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How do i stop being so judgemental???

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  • #46
    Re: How do i stop being so judgemental???

    Originally posted by Mockingjay View Post

    Sister, please read the book of Syaikh Muhammad Al Arifi titled Enjoy Your Life. Insha Allah, it will help us all to improve our characters.

    IMO being judgmental has a lot to do with dealing with our own emotion. If we are calm with any situation happens to us, it will avoid us to judge easily. When we see something is wrong, try to analyze what causes or what is the root of that problem first. Then after we know that, we know how to act. It requires a lot of patience and self control. But Insha Allah everyone will be able to achieve this on a certain level.
    :jkk: will read tge book

    I think your right when you say it's partly due to aspects of your own character.
    Ibnul Qayyim رحمه الله said: "Don’t ruin your happiness with worry, and don’t ruin your mind with pessimism. Don’t ruin your success with deception and don’t ruin the optimism of others by destroying it. Don’t ruin your day by looking back at yesterday.
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    If you think about your situation, you will find that Allaah (سبحانه وتعالى) has given you things without asking, so have trust in Allaah (سبحانه وتعالى) that He doesn’t prevent anything you want except there is goodness for you.

    You could be sleeping and the doors of the heavens are being opened with dua’as being made on your behalf, SubhanAllaah: perhaps from someone poor whom you helped, or someone sad whom you brought joy, or someone passing by and you smiled at him, or someone in distress and you removed it.. so don’t ever underestimate any good deeds."

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    • #47
      Re: How do i stop being so judgemental???

      Originally posted by Saleem Gub View Post
      she forgot ta tell ya that the thumb points at a 45 degree angle and thats terrible.
      Stick any one of your fingers out, the other 3 are pointing back towards you, the thumb was not included.
      "O' Lord, You are the Light of all, the Life of the World; You imbue each and every heart with Your Love.

      Deep inside our hearts, God is hidden; His Light is within us all."


      • #48
        Re: How do i stop being so judgemental???

        Originally posted by Talwaar View Post
        why are all the posts in this thread so long?

        essay writing contest in here?
        tl ; dr