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  • Re: Can Anyone Actually Stay Away From Fithan of Girls ?

    Originally posted by Islam3333 View Post
    How does one lower their gaze and at the same time see where they're going?
    Walk fast.
    “And whatever you have of favor - it is from Allah. Then when adversity touches you, to Him you cry for help”

    [an-Nahl 16:53].

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    • Re: Can Anyone Actually Stay Away From Fithan of Girls ?

      Originally posted by Islam3333 View Post
      It's difficult to see especially if you're tall because then you need to literally look at your feet to avoid any fitna

      I guess I need to memorise where I'm going :insha:

      may Allah SWT guide us
      I'm tall, I have no difficulty.. not sure why being tall though would be a problem lol.
      La illaha ilallah

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      • Re: Can Anyone Actually Stay Away From Fithan of Girls ?

        Originally posted by Rebel101 View Post
        Stop using common sense, Yasin. You killing the fun.

        People love to over complicate everything. -_____-

        I lower my gaze and manage to never bump into anything. Not like Allah told us to blindfold ourselves.
        lool, okay you have a point

        I know what you mean Rebel101

        BUT

        it's not easy for some when the 'danger' is there, well everywhere. On bus slogans, billboards, it's a distraction for some
        'Whatever it be wherein ye differ, the decision thereof is with Allah: such is Allah my Lord: In Him I trust, and to Him I turn.' The Holy Qu'ran Al Shura (Consultation)

        So, which of the favours of your lord will you deny? ~ Surah Ar Rahman

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        • Re: Can Anyone Actually Stay Away From Fithan of Girls ?

          Originally posted by Islam3333 View Post
          Well I don't think I should go into detail

          I'l leave it at that

          :jkk:
          Subhnallah I think I just understood :/ lol yeah you would have to look towards your feet.
          La illaha ilallah

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          • Re: Can Anyone Actually Stay Away From Fithan of Girls ?

            Originally posted by blanchoir View Post
            Look down when walking/travelling. there's a whole world your missing out on... flowers, ants, texture...
            Lols hilarious

            All I am hearing is excuses excuses!

            I am not saying don't look at where you're going but don't go around checking out girls.

            Also even though they don't wear hijab they are not that naked with the same exception of summer which you might have to learning more about the ground, ants and flowers.

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            • Re: Can Anyone Actually Stay Away From Fithan of Girls ?

              Originally posted by Aliyah101 View Post
              Lols hilarious

              All I am hearing is excuses excuses!

              I am not saying don't look at where you're going but don't go around checking out girls.

              Also even though they don't wear hijab they are not that naked with the same exception of summer which you might have to learning more about the ground, ants and flowers.
              Exactly, if you go seeking these things, you'll only be dealing with fitnah,

              If you have the intention to go to school, goto class, mind your own business, things are fine.

              The only issue I have ever faced was meeting women I use to know back in highschool,

              I remember one girl tried to hug me, I backed up and said "What in the world are you doing...", She laughed it off, Her muslim friend was with her, while her being a non-muslim, I told the muslim girl "You have no shame, you should have told her muslim men don't interact with women in that fashion"...

              They both walk away giggling :/

              The hug thing seems to be a way of saying hello, not a sign of affection in Canada, for anyone who thinks otherwise...
              La illaha ilallah

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              • Re: Can Anyone Actually Stay Away From Fithan of Girls ?

                Originally posted by Allah's_Servant View Post
                The eyes are not a fitna people need to watch what they say even if it's jokingly. All scholars agree the Mother of the Believers had one eye showing so if the eyes were fitna then they would have covered both and some scholars say that both eyes are fine to show.
                Sister, as far as I know, they had one eye open to see where they are going, not because they are not fitnah. Where did you read eyes are not fitnah?
                Secure few moments, everyday, to reflect upon the innumerable blessings of Allah and thank Him for bestowing them upon you.

                "A person who is blessed with the ability to be grateful, shall never be deprived of barakah and increase in blessings."
                - Rasulullah (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم)‎

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                • Re: Can Anyone Actually Stay Away From Fithan of Girls ?

                  ^^^^

                  Eyes are fitnah?

                  Does that mean we should be wearing burqa? Serious question.
                  Gone with the wind.

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                  • Re: Can Anyone Actually Stay Away From Fithan of Girls ?

                    I think the sister is confusing fitnah with awrah. Awrah means the part of the body which should be covered.

                    Fitnah can be things other than body, like the voice of a woman if it's soft and melodious, or her striking her heels when she walks, etc.
                    Secure few moments, everyday, to reflect upon the innumerable blessings of Allah and thank Him for bestowing them upon you.

                    "A person who is blessed with the ability to be grateful, shall never be deprived of barakah and increase in blessings."
                    - Rasulullah (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم)‎

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                    • Re: Can Anyone Actually Stay Away From Fithan of Girls ?

                      Originally posted by .mirror. View Post
                      I think the sister is confusing fitnah with awrah. Awrah means the part of the body which should be covered.

                      Fitnah can be things other than body, like the voice of a woman if it's soft and melodious, or her striking her heels when she walks, etc.
                      Okay so fitnah does not equal awrah which means eyes can be uncovered, right?

                      If so then why do some scholars insist that only one eye can be uncovered to see with and not 2 (which I find creppy but not about me)
                      Gone with the wind.

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                      • Re: Can Anyone Actually Stay Away From Fithan of Girls ?

                        Eyes can be uncovered for the necessity of seeing the way.

                        “...and not to show off their adornment except only that which is apparent (like both eyes for necessity to see the way, or outer palms of hands or one eye or dress like veil, gloves, headcover, apron), and to draw their veils all over Juyoobihinna ...'

                        http://islamqa.info/en/82994

                        Allahu a'alam.
                        Secure few moments, everyday, to reflect upon the innumerable blessings of Allah and thank Him for bestowing them upon you.

                        "A person who is blessed with the ability to be grateful, shall never be deprived of barakah and increase in blessings."
                        - Rasulullah (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم)‎

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                        • Re: Can Anyone Actually Stay Away From Fithan of Girls ?

                          Originally posted by .mirror. View Post
                          Eyes can be uncovered for the necessity of seeing the way.



                          http://islamqa.info/en/82994

                          Allahu a'alam.
                          ok. :jkk:
                          Gone with the wind.

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                          • Re: Can Anyone Actually Stay Away From Fithan of Girls ?

                            Just put on some blinkers like race horses, problem solved.

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                            • Re: Can Anyone Actually Stay Away From Fithan of Girls ?

                              its extremely difficult....especially when you are surrounded by pics of Cheryl Cole

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                              • Re: Can Anyone Actually Stay Away From Fithan of Girls ?

                                :salams

                                Well, for me, I find that most of the fitna comes from my own mind. Very, very rarely is there a case in which I'm forcibly confronted with inappropriate images/thoughts. In almost every case, the fitna [lust] is avoidable.

                                I won't pretend that I found a secret solution that's 100% effective, but what I know is that you must be conscious of Allah . You're less likely to look at a woman and lust if your mind is constantly focused on the greatness of God, Paradise and other righteous things. If your mind is wandering off, set on worldly passions, you're opening the door for lust to come in.
                                "Wert thou to follow the common run of those on earth, they will lead thee away from the way of Allah. They follow nothing but conjecture: they do nothing but lie." (surah 6:116)

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