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Salam Aleykum brothers and sisters in Islam.
I have two friends, one male and the other female, who recently have started to be a bit mad/frustrated at each other. This once very good relationship was broken due to small mistakes from both parts.
They've both told me everything and I really don't feel comfortable being that person who they both share their problems with. I mean, I appreciate they'd like my help or just to talk to me, but as they're both good friends of mine, I have difficulty with how to act in such a case.
They both talk about each other and point of their mistakes (no back-biting at all btw!) and I agree with both of them, because they really both made some minor mistakes...
I've told both of them (not at the same time) to meet and talk about it - that I could also come if the situation is too awkard. They both rejected my idea, so now I don't know what to do? I care about both of them and I want them to be friends again.
There's a gathering coming up soon where both of them will be invited. I want them to make peace before this day, so any idea's on what I should do considering they aren't doing anything at all.
A little side note: I once made a mistake and the female friend (and classmate) was quite upset. My other classmate, who's now my friend and who taught me how to pray, told me that I should apologize and such - and so did my other friend (the one I mentioned earlier) so I did and everything was just as usual.,.. so my friend (whom this thread is about) actually told me to apologize but he isn't listening to me in this case, where I'm trying to unite them again?
I have two friends, one male and the other female, who recently have started to be a bit mad/frustrated at each other. This once very good relationship was broken due to small mistakes from both parts.
They've both told me everything and I really don't feel comfortable being that person who they both share their problems with. I mean, I appreciate they'd like my help or just to talk to me, but as they're both good friends of mine, I have difficulty with how to act in such a case.
They both talk about each other and point of their mistakes (no back-biting at all btw!) and I agree with both of them, because they really both made some minor mistakes...
I've told both of them (not at the same time) to meet and talk about it - that I could also come if the situation is too awkard. They both rejected my idea, so now I don't know what to do? I care about both of them and I want them to be friends again.
There's a gathering coming up soon where both of them will be invited. I want them to make peace before this day, so any idea's on what I should do considering they aren't doing anything at all.
A little side note: I once made a mistake and the female friend (and classmate) was quite upset. My other classmate, who's now my friend and who taught me how to pray, told me that I should apologize and such - and so did my other friend (the one I mentioned earlier) so I did and everything was just as usual.,.. so my friend (whom this thread is about) actually told me to apologize but he isn't listening to me in this case, where I'm trying to unite them again?
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