it seem.

    We are told to have self-discipline and the ability to control our desires and it is hard but if anyone can't get it under control then they should focus on learning self control rather than blaming everyone else because there is no much you can do about your surroundings sometimes.
    I do feel bad for men, I never used to think about stuff like this

    but then some1 mentioned we dont have half naked men walking around us daily. n its true we dont

    whereas guys do n they are exposed to it so I get it must be tough

    but yea lower ur gaze, its on u .

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  • Aliyah101
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    I don't think it's as bad as some people make it seem.

    We are told to have self-discipline and the ability to control our desires and it is hard but if anyone can't get it under control then they should focus on learning self control rather than blaming everyone else because there is no much you can do about your surroundings sometimes.

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  • Fairy
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    Originally posted by Hopetogoparadis View Post
    Assalam alakum

    I dont want anyone to overpraise himself here (for his own good...) but i would like to see/hear if anyone can really stay away from any fitnah that girls bring around us (whether its outside, or online...which might be worse sometimes...) you know.

    If you stay away from them outside, then you have this internet in your house. If you dont have it either, then i dont know, maybe your mind might be full of rubbish as well.

    So in short words, what would be some useful advices that you would give, which helps you to stay away from this big fitnah inshallah ?
    If you lived in a muslim country where women covered. it would be easier to lower your gaze

    and the internet, well that is up to you too.

    if u want to commit evil, u will do it even if u have no internet.

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  • Faith1
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    Re: Can Anyone Actually Stay Away From Fithan of Girls ?

    Originally posted by Badriya View Post
    Scary indeed if u only knew what we women have to go through with men and their hungry stares
    mhm lool

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  • Faith1
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    Originally posted by Talwaar View Post


    no joking matter ... there are stories of women ruining perfectly good brothers ...
    And vice versa. besides, people ruin themselves.

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  • Badriya
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    Originally posted by Ya'sin View Post
    lool

    it's frustrating that neither gender can understand each other, some men can feel like that- it's apart of their nature? I think

    it's serious and I don't want to offend anyone, I can't really help anyone either because my 'advice' is probably not so practical unfortunately. That is why it says in the Quran, women should cover up. In a hadith it says women are one of the biggest fitnah for men.

    whether we like it or not, it's an issue and we shouldn't take it as some joke, it really is serious for some people and I hope they find a solution.
    I understand that women are a fitnah to men but they have to understand men are also a fitnah to women it goes both ways... i just dont understand why men are so obessed with us loool kinda creepy they make threads about us all the time "why are women such a fitna" "Wife wont cook for me" "why women hate polygamy" blah blah blah

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  • Badriya
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    Originally posted by muslimboy764 View Post
    scary
    Scary indeed if u only knew what we women have to go through with men and their hungry stares

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  • muslimboy764
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    Originally posted by Badriya View Post
    Yes really men are thirsty creatures always looking at women like they are a piece of meat wanting to be intimate with them *shudders*
    scary

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  • Badriya
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    Originally posted by Ya'sin View Post
    lets just say both genders should lower their gaze and not fall into zinah (haram realthionships, even if it's just friendship, it's haram for a reason) and if it's proving difficult then look into marriage and learn about islam most importantly, because marriage itself is no easy walk in the park.
    Agreed :up:

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