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  • Islamic Manners: The Art of Listening

    السلام عليكم و رحمة الله و بركاته

    If a person starts telling you, whether in private or public, something that you already knew very well, you should not rush to reveal your knowledge of it or to interfere with his speech. Instead, show your attention and concentration. The honorable tab'i Ata ibn Abi Rabah (R.A.) said: "A young man would tell me something that I may have heard before he was born. Nevertheless, I would listen to him as if I had never heard it before."

    Khalid ibn Safwan al-Tamimi, who frequented the courts of two Khalifahs: Umar ibn Abdul Aziz and Hisham ibn Abdul Malik, said: "If a person tells you something you have heard before, or news that you already learned, do not interrupt him to exhibit your knowledge to those present. This is rude and ill mannered."

    The honorable Abdullah ibn Wahab al-Qurashi al-Masri (R.A.), a companion of Imam Malik (R.A.), Al-Laith ibn Sad and Al-Thawri, said: "Sometimes a person would tell me a story that I have heard before his parents had wed. Yet, I listened as if I have never heard it before." Ibrahim ibn al-Junaid said: "A wise man said to his son: 'Learn the art of listening as you learn the art of speaking.'" Listening well means maintaining eye contact, allowing the speaker to finish the speech, and restraining your urge to interrupt his speech. Al-Hafiz al-Khatib al-Baghdadi said in a poem:


    Never interrupt a talk Though you know it inside out


    Source:http://spa.qibla.com/issue_view.asp?...D=1314&CATE=88
    ~ Don’t trade a house in Jannah :insha:, for a lowly house in this transient world ~

    They want to extinguish the light of Allah with their mouths, but Allah will perfect His light, although the disbelievers dislike it (61 : 8)

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    Re: Islamic Manners: The Art of Listening

    Masha'allah that is beautiful character and a noble attitude to respond to the person talking to you.
    “Mix with the noble people, you become one of them; and keep away from evil people so that you protect yourself from their evils.”


    Hadhrat Ali (Radiallahu anhu)

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      Re: Islamic Manners: The Art of Listening

      Originally posted by Mockingjay View Post
      السلام عليكم و رحمة الله و بركاته

      If a person starts telling you, whether in private or public, something that you already knew very well, you should not rush to reveal your knowledge of it or to interfere with his speech. Instead, show your attention and concentration. The honorable tab'i Ata ibn Abi Rabah (R.A.) said: "A young man would tell me something that I may have heard before he was born. Nevertheless, I would listen to him as if I had never heard it before."

      Khalid ibn Safwan al-Tamimi, who frequented the courts of two Khalifahs: Umar ibn Abdul Aziz and Hisham ibn Abdul Malik, said: "If a person tells you something you have heard before, or news that you already learned, do not interrupt him to exhibit your knowledge to those present. This is rude and ill mannered."

      The honorable Abdullah ibn Wahab al-Qurashi al-Masri (R.A.), a companion of Imam Malik (R.A.), Al-Laith ibn Sad and Al-Thawri, said: "Sometimes a person would tell me a story that I have heard before his parents had wed. Yet, I listened as if I have never heard it before." Ibrahim ibn al-Junaid said: "A wise man said to his son: 'Learn the art of listening as you learn the art of speaking.'" Listening well means maintaining eye contact, allowing the speaker to finish the speech, and restraining your urge to interrupt his speech. Al-Hafiz al-Khatib al-Baghdadi said in a poem:


      Never interrupt a talk Though you know it inside out


      Source:http://spa.qibla.com/issue_view.asp?...D=1314&CATE=88
      :jkk: This is why I love Islam...there's so much emphasis on being good mannered and being a moral person. Alhamdulillah.

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